How Cum

Can't believe we are saying this but How Cum is now-- How Came, and How Went! In other words, after 6 seasons and countless guests and a million different topics we are finished. Today's episode is all about what got this whole thing started-- female healthcare (or the lack thereof) and we are discussing it with Tia's Dr. Shreya Reddy and comedian Lauren Hope Krass. We are talking why Dr. Reddy entered this field, Tia (a clinic specifically for female healthcare), and how Lauren's life has been changed by Tia. My life was changed IMMENSELY by this podcast and I am so so grateful to everyone who supported this journey and who came along for the ride. We may still record some new episodes -- and if we do, they will ONLY be posted on Patreon, and maybe someday it will even C*M BACK in a big way. But for now it is so long, and thank you, and I love you all very much.   Did You Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  You can STILL put your first O experience on our first time map it is as anonymous as you

Comedian and creator Jessie Jolles turns the art of getting dressed into an act of seduction—of self, of confidence, of truth. In this intimate, laugh-out-loud conversation, she strips down the layers of performance and slips into something far more revealing: radical self-love. From the thrill of a perfectly fitted outfit to the power of saying no with style, Jessie reminds us that the sexiest thing you can wear is your own comfort. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jessie @JessieJolles Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Comedian and writer Alison Leiby (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Broad City, The President Show) comes on to discuss her memoir "I'm a Lot", exploring deeply personal and cultural topics such as abortion, sexuality, relationships, and media representation. From there, she takes us behind the screen and reveals the ways television shapes how we see women, sex, and control. From the glossy chaos of Bravo to the tired tropes of "very special episodes," Allison and Remy unpack how pop culture scripts our ideas about abortion, pleasure, and power—and what happens when comedians rewrite those stories with honesty and humor. It's a sharp, funny, and fearless look at the TV narratives that raised us, and the new ones we're ready to tell. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Allison @AlisonLeiby Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

When romance meets rent and receipts, things can get messy. In this candid chat with Smoov founder and CEO Tucker Cohen, we dive into the emotional and practical side of managing money as a couple — from who pays for dinner to how to keep things fair when life (and kids) come into play. Tucker shares the story behind Smoov, the app designed to take the awkwardness out of shared finances and make transparency feel, well… sexy. Expect insights on modern relationships, financial equality, and why talking about money might just be the new love language. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Tucker @TuckFitz Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! *This episode is not an ad nor a personal endorsement 

HAPPY NEW YEAR CUMPANIONS AND NEW CUMMERS! Is the New Year the only time you can set new goals or decide you are going to change something massive about your life? Absolutely not, but let's do it anyway. We are talking self improvement and becoming more yourself with hilarious comedian Liz Glazer. Liz tells us about her love of self-help books as well as how attending Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) changed her life for the better immensely. We also chat about toxic sex, the excitement of forbidden-ness, the different sides of the brain-- and how distracting it can make for better O's. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Liz @lizglazer Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

What is wrong with men with nieces, men with thousands of plants, and men who rock climb? NYC comedian Stewart Fullerton is here with her official list of red flags for the unfairer sex and we are laughing through all of it. (Spoiler, we're not full-on misandrists we just love a giggle!) We also talk about toxic boy moms, car sex in LA, Stewart's rules for dating within a friend group, and how putting an intentional pause on her dating life has helped her career soar. If you date boys we highly recommend this episode and if you ARE a boy (are you a boy??) we challenge you to listen to it ALL THE WAY THROUGH. We promise, there will be a big payoff! Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Stewart @stewartandchill Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

We've had many a "late-bloomer" on this podcast, but Lissa Lennis might be our favorite! (And she may honestly make us re-think the term altogether!) We are talking about why it took her until 30 to lose her virginity, an amazing story of first time oral(s), the nightmare that is cuffing season, the recent and favorable re-branding of "Big Beautiful Women" + "Short Kings," recording yourself during sex, Lissa's Kama Sutra goals for 2026 and why she doesn't tell men she is a comedian for the first few dates. TW: Weight loss surgery and body image discussed Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Lissa @dammn_lissa Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Sure love is blind-- but if you are a person who needs glasses, is sex blind too? We are joined by hysterical Portland based comedian, and glasses wearer, Imani Denae to talk all things sex and romance from the perspective of someone with limited vision.  She also tells us about growing up in a home with polyamorous parents and how it shaped her personal views of sex and relationships.  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Imani @ImaniDenae_ Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Kenice Mobley is a hilarious New York based comedian and writer who had a stroke at 36 years old. Four years later we are discussing how it happened, all of the rehabilitation she had to go through post stroke, and how important it was for her to get her orgasms back. She tells us how she did it and we learn some very important information about different types of strokes; how to know that one is happening, and how to change your mindset if you are healing from one. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Kenice @KeniceMobley Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian who sometimes will fuck a guy. We also talk about Ali ending her engagement, toxic relationships, hating how people post on Instagram, and so much more.  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Ali @AliKolbert Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

For some, cleaning can be an aphrodisiac -- and those people are going to love this episode. But even those who aren't Monica Geller will benefit from the cleaning methods of home expert Caroline Solomon aka @Neat.Caroline who reminds us that organizing your space not only helps your daily life but it can help your sex life as well. Caroline and Remy share many tips and tricks for cleaning your home-- whether you are the type who likes to tidy a little every day or someone who likes to let stuff build up and do the whole house all at once. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Caroline @Carolineasolomon Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Father of 5 (cats) and brilliant comedian Mohanad Elshieky joins Remy to talk about growing up in Libya, what sex education is like there, how/ why he ended up moving to the US, and the sexual culture shock that met him in Portland, Oregon. He also tells us about his new special "No Need To Address Me" and Remy asks the question, "Does owning cats make you a sexual deviant or is that just a study I read once?"   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Mohanad @mohanad.elshieky Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Do nice guys finish last-- or do they just let you finish first? Something to think about on this episode where we talk to hilarious comedian and resident nice guy Pete Lee! Pete tells us about how his first O experience led him to being a giver and "nice guy" in the bedroom-- and how he gave stellar comedian Nikki Glaser her first EVER orgasm in life. He also tells us about his serial monogamy and his current goal to casually hook up this year -- because he hasn't been single since he was 15. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Pete @peteleepeteleepetelee Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

We are joined for a wet and wild episode with the star of Netflix's MerPeople, professional mermaid Blix Unami (Erik Milligan). Blix tells us what mermaids really represent and takes us on an underwater adventure through their sex life, relationship history, and sexual goals. Blix also gives us all a lesson in how to build authenticity and positivity, discussing everything from achieving success in the face of naysayers to getting diagnosed with HIV and how to dive into thriving instead of merely saying "just keep swimming." TW: Verbal Abuse Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Blix @the.blixunami Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Star of Bravo's Summer House Carl Radke and "Dry Humping" author Tawny Lara come on the pod to share their sobriety journeys and the challenges and triumphs of dating, sex and socializing without alcohol. We discuss how to "date yourself" in early sobriety, how long you should wait before dating another person, and how meaningful connections are made in sobriety. We discuss "partying"-- "what really IS it if drugs and alcohol are not involved?" and the need for new social spaces like Carl's upcoming "Soft Bar" to support sober individuals. Tawny shares her experience of quitting faking orgasms and and Carl shares his early discovery of adult content.   TW: Addiction + Loss  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Carl @CarlRadke and Tawny @TawnyMLara Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Get your mind out of the gutter-- we're talking FOOD!  'BrunchBoys' internet foodie Jeremy Jacobowitz joins Remy to talk about food, sex, dating, the joys of ordering in and his favorite places to eat out. We discuss what foods to stay away from on a date, which foods are aphrodisiacs, and whether you can date someone with different dietary restrictions than yourself.  Just like a great meal, this episode is perfect for sharing with a loved one.    Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jeremy @JeremyJacobowitz Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

This episode is all about the importance of our second favorite bedroom activity-- SLEEP! Stand up comedians Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton are two of the hosts of the podcast Pillow Talk-- where funny people have easy going conversations that you can fall asleep to. Today they join Remy to talk sleep habits, dreams, sleep positive households vs. sleep negative and sex-- does it make you sleepy? It is quite the fun and exciting little slumber party, but if you fall asleep during this episode, we will NOT hold it against you.    Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Josh @JoshGondelman and Sophia @SophiaWPelton Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

This is one of the most unique episodes we've ever had-- and yet it is so relatable in so many ways. Remy chats with Srilatha Rajamani, a vibrant, funny, and sweet New York City comedian who has had sexual intercourse only TWICE in her life-- and also has a 27 year old daughter. Srilatha tells us about being raised in India and how being in an arranged marriage changed her life, how she has finally come into finding herself in her 50s- discovering her queerness, asexuality, love for colorful girly clothes and the happiness she has achieved with no orgasms had, and NONE wanted! TW: Self Harm Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Srilatha @srilathasauce Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Remy welcomes hilarious podcaster and comedian, Tracey Carnazzo-- who also happens to be her oldest friend from comedy (years wise, not age wise) and they reminisce about bonding 10 years ago from both being dicked around by fuckboys; what led them to allow themselves to do that-- and eventually get out of it. Tracey tells us how she learned to de-center men from her life and how vastly her life has improved since she did it as well as the importance of friendships, not hating other women, and why "pick me" is actually an insult to society, and not as much the women who get called that.   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Tracey @trixietuzzini Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Incredible comedian, actress, writer, host and impressionist Anna Roisman answers questions about her own sex life and also brings some of her most iconic characters (Joan Rivers, Lea Michele, Steve from SATC etc.) to life to talk about the news in sex! We talk about the sexual awakening that was Anna's summer camp experience and the NOVEL that Anna wrote from ages 8-16 as well as how Luigi Mangione ruined losing her virginity.   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Anna @Annaroisman Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!