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With Oz kink Fest only one sleep away, MisKnickers ventured into the heart of Brunswick to visit Q Space, an integral part of Oz Kink Fest 2018. Q Space will host workshops, exhibitions, events, and the Oz Kink Fest Launch Party. While the OKF crew were busy setting up for the week ahead, MisKnickers got some one-on-one time with Mz Mallice (Oz Kink Fest Creator and Organiser), Wayne Nicol (owner of Lucrezia & DeSade, Q Space major sponsor and long time OKF Collaborator), and Angela Biscotti (artist and curator of Oz Kink Fest Exhibition Sex on your Sleeve). If you're getting hyped for Oz Kink Fest 2018 and want to hear more about what to expect, events to look out for, and gain a unique insight into OKF from the perspective of its creators, sponsors, and participants, dive into this latest Our Kink podcast and get the goss!

In Episode 34 of the Our Kink Podcast, MisKnickers catches up with Peter Martin and Dani Natale from PM Leather to talk about PM Leather, and how they have grown to be much more than a supplier of quality leather hobble belts. Hear about the history and growth of PM Leather, and the remarkable ability both Peter and Dani to reach people via social media. And of course, they share their plans for Oz Kink Fest, and the wonder that is Fetish Expo. We also catch up with ProDom/me, rope artist, rock star, and recent Our Kink Sponsor, Sai Jaiden Lillith, who gives us a sneak peak into some of the shenanigans they hope to encourage with performances and presentations throughout Oz Kink Fest. Listen in to find out what they're bringing to the party this year, and why they're so glad to be back.   And of course, we have another giveaway for subscribers… This time a double pass to Hellfire Resurrection – Friday September 21st. To win all you need to do is have a valid Our Kink Subscription, and email us with the answ

Listen in as MisKnickers catches up with Sprinkle from Sprinkle Emporium (recorded live from the very stunning shop and studio on Lygon st) to discuss her new leather range for fetish fashionistas - Yes Mz by Sprinkle and what it's like to be facing the Fetish Expo 2018 Grand Fashion Parade for the very first time... In contrast, we also talk to long-time Fashion Parade contributor, Aunty EJ from Fantasy Fair Adult Play Wear, who's been part of the parade since day one. Learn more about these wonderful individuals and their contribution to the worlds of both kink and fashion, and discover why we love them.

In this episode MisKnickers is joined by resident Our Kink button-pusher Loke, to discuss an incredible innovation in kink safety. We speak with special guest Elle, who is part of team developing a new app called No Grey. In what is more than likely a world first, No Grey aims to enhance the way we negotiate, and gives users the opportunity to lay out the framework and boundaries of each scene negotiation for all participants with ease. We were really excited to learn more about No Grey, and Elle talked us through its features, as well as giving us some examples of how the app can be used, from sharing broad interests to begin a discussion to negotiating specifics of a scene, indicating our experience levels with different tools and types of play, through setting limits and goals to ensure participants understand their roles and responsibilities thoroughly. We also delved into some background to understand better how the idea came about, why Elle thinks you should try the app, and what you can expect in ter

This week, MisKnickers and Miss Jane returned to one of their favourite haunts to spend some time with one of our favourite sponsors, the inimitable Wayne from Lucrezia & De Sade. Wayne is never short of a story or twelve and he doesn't disappoint in this podcast, taking us on a winding, non-linear journey through the history of L&D, including a time when he had never dreamed of retailing kink and leather goods, and how all that changed in one night, thanks to a certain pop sensation. Interest piqued? There's more ... latex nuns and reasonable men, a purple dungeon, duelling policemen, and some lessons on how to combat bureaucracy from left of centre. Oh, and there's the sex, religion, and politics. Just listen. You'll regret it if you don't.

This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane visited Counsellor, Sex Therapist, Educator, Author, Workshop Facilitator, and wearer of one thousand hats, Jeremy Shub. They could have talked for days about every topic under the Sun, but specifically they wanted to talk with Jeremy about his upcoming Queer Flirting workshop. Starting with the basics of what actually constitutes flirting, how it differs between people and cultures, and moving to the unique challenges for Queer identifying people, how the principles of consent impact our flirting, navigating the vast range of different attractions and desires and more, including Jeremy's upcoming book, Sex Positive Now. Learn more about Jeremy, his work, and his services here. Check out the Queer Flirting workshop here.

In this episode MisKnickers and Miss Jane will enter your earholes once again, this time to blow up some BDSM bullshit... Join them as they don the Mythbuster Moustache and light the dynamite on some of our favourites myths, exploring both what they are, and where they come from. Have a giggle, an eyeroll, and a 'pffft' with us as we examine the idea that all kinksters are crazy, and ponder upon the 'weakness' often thought to make up submission. And as promised, there's some links below to keep you busy with some more facts and figures. Enjoy!

Yes, May is Masturbation month, so there's no better time to shine a light on what can be some pretty adventurous sexy times, be it alone or with a partner. This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane try not to make too many bad puns as we discuss the benefits and drawbacks of the One-Handed Devil Dance... For more information to enjoy in your own time: MisKnickers Guide To Buying Beginner Sex Toys MisKnickers Guide For Happy Handjobs MisKnickers  Guide To Pussy Play For Couples And for more information on the Adult Match Maker 'Under the Covers' survey, and the results re-masturbation, take a look at this great piece from Dr Michelle Mars: Masturbation Under the Covers: Fap Vs Fiddle   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

You may have heard about the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) and the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) - legislation recently signed into law by the US Congress. What you may not have heard, is that this wet blanket approach to meant to stop sex trafficking will in effect do much more harm that good. This week Miss Jane and MisKnickers chat with lawyer Kathryn Adams (aka KateOnTheGo) and pro-kinkster, sex worker, and all round amazing human being Gala Vanting to try and make sense of these confusing and dangerous new laws - laws that potentially affect us all. Whether you work in the sex industry, indulge in its many pleasures, or simply appreciate it exists, or if you're someone who just enjoys basic internet freedoms, this is an episode NOT TO MISS. Grab your beverage of choice, your brain, and a comfy spot - critical thinking is required! More information on people and resources mentioned within the podcast: Our guests, Gala Vanting and KateOnTheGo are both extremely well read, and as e

Somewhere near, and at times bridging the boundaries between sex therapy, coaching, kinesiology, and tantra, is Sexological Bodywork. MisKnickers and Miss Jane took some time out to talk with Louis Luckhurst of Intentional Touch to learn more about exactly what sexological bodywork is, and to to hear Louis' professional and personal story. Louis helps clients learn about and understand their bodies, and to strengthen their connection to sexual and sensual self. Louis also works with people who have experienced trauma, and with people who have experienced a disconnection from their sexual experiences, and hopes to use her work to benefit survivors of genital mutilation and others in need of healing. Learn more about Louis' practice at intentionaltouch.net   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane plan to talk some Senses into you. All of them in fact. How to take advantage of them, manipulate them, deprive your partner of them. How to get started and what you can use at home to do so.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this podcast MisKnickers and Mistress Jane are joined by kittens, Lola and KittenRose to further explore this soft and fluffy form of play, and examine some of the stigma surrounding it. Riding the momentum from their appearance on Triple J's The Hook Up , the team discuss the realities of delving into this form of play. We explore what draws people to Petplay (as Owner/Handlers AND pets!) and offer some tips on how to start, where to make connections, and finding events that are friendly to Petplayers. Added to this, we look at some of the feedback from the Triple J audience and have just a bit of fun with it. And don't forget The Guild of Claws and Hooves Munch is on March 3rd, 6pm til late, The Scratching Parlour is open March 17th from 6-10pm, and March 18th is the Fundraiser extravaganza for girl ang. Tickets $15.00 ($10.00 for Our Kink Subscribers - see your email for the code). IMPORTANT NOTE: As much as we've had our issues with the feedback from The J's audience, it's important we state it's w

This week, MisKnickers traveled to the fair city of Castlemaine to sit down with Angela Saide (aka girl ang) to discuss leather. Angela discusses her experience working with leather and her involvement with the Leather Community. Our Kink is also supporting Angela in her bid to claim the International Ms Leather (IMsL) title in California this year, and MisKnickers talked with her about what's involved in running for the title, how her campaign is progressing, who is supporting her, and her excitement at the chance to win an international title and, in the process, give something back to the Victorian Leather Community. Learn more about IMsL and IMsBB (International Ms Bootblack) here Find Angela on: Twitter Facebook Instagram And check out Little Miss Leather on Facebook   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

MisKnickers and Mistress Jane address some of the questions you might have if you're exploring a newly awakened interest in kink. Starting with the big "Where do I even start?" conundrum, they move on to avenues for education, events for beginners, tips on how to play safe, and red flags to look out for in the kink world. Chances are, if you're beginning your journey into kink, the Our Kinksters are addressing issues and concepts that you're beginning to experience. Some resources for beginning your kink journey, as mentioned in the podcast: Podcasts Kink Clinic Dan Savage's Savage Lovecast Sunny Megatron's American Sex Podcast Events Provocation Playroom SnakePit Arkie's Munch Websites Adult Matchmaker (AMM) Dominant Guide Submissive Guide Fetlife   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

MisKnickers and Mistress Jane receive a visit from JD from Downunder Toys to talk about JD's history as a Melbourne toymaker, how the process of making sex toys works, the politics of pleasure, and about her latest creation, AVA.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this episode, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane sit down with multi-award winning Australian explicit filmmaker Anna Brownfield to talk about what goes into making ethical pornography, the impact of the internet and tube sites on the industry and those who work in it, the future of sex online, and craft. Anna, the creative force behind Poison Apple Productions outlines the difference between making "The Band" in a predominantly DVD age, and "The Bedroom", a film largely marketed to the online world. She also discusses how she entered the world of explicit filmmaking, the challenges presented by some archaic laws, and how she tailors her guidelines for people who want to work with her in order to achieve the highest level of informed consent. Also, there are lists!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This week the Our Kink mummas Mis Knickers and Mistress Jane talk all things parenting with one of our favourite guests - the delightful and sadomasochistic Jilf, who is joined by one of their spawn, Jellybean, to talk all things “Parenting” within a number of alternative lifestyles. We know this one will resonate with many of our community and we would love to hear from you if you have any tips or tricks for how to balance your identity as a parent and your identity as a kinkster. Meanwhile, sit back at home or wherever you enjoy your podcasts from, and take a listen to our take on how to make it all balance and work for everyone. And while you're at it, find out how Archer Magazine is approaching its Family Issue (on sale December 11th), which aligns quite nicely with our Parenting episode!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

With so much great content gathered at Sexpo Australia, we invite you to join us yet again, and listen in to some of the voices that make up these four fairly epic days. In Episode 17 we asked people what kink means to them... This week we explore The Big 'C' and ask people how consent fits into their lives; the importance, the relevance, and what defines a violation. This is one we'd really value your thoughts on. It's a huge thing for us all.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

MisKnickers, Mistress Jane and Loke take a look back at the weekend just gone as we revisit some of the highlights and chat with stallholders, performers, staff and members of the public over the four day extravaganza that was Sexpo Melbourne 2017. You'll hear from Peter and Dani at PM Leather, BJ from Eagle Leather and Jeebus Fuck from the Eagle Leather Fetish Playroom, Gil and Tanya from JuJu Jezebel, Ella Hall of Tantra Ella, JJ of PicPuck Photography, members of the public attending Sexpo, and Bentleigh Gibson, National Events Director for Sexpo Australia.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Join us this week as we delve into the world that is Sexpo, and find out exactly what it has to offer we kinksters. We chat to Pepper and Bee Jay from Eagle Leather, and get a sneak peak at some of the delights this year's Fetish Playroom has on offer - and we know you'll be happily surprised! We'll also share a few insights into some of our amazing plans and ideas for our first ever gig as Sexpo Exhibitors - including a guest interview with a very special surprise someone who'll be helping us out at the event.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();