Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything

My heart broke…I broke…open… I demanded ENOUGH!… and I imploded like the volcano here in Bali, swimming in toxic waste from deep within. I broke… Have you ever broke? Was is breaking down or breaking free? What came for me after the breaking?..... The Beyond Abuse Revolution is revived and more importantly free to be the space of the light of possibility, a beacon, for anyone. It’s here however moving beyond abuse calls you. This is a movement to LIVE radically and orgasmically alive from the joy and space of choice, creation, possibility and contribution. How might this revolution, this movement, seep into the atmosphere, that much farther as the lightness of choice, the generativity of allowance, and the kindness of space that creates new worlds, new realities and healthy, happy bodies? This is Living Radically Alive!

Have you noticed the difference of when you go to lockdown and when you let go? Lockdown is a causal incarnation that begins during the initial abuse. It locks you into a pattern of limitation. When there is a conflictual divorce or disharmonious ending of any kind, some will choose to forget everything that had gone on prior to that ending, and all the greatness of it. THIS IS LOCKDOWN. They base the lockdown on the projection, expectation, separation, rejection or judgement they locked you into as well as themselves. These projections will then become the reason and justification of every reason why they just can’t be with you! When you choose Letting Go there is communion all the way; with yourself, with the change, and with the other party. A letting go is a creation energy for what is now possible, together and apart. Join me 10 am Tuesday PST drlisacooney.com/my-radio-show/

Have you noticed the multitude of change required in this world? Do you keep wondering “when is someone going to DO something about it?!” Are you the someone who will? Benevolent Leadership is a state of being where: “you become the catalyst for a different possibility in life and in the world.” Is it possible you have a capacity to make a difference in this world that you have been avoiding? When you are living from a space of disempowerment, abuse, and total denial of your very being, you maybe wondering, how do you even choose the possibilities to BE a benevolent leader in your own life let alone the world? What if your history of abuse can fuel the benevolent leader you truly be? I invite you to join me and Chutisa Bowman as we offer insights and facilitation to empower the Benevolent Leader within YOU. Are you willing to BE the benevolent leader the world is asking for?

Some say you have to be courageous to look at abuse, to be willing to have it come out of the layers of skin that are holding it in. Some say this is painful and ugly and they would rather have unawareness about it all. What if that is the very lie that keeps you from the f r e e d o m of an abuse-less living, an abuse-less body? Do you have secret, hidden, Shards of Abuse deep within your skin? Have you told yourself “it wasn't really abuse” or that you have “moved passed all of this”? Often when people are in a car accident where their body takes damage from the windshield, the glass will enter and stay within the body. Years later this glass can surface sometimes from under a bump or pimple. Some glass never leaves and sits under the skin for a life time. What if removing, eradicating and eliminating abuse from your world could be full of ease? What if it could even be joyful? “say what?!” Team BAR will reveal all about embodying the revolution beyond abuse...

Are you wondering if you are caught in an invisible cage of financial abuse? Financial abuse is a pervasive form of disempowerment that can easily be hidden and misidentified as normalcy. Living with these stuck limited financial realities can be creating the lock keeping you from the freedom and ease with finances that is truly possible. Where you have embodied this and made it as your own financial reality? If you are willing to change your point of view about finances and money you can change anything regarding it! Are you are willing to create a new financial reality? Join special guest, Curry Glassell, and myself as we offer facilitation, tools and information that will empower you to receive the money, the cash, and the currency in all forms that you desire and it no longer be just a dream.

Have you noticed the difference between those that embrace Radical Aliveness and those that live in a Forceful Intensity? When you you are choosing creation it can come together like the expressive strokes of a paintbrush resulting in a masterpiece of vivid colors. If you are using force, if you are ignoring the whispers of consciousness, you are not creating your life. To be in a constant state of adrenaline and override is self abuse. What has been misidentified and misapplied here? Ask yourself: Am I living Radically Alive or am I being a Forceful Intensity? What if it Radical Aliveness could be healing, rejuvenating, and even full of ease?! Join me as I unravel the misconceptions of what Radical Aliveness truly is. Live callers will have a chance to receive facilitation on my radio show, Tuesday July 14th @ 10am PST/1pm. Are you willing to have the ease, joy and glory of true Radical Aliveness?

When you become a Radical Demand for yourself and claim, “I’m Having It!” you let the Universe (and yourself) know you are choosing - demanding - everything that you desire. It requires a lot of vulnerability to demand this, believe it or not. If you’ve ever been abused, your energy was violated, your space was infiltrated and your awareness was numbed out. When you say, “I’m Having It!” you open to trusting your awareness. You begin to follow your awareness and allow your body to guide your choices so you create what you are asking for. How do you allow your body to guide your choices? Join special guest, Nirmada The Radical Demand Diva and me for a revolutionary show and Nirmada created a special gift just for my community! When you sign up for a FREE CHAPTER from her book, “Love in the Next 10 Seconds,” you will also receive a FREE BONUS GIFT of the Clearing Loop that accompanies this chapter. You can sign up for her free gift here: www.RadicalDemand.com/VoiceAmerica

Have you ever gotten stuck in the vortex of wrongness? It’s not a very fun place to be. It’s filled with self-judgements and self-hatred. It’s a place of condemnation and conclusion. The vortex of wrongness sucks energy from you, your body, your relationships, your money flows… Nothing seems possible, and it makes living a phenomenal life seem like a pipe dream. So what do you do to get out of the vortex of wrongness? Join special guest, Nirmada Kaufman, and myself as we share pragmatic tools and radical facilitation to support you in getting out of the wrongness of you. What else is possible when you step into the RIGHTNESS OF YOU? Nirmada created a special gift just for my community! When you sign up for a FREE CHAPTER from her book, “Love in the Next 10 Seconds,” you will also receive a FREE BONUS GIFT of the Clearing Loop that accompanies this chapter. You can sign up for her free gift here: www.RadicalDemand.com/VoiceAmerica

Have you ever had one of those ENOUGH moments? You look at your life or your relationship and it’s not what you desire. You realize you’ve put other’s needs above your own. You haven’t included yourself in your choices. And you say, “ENOUGH!” But then what? What do you do to get out of the cycle of abuse that led to this ENOUGH moment so you create the life and relationship you desire? You become a Radical Demand for yourself. You commit to including YOURSELF in all your choices. You don’t make other people’s needs more important than yours. When you are a Radical Demand you make choices that are inclusive and expansive for everyone. Join special guest, Nirmada Kaufman, and myself and discover tools to become a Radical Demand for yourself so you create the life and relationship you desire. Live callers have the chance to receive facilitation from both of us. Sign up for Nirmada’s special gift here: www.RadicalDemand.com/VoiceAmerica For Voice America Listeners

Do you create plans with your Enjoyable Other and then feel trapped by them? Do you feel locked in a pattern with your partner that you just can’t seem to escape? If you’re stuck in the invisible cage of abuse, navigating your relationship dynamics can feel like rafting through white water rapids. What can you do to create another possibility? Join me and special guest, Nirmada Kaufman, Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator and author of, “Love in the Next 10 Seconds,” for a revolutionary conversation about creating a new kind of relationship. Live callers will have the chance to receive facilitation from both of us! (Nirmada created a special gift just for my community! When you sign up for her FREE CHAPTER you will also receive a FREE BONUS GIFT of the Clearing Loop that accompanies this chapter. Sign up for the free chapter here: www.RadicalDemand.com/VoiceAmerica)

Sexual abuse – and often, any form of abuse – takes the act of receiving and the act of sex and crushes and confuses them in our minds and bodies. You develop barriers and blocks to receiving. You develop judgments about your body and sex. Your reality becomes twisted. In order to have everything you desire in your life, your body, your business, your relationships and beyond, there are 4 choices you can make to unlock yourself from the lies of sex. What are these 4 choices and how might they tap you into the phenomenance of embodiment and the pleasure of sexualness? Join special guest, Patty Alfonso, and myself for a radical and intimate conversation about sexualness as the ultimate receiving. Discover pragmatic tools for unlocking your own sexualness. Live callers will have a chance to receive facilitation from both of us.

How are the patterns of abuse still creating disharmony in your body? Have you put up barriers to block yourself from receiving? Have you toned down your sexualness in order to be “safe”? Do you lock your body into limitation based on what you think you can and can not do? If limitation and lockdown are all you’ve ever known you may be locking yourself out of the luscious possibility of radical aliveness. How would you like to go beyond the lockdown, beyond the limitations, and discover the magic that you truly be? Let me show you how! Join special guest, Patty Alfonso, and myself for this show to discover pragmatic (and fun!) tools for unlocking the MAGIC of YOU. Live callers will have the chance to receive facilitation from both of us.

What do perfectionism and procrastination have in common? They are both manifestations of anxiety and fear. They are both related to the need to control the future. They are both rooted in judgment. They are both ways we stop ourselves from being as potent as we truly be. There's an obsessive-compulsive aspect to this thinking that can start to feel like you're running on a never-ending hamster wheel. So how do you change all this? Join me and special guest, Dr. Adriana Popescu, as we share pragmatic tools and questions you can use to get off the hamster wheel of perfectionism and procrastination. Let’s end the insanity of this form of self-abuse! Live callers will have the chance to receive facilitation from both of us. You can also check out Dr. Adrian’s special offers just for you: FREE! 10 Tools for Coping with Anxiety: http://adrianapopescu.org/

Do you get caught up with worrying excessively about the future? Do you expect that the absolute worst case scenario can and will occur? Do you obsessively play out a scene over and over in your mind, thinking you can control the outcome? All of these can cause a racing heart, butterflies in your stomach, feelings of fear and panic, and even a sense of impending doom. All of this is catastrophic thinking. What causes catastrophic thinking? What is at the core of catastrophic thinking? What is its connection with abuse? Join special guest, Dr. Adriana Popescu and me, to discover pragmatic tools you can use to stop the anxiety caused by catastrophic thinking. Join us LIVE to receive facilitation from both of us! Catastrophic thinking is another pervasive form of self-abuse. Isn’t it time you say NO MORE and kick abuse in the caboose?

What is a phobia? It’s an irrational or exaggerated fear or aversion to things like animals, water, flying, public speaking and social situations. Phobias stem from negative self-judgment and thoughts like: ~I'm not good enough. ~I’m not strong enough. ~This thing is bigger than me. ~This fear is bigger than me. If you’ve ever been abused, you may also struggle with phobias. The residue of abuse coupled with a fear of losing control can severely impact – and limit – your life. How do you move beyond your phobia? You don’t need to live a limited, fearful life. Join me and special guest, Dr. Adriana Popescu, for a revolutionary conversation on phobias and abuse and discover pragmatic tools for reining in your phobia so you can be radically (and confidently) alive! Interested in receiving support for moving beyond your phobia or anxiety? Here’s a special offer Dr. Adriana put together for Dr. Lisa’s community: http://adrianapopescu.org/products/special-offer/

Have you ever gotten stuck head tripping? Where it’s hard to breathe and you’re stuck in your head that’s spitting out some version of the story, “You suck!” and “Something is definitely wrong here!” If you’re stuck in anxiety and/or the invisible cage of abuse, you may be plagued with a pervasive sense of being defective, evil and unlovable. What if anxiety isn’t something to fix and escape? What if it’s not a wrongness? What is right about anxiety? Here are 3 questions to consider to escape the head tripping: Is it really anxiety or is it excitement? What if your anxiety is actually a heightened awareness of other people around you? Where have you made your head tripping more vital (significant/important) than your capacities? Join me and special guest, Adriana Popescu, Ph.D., for a revolutionary conversation about Anxiety and Abuse. We’ll share more tools and provide facilitation for those who call in live.

When you begin to release the “lockdown” that your body has been trapped in for years (and sometimes even decades) you are inviting a new possibility of communion with your body. In so doing, you may experience: shame, pain and/or pleasure as you become radically and orgasmically alive. (1) Shame: How might you free yourself from this shame? (2) Pain: How might you release the pain while increasing your awareness for how your body is a contribution to others? (3) Pleasure: When you come out of lockdown you are able to receive the sensations of your body and the world around you. How can you fully receive this pleasure without going into shame or lockdown again? Join Dr. Lisa and special guest, Patty Alfonso, and receive pragmatic tools and facilitation to move beyond the shame and pain and into the magic of you and your radically and orgasmically alive body. No matter what, never give in, never give up and always create you as you desire.

In facilitating “Radically Alive Beyond Abuse” and the “3-Day Access Consciousness Body Class” around the world, I’ve seen again and again how people go into “lockdown” to defend, protect or otherwise try to take care of their bodies in response to abuse. They become stiff and rigid. They may be filled with pain. They develop chronic issues like shoulder or back pain that never goes away. Or they may feel numb and dissociated. Either way, their body becomes an enemy rather than an ally. Are You Stuck In Lockdown? I invite you to join me and special guest, Patty Alfonso, for my revolutionary radio show. Live callers will have a chance to receive facilitation from both of us in coming out of lockdown and using the 5 elements of intimacy to come into communion with your body. All listeners will gain pragmatic tools, inspiration and hope in discovering your body as a friend once again.

If you took money to couple’s therapy, what would it say about you? Would it say it feels validated and adored or traumatized and anxious? If your money is feeling traumatized, you may be perpetuating your abuse with money. Join me and special guest, Christine McCarthy, Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator, as we explore what financial abuse looks like, the mistakes you may be making that keep you locked in financial abuse, and what you can do instead to move beyond financial abuse and into another possibility with money. We’ll both share about our personal and professional experiences in overcoming financial abuse. An entrepreneur for over a decade, Christine plays an essential role in the success of her father’s family-owned winery (McCarthy Family Estate Vineyards) and has worked extensively in both commercial and residential real estate.

The Stockholm Syndrome describes feelings of trust and empathy that can develop with one’s captors or abusers. Although it sounds crazy (who would actually have empathy for their own kidnapper or abuser?), this is an unconscious strategy that a person uses to survive. They figure, if I join with my kidnapper (or abuser) then the tension and overwhelm of the threat gets minimized. This syndrome occurs in all kinds of abuse cases - from kidnapping to domestic violence and beyond. This perpetuates the abuse and keeps people locked in the invisible cage of abuse. If you’ve ever been abused, or are currently in an abusive situation, you may be experiencing the Stockholm Syndrome. What does this look like? How do you get unlocked from the Syndrome and the cage? Join us for this revolutionary conversation about the Stockholm Syndrome and discover pragmatic tools you can use to get unlocked from the invisible cage of abuse.