The Tantric Lounge Radio Show

An element of Tantra is cathecting (or plugging into) the divine in yourself and your partner. In this episode of The Tantric Lounge we’re going to look at the divine feminine and the divine masculine and consider why it’s important for modern day people to tap into this aspect of themselves and of reality in general. It’s the Bhakti-yoga part of Tantra, the devotional, heart-centred part of spiritual growth - which all leads to more blissful states of being. Download Audio: Cathecting the Divine

Tantra is all about developing spiritually, moving towards transcendence, a state of bliss. As you advance in sexual Tantra love-making feels like a wave of bliss. It feels like you're surfing through the waves of bliss. It’s very different to the standard of bigger-harder-faster sex of the West. In this episode we’re going to be looking at what it takes to be able to do this. How do you discipline your body, mind and emotions to be able to become so unattached to outcome that you have such an outcome?! It’s a paradox - the doing of not doing, the feeling of not feeling. Yep, this week folks we’re getting down and deep into the spirituality of it all. Tune in to find out more, down on The Tantric Lounge… Download Audio:Riding the Tantric Wave

More than ever, children and adolescents need to be well educated about sex. If young people are well informed, if they know that their sexuality is a good and powerful thing, they will use it in a positive way to enhance their lives, however that may manifest for them as individuals with their own unique sexuality. Given the current ‘porn star VS prude’ approach to sex in our society - where you’re either supposed to be out there having crazy sex or you’re the prude who thinks sex is somehow ‘wrong’ - this is a big ask. It’s particularly big given that so many parents have issues around their own sexuality. So how do you raise your kids to have a positive healthy attitude sex? Tune in to The Tantric Lounge to find out… Download Audio: Bringing Kids Up Sex Positive

We Westerners love to put things in boxes, especially sex. Sex is something different from life, something ‘other’. So people tend to think that Tantric Sex is replacing the ‘sex’ box with the ‘Tantric sex’ box. If Tantra is more about life than just about sex, then what is a Tantric Life? How do you live La Vida Tantrica? In this episode Xavier and I look at how you live outside the ‘automaton’ life so many people lead these days and start ‘Tantracizing’ life so that you experience the profound in the everyday. To use one of Xavier’s lovely analogies “What’s the Tantra Dust recipe?” Tune in find out… Download Audio: Living La Vida Tantrika

The Tantric Lounge is back for its second season, sponsored by the fabulous folk at Lelo, the world’s leading designer brand for intimate products. The Tantric Lounge remains a sleaze-free zone, devoted to beauty and meaning in sex, love and intimacy - this is where sex is an art and sex is a science. But it’s not just about sex, at least, not just about what so many people think Tantric sex is about. So in this episode my co-host Xavier and I are doing some Tantric myth-busting! Is Tantra some weird hippie practice that involves hours of sex and orgies? Or is it an approach to living, a way of being in the world that encompasses sexuality rather than marginalising it or trying to ‘transcend’ it? Find out this week, down on The Tantric Lounge. Download Audio:Tantric Myth-Busting

Over the past few episodes we’ve been looking at women and looking at men, now we’re going to look at them both together and talk about couples and sex. But there’s no use talking about sex before we talk about getting to sex. It’s where modern couples fall down and in this show we’re going to look at why this happens and what to do about. When you get the ‘getting to sex’ part right, you get the sex right. I call it the Beforeplay… Download Audio: Beforeplay

In this program Xavier and I will be talking with Grant Soosalu about the Sex Brain. Grant and his colleague Marvin Oka have developed the concept of mbraining, based on our multiple brains. The head, heart and gut brains are well known in science, and reflect ancient tantric and Taoist knowledge. Based on this ancient wisdom, Grant and I suspect there is also a Sex Brain, based around the genitals. Each of the other brains has it’s primary function, so what could be the prime function of the sex brain, and how do you get them all aligned so that you living fully congruently? Download Audio: The Sex Brain

What does a Sex Therapist do, and how does Tantra fit into contemporary sex therapy? Find out in this program! Xavier quizzes me in depth on the kind of cases I have and how I deal with them. With lots of case studies of real life clients this is a fascinating peek into what goes on in my consulting rooms. You might even find quite a bit of yourself in there.... Download Audio: Therapy With A Twist of Tantra

Last week we talked about woman - stuff you need to know as a woman to feel good about your womanliness and your sexuality. This week we’re going to look at how you take that empowered sense of female sexuality into partnered sex, for fabulous results. I’lll be showing you how to release the goddess within! In fact, I'll talk about all seven sex goddesses within! So please join me and my co-host Xavier down on The Tantric Lounge to discover so much more about female sexuality than you might ever have imagined… Download Audio: Great Sex? Release the Goddess Within!

This week’s program is all about women! We’ll be talking about what every woman (and her partner!) needs to know about her biology, her psychology and her energy to be able to feel luscious and sexual. We won’t say too much more here, as this is secret women’s business. So join me and my co-host Xavier down on The Tantric Lounge to discover the secrets… Download Audio: Secret Women’s Business

I meet a lot of sensual explorers - people on a quest to find meaning in their sexuality, people who know that sexuality and spirituality are linked, that the concept of conscious sexuality is important. I'm often asked by clients and workshop participants: "Where can I practice this and how can I meet people interested in Tantra, Spirituality and Conscious Sexuality?" The answer is: at The Tantric Lounge Live! Drawing on knowledge and experience from a range of traditions, combined with modern science and transpersonal coaching practice, every month I host the Tantric Lounge Live, where over three hours I lead practices and discussion around consciousness, sexuality and spirituality. In this week’s program I’m explaining why I run the Lounge live, what we do, and what participants get out of it. Along the way, you’ll get a lot of insight and practical advice! Download Audio: The Tantric Lounge Live

What does it take for a man to be a Black Belt in the bedroom? Not hot tips and tricks. It’s actually all about who he is being, not what he is doing. He needs to embody the five ‘C’s: calm, confident, connected, in control and creative. Learn more in this very educational show! Download Audio: Black Belt in the Bedroom

This program is all about men! I’ll share my insights from Tantric traditions and modern science and my own considerable experience working with countless men in therapy and coaching sessions and workshops. I’ll bust some more myths about men and sexuality, and replace them with positive, practical knowledge and ideas to help all men become great lovers! Download Audio: Secret Men’s Business

We’re on a roll busting myths and giving you real information about sex and sexuality. We’ve shown that a lot of our sexual beliefs are misconceptions, that men and women aren’t that different, and that what is different is good and complementary! So this week let’s look at how we came to be this way - why are humans so sexy? We’ll look at the evolution of human sexuality, and how understanding the yin and yang of sex makes so much sense - plus how you can use this information to create a wonderful empowered sex life for yourself! Download Audio: Why Humans Are So Sexy

In our fourth show down on The Tantric Lounge, my co-host Xavier and I are continuing to bust myths and ditch beliefs that limit us and hold us back from reaching our sexual potential! Last week it was that men and women are more similar than different. This week we’re celebrating the differences. Yes, there are differences and those differences are good - vive la difference! We are the complementary sexes, not the opposite sexes. In the practical part of the show we’re going to start moving sexual energy in our bodies. So join us on the Tantric Lounge and move closer to your sexual potential… Download Audio: Vive La Difference!

Show three is here and down on The Tantric Lounge my co-host Xavier Waterkeyn and I are well and truly off and running, taking listeners on their way to sexual empowerment! On the Tantric Lounge we’re busy busting myths and ditching beliefs that limit us and hold us back from reaching our sexual potential. Last week it was the myth that sex is a base, animalistic activity, not a higher human endeavour, and this week we’re looking at myths around men and women: that men are more sexual than women, or that we are ‘opposite’ rather than ‘complementary’ sexes. With conversations that are at times side-splittingly funny or deeply moving, we'll inform and inspire! This program’s practical activity will be developing your pelvic floor - it might sound dull, but oh boy, get your pelvic floor working and sex will start happening…! So come join us on The Tantric lounge. It’s the start of a whole new journey… Download Audio: Men Are From Earth, Women Are From Earth

In the second show of The Tantric Lounge I start busting myths! I start with the two biggest ones that get in the way of fulfilling our sexual potential: (1) That sex is a base activity, not part of high human endeavor; and (2) that men are more sexual than women. These myths have been around a long time and are still ingrained in our communal psyche. They’ve led to sexual ignorance, sexual suppression, sexual ignorance and a hell of a lot of unhappy people - men and women. I will correct this history of sexual misinformation and start to get you clear on why these myths get in the way of your personal empowerment. It might sound heavy, but with my clarity and lighthearted explanation you’ll find those myths busting without effort at all! And this week’s practical activity will be on learning to breathe from your belly, the key to getting present in your body. Download Audio:Myth Busting

In my very first show, I invite you to join me down on the lounge and get to know me up close and personally. My creative collaborator, Xavier Waterkeyn, will be interviewing me to get at the heart of who I am, what I know, and what I believe to be the keys to your personal empowerment by embracing your awesome untapped sexual potential. I’m a Sex Therapist and Coach so anything goes. We’re talking sex, we’re talking science and we’re talking spirituality. Most importantly, we’re talking about YOU and how you can reach your sexual potential. Each week I’ll present a practical activity that you can explore in the privacy and comfort of your own lounge. This week’s activity will be the most important element of all: Being Present. So come join us on The Tantric lounge. It’s the start of a whole new journey… Download Audio: Getting to Know Jacqueline