Divorce Conversations For Women

Rhonda sits down with Christian speaker and author, Laura Sandretti to discuss all the ways women stay stuck in guilt and shame by the way they talk to themselves. It is possible to reprogram your mind to break free from what is holding you back.  Pay attention to how you talk to yourself and work to change the conversation going on in your own head. Most importantly, give yourself grace.    About today’s guest:   Laura Sandretti has been a Christian speaker, blogger, and author for over ten years. She has her master's degree in Theological Studies and is a former high school teacher and women's ministry director.    Connect with Laura:   Website   Facebook   LinkedIn   Instagram   YouTube Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, b

Are you re-entering the job market - or wanting to uplevel your current position? Rhonda and Career Coach Nikki Ryberg talk about ways to maximize this current climate. Nikki offers suggestions on ways to get creative as you transition, and shares her advice on how to land the job you really want. Be sure to check out Nikki’s website below to access her free course. About today’s guest:   After 15+ years in HR leadership roles, Nikki Ryberg transitioned to become a Career Coach and Resume Writer. Nikki helps clients all over the US and Canada figure out what they want to do for a job or career and then how to best go about getting it, with a focus on search materials and mock interviews. Connect with Nikki on LinkedIn and visit her website to access her free course! Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professiona

Rhonda and Cheree talk openly about life as a busy Mom - whether you’re running your own business, or just managing your household, you CAN find balance. The key is to shift your perspective, know yourself, and take some time to think about what you value most. If you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, (and who isn’t these days?) this episode will offer practical tips to make some changes.    About today’s guest:   Cheree Sauer is a Life and Mindset Coach for Momprenreneurs and has her own podcast, The Balanced Mompreneur. Her company, Heartfelt Mamas helps mompreneurs go from surviving to thriving in life, business and faith.   Her story; her words:    For 15 years, I was an Athletic Trainer with a Master's Degree in Sports Medicine where I helped athletes prevent and overcome injury and burnout. After having children, I found myself burnt-out from a demanding job and travel schedule. I took a leap of faith, quit my job and became a stay at home.    After 4 months of being a stay at home mom, I was depress

Today’s conversation is a first for us! Rhonda and Attorney Robert Taylor sit down to discuss what divorce looks like if you or your spouse serves in the military. Finding an attorney who specializes in this area is key as you navigate the rules and regulations of being a military couple. They tackle the topics:   Where should you get divorced? Housing and retirement Benefits   If you are in the military or married to someone who is, and contemplating divorce, this is a must listen episode!   About today’s guest:   Taylor Law & Mediation was started by attorney and mediator Robert J. Taylor in Mountain Home, Idaho, in 2013. The firm expanded to Boise, Idaho, in 2020 and offers the same quality service in both locations.    By focusing on mediation as a primary option and not a court of last resort, Taylor Law & Mediation provides a low-cost alternative to traditional litigation. Mediation is less expensive than litigation; it is often quicker and puts the participants in control of the final outcome

Rhonda’s guest today is Christine Cocchiola, Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, & Survivor.   Rhonda and Christine tackle the difficult topic of Coercive Control - what it is, and how it affects you and your children. There are many forms of abuse, including in your finances. Christine offers practical tactics and strategies to keep you safe and supported.    About today’s guest:    Christine Cocchiola is a college educator and clinician in social work. She is an advocate for protective parents leaving an abusive relationship and/or trying to parent children who have grown up in the family dynamics of a coercive controller. Christine is a researcher of post separation abuse experiences of adult and child victims and currently obtaining her PHD at New York University. Ways to connect with Christine and access her resources:   Website   Instagram Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for

Are you wondering if mediation is right for you? Rhonda and Alison discuss the questions to ask yourself, your spouse, and your potential mediator before moving forward.    Mediation can be a great option but it’s important to know how the process works to know if it’s right for you and your family.  About today’s guest:   Family means everything to Alison, which is why she has dedicated herself to peacemaking in divorce and helping families restructure in the most amicable way possible.   Alison is a family mediator and attorney who enjoys working with clients, learning about their children and financial goals, and counseling them on their options so they can make informed decisions that are right for them and for their families.   She has written articles on the benefits of mediation and collaborative divorce for families, including on how these processes improve the mental health of children in divorce.   Alison is  an executive committee member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association's Family Law Sect

Rhonda sits down with Family Recovery Coach Lisa Smith to discuss how addiction affects the entire family. Lisa offers some practical ways to establish your own personal values and set healthy boundaries. Start by asking yourself, “What do I need right now?”   About today’s guest: Lisa Smith is a Certified Family Recovery Coach & Educator. She has lived experience with addiction in her own family and went in search for answers and a better way to connect, move forward and have influence when the resources being given to her were not working.  Lisa holds certifications in peer recovery coaching with a focus on family systems, CRAFT (community reinforcement and family training) and Invitation to Change. She supports families who are living with the disease of addiction in their lives to find the awareness and self-compassion for themselves to grow and heal, understand the neuroscience of addiction and why behaviors make sense in their loved ones and bring science and kindness together to connect and communi

Marriage and family therapist Gilza Fort Martinez talks with Rhonda about leaning into the uncertainty of separation and divorce. They address how to ground your emotions and begin to dream of possibilities for yourself. Divorce can be an opportunity to rebuild your life when you have the right people by your side.   About today’s guest:   Gilza Fort Martinez is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Miami, Florida. She has worked with women in their families through various life‘s transitions, and has helped women after betrayal to re-create their sense of self.    Gilza also works with couples where there has been betrayal and encourages reconnection between them when possible.   Connect with Gilza:   Website   Facebook   Instagram   LinkedIn Rhonda and Gilza mention speaker and author Mel Robbins - check her out HERE.   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how fi

Family Law Attorney, author and speaker Ashley-Nicole Russell is our guest today! Ashley-Nicole and Rhonda do a deep dive on collaborative divorce - what it is, and how it compares to other available options. This is a raw and  honest look into a broken system and why choosing collaboration might be the right answer for you.   If you’re contemplating divorce, do not miss this conversation! About today’s guest:   Ashley-Nicole Russell, Esq. is an award-winning family law attorney, author, and speaker who is changing the way divorce is perceived around the world. She is widely-known as a dedicated, passionate, and trustworthy attorney with integrity. She is committed to protecting her clients while understanding the needs of their families. As a child of divorce and divorcee, she brings a unique, relatable, and personal understanding to AN|R Law Offices and the communities it serves. As the first collaborative law firm in eastern North Carolina, AN|R Law has office locations in Greenville, Raleigh, Beaufort,

Rhonda and Attorney Tina Roddenbery discuss the new trend of “gray divorce” and how divorcing later in life presents unique challenges. They look at 5 key areas to consider as you move through the process. If this is you, listen in and take notes!   About today’s guest:   Tina has focused her practice on all aspects of family and domestic relations law, including divorce, division of assets, custody, alimony, child support, support modification, legitimation, paternity, and contempt since 1987. She has held many leadership positions in the legal profession, including serving as a fellow of the Georgia Chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, an exclusive organization of the nation's preeminent family law practitioners, a fellow in the Georgia Chapter of the International Academy of Family Lawyers, a master of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Law Inn of Court, past chair of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia, former Trustee and member of the Executive Committee of the Board

Join Rhonda as she talks with Divorce Coach, Twyla Marks about moving forward after divorce. They discuss 3 key things to help you find confidence, contentment, and joy after the dust settles.    About today’s guest:   Twyla M.Marks is a woman of God who exemplifies the life of an overcomer. She's a Texas native, sports lover, specifically speaking, a Dallas Cowboys lover, and has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She's a single mother of two adult children. Her daughter is a college graduate of the University of North Texas and her son is entering his junior year at Texas Tech. She is a survivor of a toxic marriage which sadly led to divorce. Her marital roller coaster ride and recovery have positioned her as an expert on helping struggling relationships find resolutions. She's a new author, podcast host, speaker, and creator of the Facebook group Life After Divorce Get Your H-A-P-P-Y back!   Connect with Twyla on her website: https://twylammarks.com/   Be sure to tune into her LIVE show each

You may not be ready for this just yet, but it’s something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships.    Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly’s special offer! About today’s guest: Dr. Holly Battey   Dr. Holly helps conscious single men and women find the love of their dreams. With a doctorate in clinical psychology, she founded Find Love At Last in 2014 to help sincere clients find lasting love and has been a matchmaker, coach, and image consultant for over 9 years. Dr. Holly is a dating expert and inspiring speaker who empowers and speaks on image, strategy, online dating, partner suitability, communication,and commitment. She is based in San Francisco, California, and works with clients around the world.   Connect with Dr. Battey:   Website:    https://www.findloveatlast.com/ Facebook:    https://www.facebook.com/groups/1178662715802614 Link

Do you have a plan? Rhonda talks with Attorney Ashley Lillesand about the importance of establishing an estate plan - especially if you have minor children. Choosing the right people to handle your affairs is an empowering process and will bring you peace of mind post-divorce. It’s easier than you think!   About our guest:   Attorney Ashley E. Lillesand is the managing partner at Lillesand Law LLC. She focuses her practice on Estate Planning, Estate & Trust Administration, Guardianship and Probate. Prior to attending law school, Ashley worked for a non-profit organization assisting clients through guardianship and making decisions regarding placement, medicaid, end of life, etc. She works directly with each and every client to establish an estate plan that meets the clients' needs and addresses their concerns. She focuses on educating her clients on the options and procedures involved in planning and administration. Ashley is resourceful and tries to ensure that clients do not feel intimidated or overwhel

On today’s episode, Rhonda sits down with Attorney Lindsay Renier to discuss how to prepare for trial. It’s not necessarily what anyone wants, but it’s a possibility, and you need to be prepared. Lindsay shares ways to set yourself up for success during the process. About today’s guest:   Lindsay Renier is the Owner & Attorney with Renier Hotopp Law.   As the owner and operator of Renier Hotopp Law, Lindsay represents women going through divorce or child custody issues. She not only represents her clients as they navigate through challenging legal issues, but she also encourages, emboldens, inspires and strengthens women as they endure one of the most difficult times of their lives. Lindsay operates a Boutique Law Firm and works directly and intimately with each of her clients, encouraging them to fight for what they have a legal right to, and emboldens them to demand what is needed for a brighter future ahead - for themselves and for their children. Lindsay is a fierce litigator and a savvy negotiator.

Rhonda and her guest, Cherie Morris, discuss conflict resolution and practical ways to communicate effectively. Cherie explains the BIFF method and other strategies for communicating so that you can begin to honor yourself in times of stress and conflict.    Grab Cherie’s free download!   https://deardivorcecoach.com/request-transform-conflict-in-your-life/   More about our guest:   Cherie practiced law for many years before transitioning to full-time coaching seven years ago. Her own divorce informed her awareness of a missing link in life transitions, especially separation and divorce. Cherie believes having an objective thinking partner, an expert in communication, and transformational communication, allows her clients to plan for their success to more fully support their children too.    Cherie uses tools from many modalities including referrals to legal, financial, and therapeutic professionals but also helps them implement specific meditation and action-oriented practices to address their wholeness as

Attorney Dennis Vetrano talks with Rhonda about ways you can build your team and set yourself up for financial success. They discuss pre and post nups, the importance of setting up a budget, and ways to prepare yourself for a healthy financial future separate from your spouse. You don’t want to miss any of this conversation!   --   Today’s guest is Dennis Vetrano, Jr., Attorney and Owner of the Law Office of Dennis Vetrano, Jr. LLC in Dutchess County, NY.    Vetrano graduated from SUNY Albany with a BachelorsDegree, Major: Political Science, Minor: Economics. Shortly after passing the bar in 1999, Mr. Vetrano accepted a job with The Law Office of Alice K. Berke, a small but aggressive general practice litigation firm in the City of Albany. For the next three years, Mr. Vetrano was able to really hone his skills as a young lawyer, handling everything from complex estate/probate litigation cases in Manhattan to federal criminal defense cases in Federal District Court to contested divorce/family law litigation c

Rhonda talks with Podcast Host and Coach, Kate Anthony about how women can take care of themselves as they contemplate divorce. Kate tackles the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go?   About our guest, Kate Anthony:   Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teena

Claire and Rhonda talk about rituals and how they help you move forward during any kind of transition. Tune in for their discussion of the 5 stages of ritual and how that can help you navigate through change. This episode gives practical tips that you can begin to implement into your life today!   About our guest:   Claire Jones is a Change Guide that supports conscious visionaries who are navigating transitional spaces in their personal or professional lives.    Through bespoke rituals of intention, she guides people through transitioning into something, out of something, or looking for something new.    Connect with Claire:   Company Website  www.liminalclarity.com    Facebook  facebook.com/liminalclarity    LinkedIn  linkedin.com/in/claireejones    Instagram  instagram.com/liminalclarity    YouTube  youtube.com/channel/UCxnup793zBiHtV6eXsuod5w  _____________________________________   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to

Our guest today is Tina Swithin, Author and Family Court Advocate. Tina founded One Mom’s Battle after navigating a high-conflict divorce in the California Family Court System. Rhonda and Tina discuss the importance of documentation, preparation, and strategy to take on these difficult domestic abuse cases. Grab a pen - you’ll want to take notes! Connect with Tina:   Company Website - www.onemomsbattle.com    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/onemomsbattle    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinaswithin/    Twitter - @onemomsbattle    Instagram - @onemomsbattle    YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCI4AhUPJiUSU_wqtSqRoaOw About Tina:   In 2009, One Mom’s Battle (OMB) began with one mother, Tina Swithin, navigating a high-conflict divorce in the California Family Court System while in pro per. When Tina named her blog, “One Mom’s Battle,” she truly felt alone and isolated in her journey. After going public with her story in 2011, Tina quickly realized that she was not alone, and that narciss

Our guest today is Brian Victor, Attorney, JD, and LMFT. Brian is a family law attorney in San Diego, California focusing on the mediation of divorce, child custody, and parent plans. Brian has experience as a Family Court Counselor and brings us a unique perspective on the divorce process. He and Rhonda discuss mediation options and the importance of a good parenting plan.    Connect with Brian: The Law Offices of Brian A. Victor https://brianvictorlaw.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lawofficesbrianavictor/ Instagram: @Brianav7 Twitter: @brianvictorlaw   More about our guest, Brian Victor: Prior to running his own practice, Brian worked 11 ½ years as a Family Court Counselor at the San Diego Superior Court Family Court Services. Brian has been named one of the best divorce lawyers in San Diego between 2016 and 2021. He was named a Super Lawyers Rising Star from 2015 to 2020. _____________________________ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has