How We'll Live Podcast

In this episode of Figuring It Out, I sit down with Ronit Menashe — co-founder of WeNatal, former and functional medicine advocate — for an honest and empowering conversation about fertility, egg quality, and preconception health. Ronit opens up about her own heartbreaking experience: a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks, a doctor who told her it was "just her age," and the moment she decided to stop listening to the conventional narrative and start doing the research herself. What she found changed everything — and ultimately led to her conceiving naturally at 42, without IVF, and later co-founding WeNatal, a science-backed prenatal supplement line that has now supported over 30,000 families.   In this episode, we cover: •What "trimester zero" is and why it may be the most important phase of your fertility journey •The truth about egg quality vs. egg quantity — and what you can actually control •Why male fertility is half the equation and almost always overlooked •The fertility blockers hiding in your home (and

It's a common myth and narrative that love hits like fireworks—a single, undeniable lightning bolt moment. But for me, it was a long, often tumultuous journey of heartbreak, self-discovery, and a lot of patience that finally led me to my 'one.'   In this episode, I'm getting raw and unfiltered about the decade I spent single and the 'messy growth' it took to finally be ready for the relationship I have now. I'm sharing the real story of meeting my husband, from our first Hinge match to the quiet, profound moments where I realized he was different.   I'm diving into: The Myth of Instant Certainty: Why waiting for a 'sign' might be blocking you from the right person.   Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck: How getting outside your comfort zone (and your apartment!) creates the serendipity needed for love to find you.   Becoming the Right Partner: The hard truths I had to face in therapy about my own 'fake confidence' and how I was actually closing myself off.   The Power of Spontaneity: W

With Valentine's Day on the horizon, I've been thinking a lot about love…not the chemistry sparking lust….but real love. What does it feel like? What makes it last? And how do you maintain your intimate relationships in a modern world.    In my wedding speech, I said that love isn't a grand gesture but the actions you take daily.    I don't think I'm naturally good in relationships – I put a lot thought and intention into how I communicate and treat my husband and today's guest was so helpful on my journey to being ready to meet my person.    So I wanted to bring you back to this conversation from 2021 with Licensed marriage and family therapist and clinical fellow of the america association of marriage & family therapy AND founder of A Better Life Therapy - Elizabeth Earnshaw.    In addition to making couples therapy more accessible, she is the author of "I Want This To Work". Elizabeth is also the host of Hash it Out on Good Risings where she offers advice to everyday relational conundrums.  

In this solo episode, I'm sharing a how I'm taking a softer, more intentional start to 2026. After taking some time to rest, recharge, and step away from the pressure of productivity, I reflect on why slowing down has become essential for me. I talk about letting go of the urgency to reinvent myself overnight, embracing a gentler approach to goal-setting, and redefining what it means to succeed this year.  I also share my personal framework for setting goals—from identifying core life pillars (health, relationships, and passion) to choosing guiding words for the year like patience, fun, and excellence. This episode is an invitation to reflect, realign, and build a year that feels right for you. If you're feeling behind, uncertain, or simply craving a slower, more intentional reset, this episode is your reminder that there's no wrong timeline—just a meaningful place to begin.   Follow me on Instagram Shop by Gift Guides! ShopMy - What I'm Loving Lately  

Welcome back to the show. Today, we're diving into a topic that has become increasingly noisy online: environmental chemicals, toxicity, and what it truly means to support our long-term health. To help ground this conversation in evidence and context rather than fear and marketing, I'm joined by Lara Adler, an environmental health educator and advocate who has spent the last 14 years deep in the research behind environmental exposures and public health. In this episode, we unpack the widening gap between individualized "wellness culture" and the larger systemic issues — like air and water quality — that have the biggest impact on communities across the country. We discuss why certain health narratives online have "lost the plot," how privilege shapes access to wellness solutions, and what practical, meaningful actions each of us can take at home without falling into anxiety or perfectionism. This conversation brings nuance back into a space that desperately needs it — and I think you'll leave feeling

In this pre-Thanksgiving episode, I'm sharing the habits, mindset shifts, and grounding practices that help me not just survive the holidays—but actually enjoy them. This time of year can feel magical and stressful all at once, so I'm walking you through the tools I use to stay calm, present, and connected, even when life feels chaotic. I'm also diving into intentional gifting: how I'm approaching Black Friday with more mindfulness, how I choose meaningful gifts without getting swept into the overwhelm, and the little luxuries, hostess gifts, men's gifts, and friend-gifts I'm loving this season. I'm also sharing the charities closest to my heart and how I'm thinking about giving beyond my own circle this year. Whether you're hosting, traveling, cooking, or curled up on the couch, I hope this episode helps you feel grounded, supported, and inspired as we head into the holiday marathon together.   Connect with me:  Connect with me on Instagram  Shop by Gift Guides! ShopMy - What I'm Loving Lately

If you've ever felt burnt out, confused about your next step, or pressure to be "everything to everyone," this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. In this conversation, I sat down with Tianna Soto. Tianna is a keynote speaker and mental health educator known for making wellness feel human, hopeful, and actionable. With a Master's in psychology from Columbia, experience as a Women's Health journalist, and certifications in yoga, reiki, and somatic anxiety coaching, she bridges science and soul to help people manage stress and rebuild resilience. During our conversation we explore what it really means to live in alignment with your strengths, navigate burnout with compassion, and allow your life path to unfold in nonlinear and unexpected ways. We talk about the power of positive psychology, how to shift out of "fixing" yourself and into understanding yourself, and why embracing your multi-passionate nature might be the exact thing that unlocks more joy, confidence, and clarity. Tianna also

In this solo episode, I'm opening up about my fertility journey — the IVF cycles, loss, and everything I've learned along the way. My hope is that by sharing my experience honestly, you feel less alone in yours. In this episode, I talk about: What the past year of IVF has really looked like behind the scenes — monitoring, injections, emotions, changing protocols and uncertainty How stress, lifestyle, and past habits impacted my hormones What I wish I knew in my 20s about fertility and ovulation The importance of advocating for your own health and understanding your baseline How I'm staying grounded through acupuncture, mindfulness, strength training, and daily choices Learning to release control and find meaning on the hardest days The emotional weight of early pregnancy loss and why community matters so much If you're navigating fertility treatments, supporting someone who is, or simply want to better understand this process, I hope this episode brings comfort, clarity, and connection.

In this episode, we're diving deep into women's health, fertility, and empowerment with one of the most trusted voices in reproductive medicine, Dr. Natalie Crawford — a board-certified OB/GYN, reproductive endocrinologist, educator, and advocate for women understanding their own bodies. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by fertility advice, confused by your cycle, or frustrated by the lack of answers, this conversation is going to be a game-changer. Natalie opens up about her own journey through recurrent pregnancy loss, the science of hormones, and why your period is truly a vital sign of your health.  She breaks down: The truth about your menstrual cycle: why your period is a vital sign and what it reveals about your overall health. The connection between brain, body, and hormones: how your hypothalamus and pituitary communicate with your ovaries — and what happens when that system is disrupted. Egg quality vs. age: why fertility isn't just about how many eggs you have, but how healthy th

In this solo, I share my journey with strength training and how it has transformed my perception of fitness and body image and helped me build more emotional resilience. Like many women, I am impacted the the outside noise and all of the things we "should" do to be healthy. By nurturing my internal compass, I have found more peace within myself and my body than ever before. This journey to greater acceptance has had a positive domino affect on my entire well-being including personal relationships, anxiety and of course how I feel about body image, food and exercise. This journey has led to a greater acceptance of her natural shape and a positive impact on her overall well-being, including her relationship with food and exercise.   Connect with me on Instagram  ShopMy - What I'm Loving Lately    Episodes Mentioned:  The Dress Didn't Fit  Dr. Shannon Ritchey on strength training for women

Today’s conversation is one of those rare ones that will stay with you. I’m joined by Dr. Erica Rozmid, a clinical psychologist, researcher, and founder of Clarity CBT & DBT Center and TFMR Psychologist — where she supports parents who have faced the unimaginable: a termination for medical reasons. Not only does she support them, but has built an ecosystem of providers with this specialty, filling a gap that didn’t exist before. In this episode, Dr. Rozmid opens up about her own story of loss, and how she turned her pain into purpose. We talk about radical acceptance, the DIVE method, the complexities of grief and what it means to build a meaningful life — even when it looks nothing like the one you imagined. Dr. Rozmid shares evidence-based tools from Dialectical Behavior Therapy, how to regulate the nervous system after trauma, how she helps the decision making process, and the surprising ways we can find clarity, connection, and hope through grief. Whether you’re healing from loss, suppo

In this episode, I’m talking about all things travel. After 6 weeks of what feels like constant travel, I feel like quite the expert. I share my travel essentials that help me feel like my best self, tips on how to maintain a sense of self while in the sky, on the road, or in a hotel, the importance of taking time off, how we prioritize travel in our budget, how we decide where to go, and packing tips. I also share how I maintain habits while traveling - I hope this helps you as you plan your next trip or try to maintain some balance in a busy season!    Travel Mindset Episode Connect with me on Instagram  ShopMy - What I’m Loving Lately

Today’s guest is Hanna Hanula is a somatic healer, psycho-somatic guide, and intuitive wellness mentor who empowers high achievers — especially women — to reconnect with their bodies, uncover hidden emotional patterns, and transform chronic symptoms into pathways of healing. Hanna is a former financial analyst who transformed her own struggles with anxiety, ADHD, digestive issues, and internal hyperdrive into a deeply embodied practice. She draws from a rich blend of somatic therapy, naturopathy, nutrition, energy work, and intuitive guidance to help clients decode the body’s messages and soften the grip of burnout, tension, and overwhelm.  In this conversation, we discuss personal experiences with anxiety and physical symptoms, the impact of childhood trauma, the importance of being present and listening to one's body and practical tools for nervous system regulation and the significance of living authentically and consciously.   We discuss:    Somatic healing connects the mind and body. Childhood experi

Today’s guest is Laura Weldy — a certified coach and unapologetic champion for women navigating male-dominated workplaces. Laura empowers ambitious women to reclaim their confidence and step into leadership on their own terms—with frameworks like The Personal Power Code and coaching experiences like Powerhouse Intensive. She helps women show up powerfully without shrinking themselves—and teaches organizations how to retain and develop their rising women leaders.   In this conversation, Laura Weldy and I discuss the challenges women face in the workplace, particularly in leadership roles. We explore the importance of personal branding, self-advocacy, and the concept of the Personal Power Code, which helps women identify their unique strengths and leadership qualities. We also touch on overcoming imposter syndrome, setting boundaries for work-life balance, and the significance of intentional career development. Laura shares practical strategies for effective communication and advocacy, emphasizing the ne

Does it even feel like summer? Or has your calendar filled up so fast that the season’s slipped by in a blur? In this solo episode of Figuring It Out, I’m reflecting on how fast summer seems to go as an adult—and how we can bring back that childlike feeling of freedom, presence, and play even with full-time responsibilities. We’ll talk about practical, intentional ways I’m planning to recapture the magic of summer without a long vacation, from unstructured weekends to mindful walks and spontaneous plans. What I’m Loving Lately:  Moussy Cargo Jeans Gua Sha Dry Brush  Morito Chocolates  Jenny Bird Hoops 

In this episode, I’m sitting down with Dr. Lilit, an esteemed clinical psychologist specializing in maternal mental health, helping working mothers navigate the emotional shifts of postpartum and career transitions. She has been featured in Good Housekeeping, Real Simple, and other top outlets, and has appeared on Everything is the Best.  While I’m not a mom yet and haven’t experienced this myself….I hope to be soon and am conscious about what an intense (yet wonderful) shift entering motherhood can be. I’ve had so many conversations with friends, colleagues and my mom about how challenging it can be to navigate motherhood, the unique pressures that are placed on women, and how your identity starts to shift.  Dr. Lillit and I talk about the messy and beautiful transition into this new role—how it can feel overwhelming, emotional, and like no one really prepares you for it. Dr. Lillit shares her own experiences navigating postpartum, how she supports her clients through the guilt, chaos, and wonders

Join me for a solo episode where I share why I love to use birthdays as moments for personal reflection and growth, embracing aging with confidence, what I loved in year 37, how I’ve evolved over the last decade and what I’m looking forward to in 38.    During the trip down memory lane, I remember what life was like at 27, how transformative each year has been since and how I used my experiences then to become who I am now. I share about the impact of anxiety on my overall health and wellness and how my approach to living well has evolved over time. I also discuss all of the things that I’ve carried with me from 27, what makes me me and how I’ll continue to figure it out over the next year. I hope you enjoy!    Connect with me on Instagram    ShopMy - What I’m Loving Lately  Sophie Pavitt Micellar Pads Sophie Pavitt Mandelic Serum  Summer Friday’s Hydrating Mist  Trader Joe’s Organic Bone Broth  Perfect White Tee Sweat Set

Charisse Cooke is a London-based psychotherapist and author who specializes in attachment theory. With over 20 years of experience, she uses her expertise in relationship dynamics to help people develop healthy bonds. Her approach is rooted in compassion and understanding, and she offers practical strategies for managing negative thoughts and improving nonverbal communication. She is also an online educator with a mission to mend the fabric of relationships through understanding and emotional resilience. Charisse’s approach to therapy is deeply rooted in adult attachment theory, offering a compassionate lens through which to view and transform one’s relational universe.   Modern dating dynamics and how relationships have changed during her 20 years of working with couples and how roles have shifted as the socio economic climate has changed, specifically around the change for men  Shifting standards and expectations as we settle down in life later and how to bring two individual, independent lives together

In this solo episode I’m sharing a few things I’m loving lately including skincare, pajamas, lip gloss and a new tv show. I also talk about how I struggled with my confidence for a long time and how I cultivated more confidence to feel more successful at work. And finally, I share a little peek into an overnight trip my husband and I took to Greenport and why escaping the day-to-day, even for a night, makes a world of difference in our happiness and relationships.    Follow Me on Instagram  Shop my favorites and what I'm loving lately

Megan is a certified Life + Leadership Coach who empowers leaders and founders to achieve their wider visions through internal and external transformation. With expertise in breathwork, meditation, and subconscious mindset modalities, she helps clients, whether it be in their careers, businesses, relationships, or any other area of their life that they are wanting to create transformation in, break past feelings of being stuck and unlock their full potential. As a 3x founder and entrepreneur with 10+ years of experience in brand strategy and marketing, Megan brings a unique blend of corporate and entrepreneurial insight to her coaching practice.   She has partnered with incredible women like Alex Elle, Taryn Toomey of the Class, Tiffany Aliche of The Budgetnista, the founders of Glow Recipe and with brands like Athleta, Bumble, PureWow and Kendra Scott.    If you’re on the precipice of transformation, are craving a different vision for your life or are trying to get unstuck from the stories you tell yourself