Black Millennial Marriage Podcast

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.April 24th marked six years that Mikey and Randie have been married, and it's safe to say they didn’t know what they were really getting into when they said “I do."  So, there lies the question…would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?The answer is "Yes and"…lol. Well, you gotta tune in to hear.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning how Mikey documents his life. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.The Chapmans have 5 episodes left for this season, and as always they thank you for tuning in, downloading, and messaging them with your feelings.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsBMM Indie 136: Bad TripBMM 090: The F*ck?BMM 097: BMM X Cheat CodeNetflix’s Russian DollFollow us on Social Medi

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie’s stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble’s death. At least that’s what her therapist says.But why? Why can’t Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?A phone call days before Noble’s birth may give a hint to the answer.Tune in as the mother half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details revealing the truth to her therapist and discusses what it means to finally believe she is worthy.It’s a wild thing, but somehow grief and her children are teaching Randie to mother herself. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.As always, Mikey and Randie thank you for tuning in to this special season and they hope to encourage you to have conversations about pleasure even when you’re in deep grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsGrieving is Loving, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50891

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIt’s been a long time since Mikey has dropped an Indie and if you think he’s been stalling, he has. Still, while it’s hard, the father half of the BMM Podcast knows not talking about Noble is not an option.Join him as he details why it’s hard to talk about his deceased son, how he fears he’s just too angry, and worries that no one cares. Later, he discusses the ways he’s been taking care of himself in an effort to get himself out of his hole. After all, he did promise Noble that he would try.As always Mikey is grateful for the people tuning in for this special season and he hopes it encourages someone to open up about their grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: http

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.The Chapmans are mad as hell, but they have a complicated relationship with anger. They’re certain you can relate.In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss how they viewed rage before and now after their son, Noble. They detail how their anger affects their marriage and what they’re learning and unlearning about being mad.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey’s habits around their daughter, Drew, but it’s all love in the end when they shower each other with PDA.As always, the Chapmans thank you for tuning into this special season and they hope this episode encourages you to consider how you can better honor the full range of your emotions.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsDiscovering the Inner Mother: amazon.com/Discovering-Inner-Mother-Claiming-Personal/dp/109416

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts."Wubba Lubba Dub Dub," translates to "I am in great pain, please help me." And it's from the Rick and Morty show.Irrelevant? The Chapmans think not. When they weren't watching TV to help their pain, they were receiving help and support to guide them back to life.And in this episode, Randie and Mikey share 10 things they received that's not food or money that helped them in the early days of their sorrow. From planting a tree in Noble's memory to openly admitting his death is really that bad, the couple acknowledge the love they received and how it helped them.Later, Mikey brings a fight questioning Randie's parenting tactics. But it's all love in the end when they show each other some PDA.As always, the Chapmans hopes you take something away from this episode and that it helps you support someone you love when they are experiencing deep grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOIN

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this Indie episode, Randie details the last time she got high while on vacation in Denver and how that experience convinced her she really needed help.Tune in. This episode is especially for those who are grieving and running from it. The Mrs. hopes that by listening to this episode you feel courageous to take care of the person you are right now. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMSuggested Reading and Listening:Discovering the Inner Mother: A Guide to Healing the Mother Wound and Claiming Your Personal Poweramazon.com/Discovering-Inner-Mother-Claiming-Personal/dp/1094168351Podcast: #GoodAncestor: Jennifer Arnise on Healing the Black Mother Woundhttp://laylafsaa

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this episode the couple discuss vices and the ways they tried and failed to escape their grief.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey’s cooking habits and memory. But it’s all love in the end when they show each other some PDA.As always, the Chapmans hopes you take something away from this episode and that you consider the ways and reasons you may run from grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEma

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie's here with a bonus episode she didn't expect to record. In this Indie episode the shorter half of the BMM podcast is here to tell everyone she's really not okay.With a message that is sometimes read and sometimes not, Randie reveals how she has tried and failed to manipulate her grief and tried and failed to fake the funk. In fact, every time she tries to run away from the pain and from her uncomfortable grief, her inner child screams--"LOOK AT ME! WHY WON'T YOU ADMIT THAT WE ARE HURTING."Thus, tired of hiding and being yelled at, Randie faces the truth: this shit sucks. And also ...why did her baby have to die?Tune in. This episode is especially for those who are grieving and lying about it. The Mrs. hopes that by listening to this episode you feel empowered and encouraged to admit where you are. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMGrieving is Loving, Dr. Joanne Cacciatorehttp

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Today marks four months since Mikey and Randie lost their son, Noble, and in dedication they wanted to end the season properly.In this episode, Randie and Mikey detail why they're doing this episode, where they've been the past few months, and where they are now. There's also some exciting news for what's in store for BMM in 2022.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about an annoying habit. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA.This season was hard. Nothing went how they hoped and they miss their son terribly. Still, the Chapmans thank you for your support and kindness, and they thank you for tuning in.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Molly Bear: Molly Bear OrganizationRachel's Gift Box: Rachel's Gift BoxWordie Productions:Wordi

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Randie’s water broke and she’s on bed rest.This new development is a pregnancy plot twist for sure and the Chapmans record in bed to tell you all about it. Together they detail the ER and hospital stay and the plan for the baby and pregnancy. Later, Mikey and Randie detail how they’re doing and what’s helping the Mrs. survive. They conclude the episode with some much needed PDA and even laugh a bit.As always, Randie and Mikey appreciate everyone for their love, encouragement, and support and they thank you for everything.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Randie’s Blog post: It Might Help me to Write.Video: Drew visits the HospitalBook: 

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In this episode, the Chapmans wonder if they got married too young.Together Mikey and Randie reveal if they regret their decision and discuss how self-esteem affected their reasons to say, “I Do.”Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight blaming Mikey for failing to read the room. And his response may surprise you. In the end though, it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are inspired to have a good conversation with your person.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Episodes Mentioned:BMM 002: Almost Breaking Up & Non-NegotiablesBMM 130: No One is Coming to Save Us Follow us on Social Medi

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThere comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them.Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast.In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they’ve been playing small, reveal why they’ve been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss how they intend to confront and stop the bullshit. From utilizing their resources, trusting their first thought, and asking for help, Randie and Mikey let listeners in on their process.In conversation with each other, they realize: nothing will move and change unless they do. Thus, the couple is ready to get out of their own way. Finally, Mikey brings a fight or flight and confesses he hasn’t been feeling the love lately, but in the end it’s all giggles when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are also inspired to take back your power.Are you excited to a

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie’s back with her first Indie of season 3, and it’s story time! The baby’s all good and all is well, but not without a few lessons. In this episode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details a failed test involving a prenatal appointment from hell. The Mrs. describes the lessons she has learned about her body, boundaries, and baby, and hopes you are inspired to advocate and listen to yourself as well. Later, Randie brings a book recommendation that she can’t stop talking about and really wants you to read.Lastly, she hopes you tune in and that you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMThe Shadowhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shadow_(psychology)Untamed, Glennon Doylehttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52129515-untamedCon

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie is pregnant! And the Chapmans want to tell you all about the new baby.In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail why they decided to have another baby, discuss how they found out about the new addition, and reveal what happened when they told family and friends about the pregnancy. Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain why he has to hear something from 100 people before he believes her when she says something. But in the end, it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.There are tears, laughter, and that old thang y’all love about the duo in this episode, and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.co

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the third episode of season 3, Mikey steps out with his first Indie. Mikey shares his inspiration and plan for taking his shit back in the form of a bucket list, gives a little history on the term, and sheds some light on an internal struggle that’s been plaguing him.Later, Mikey gives a shoutout to a person he respects and wraps his episode up with a positive thought he tells himself that he hopes others find value in.Randie and Mikey are thankful for your support, listens, and Youtube subscriptions and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Buy Better Topics Gamehttps://neon.ly/BMMPodcast Coupon Code: BMM10 Follow u

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the second episode of season 3, Mikey and Randie discuss putting Drew back in daycare. Together, the parents detail the pros and cons of having Drew home because of Covid-19, why they decided school was best for her, and how their baby girl’s return to daycare is helping them take their shit back.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about a compliment gone wrong. But, in the end it’s all love when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.Randie and Mikey are thankful for your support, listens, and Youtube subscriptions and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Buy Better Topics Gamehttps://neon.ly/BM

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are back for Season 3, and true to Chapman fashion and BMM tradition, they’re back with a game!Invented by UK couple, Robert and Diana Indries, Better Topics is a game created by couples for couples. You can enjoy this game whether you are married, engaged, dating, in a long-term relationship, or a new couple.Together, Randie and Mikey play the fun game asking each other questions like: When was a moment you were ashamed? When were you last turned off? What are you trying to teach our child this week? And what position would you like me in tonight?If you’ve been missing the deep conversation and belly aching laugh that the Chapmans are known to induce, then you’ll love this episode.Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about a CBD experience. But in the end it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA.The Chapmans are excited to be back, they thank you for your support, and as always t

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsPHEW!! It’s been a wild, wonderous, and unexpected year. When the ball drops on New Year’s Day don’t forget to shout, “Jumanji!” but before that, listen to the Chapman’s last episode of 2020. For this season finale, Mikey and Randie share the episodes that grew them up and surprised them and later they play and read feedback from . . . you. But not so fast, before the episode ends, Randie and Mikey award Patreon superlatives like, “Most likely to own half of West Atlanta” and “Most likely to be the tallest in the room.” Then, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight that almost didn’t make the cut. But in the end it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA.Mikey and Randie thank you a 1,000 times for sticking with and believing in them this year and when it concerns this episode, they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever el

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey is back with his final Indie for Season 2! In this episode Mikey discusses the unfair expectations he’s placed on himself in these difficult and stressful times. Mike shares his struggles and successes, details his goals for next year, and leaves the audience with a little something inspirational at the end.After this reflection session the too into superheroes half of BMM hopes this episode inspires listeners to take stock of what they have accomplished this year and take a serious look at their intentions for growth entering the new year.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMFollow us on Social MediaMikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircl