Black Millennial Marriage Podcast

Hey y’all! With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what’s been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more. But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It’s getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your reviews, feedback, emails, and all that jazz.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight about Randie’s “ways,” and after fighting, the Mrs. decides to fly.But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.Items Mentioned:BMM 023 It’s a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon

So what had happened was…Randie’s mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless.Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her.She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create solely for her and solely out of love for her inner child and adult self? Well, we’ll all find out together and it'll start with this episode.Items Mentioned:**As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. You get the exact same products and service you'd get from Amazon already and you'll be supporting our podcast.**Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20BMM Indie 136: Bad Trip: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-136-bad-trip/id1363790050?i=1000550704964BMM Indie 141: Mothering Myself: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-141-mot

Hey y'all, Hey!It's a good day for a throwback.And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you.In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always appreciated PDA and they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.NOTE: The unedi

Hey y’all!Tune in for the Chapman’s first mini episode this season. As a reminder, Minis are all about their experiences as parents and in this episode Mikey and Randie reveal what parenting Drew has made them realize about their childhoods.The list ranges from being hit a lot to, in some cases, wishing they had the parents they wanted.It’s a fun episode in that Randie and Mikey really enjoyed recording it and chatting about this wild ride called parenthood.Later, the couple end the episode with some PDA to Drew and to each other in their roles as parents.And just so you know, you don’t have to be a parent to relate to this episode. In fact reach out to the Chapmans if you’re a parent, aunt, uncle, guardian, friend of a friend who’s a parent and tell them what the children around you make you remember about your childhood.The answers may surprise you. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you

Hey y’all! Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn’t on Mikey and Randie’s, but seeing as this season’s theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast. In this episode, the couple interview Kristian and discuss the first time they all broke an unspoken spoken rule, his ministry, how he and his wife, Pamela, are deconstructing marriage, how his relationship changed his faith and more. Kristian even shares a hack to how you can ensure the church you’re visiting (if you still visit churches) believes in inclusive and humane theology.Later, Randie and Mikey chat with Kristian about how cigars bring people closer and after the interview the Chapmans shower each other in some PDA.This episode will surprise you in the best way, and your hosts hope you enjoy. Items Mentioned:Kristian’s IG: https://w

Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back.It’s been over a year since Mikey dropped an indie and in this episode he reveals where he’s been and how working on his latest project— his 1978 Monte Carlo Landau—is healing him. Tune in as Mikey nerds out with some history about the car, details the story of his cousin Quacy a.k.a. Chess gifting him the Monte Carlo, and discusses the three things re-building his dream car has taught him. Later, Mikey gives a head nod to a cousin who is really like a brother and ends the episode with some words of encouragement for anyone realizing that life will life. We hope you enjoy. Happy Listening.Items Mentioned:To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae: https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/BMM Indie 139: It’s Hard to Talk About Noble: ht

Hey y’all!In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough.It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability. And it’s all thanks to that damn word chart.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBuy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhoxCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/64b5d4909f8e769b7bb8a42c Advertising Inquiries: https://re

Hey y’all!In this episode Randie interviews her sex and intimacy doula, Yanitza. Together they droid out over their pleasure muse THE Janelle Monáe, discuss the shame surrounding sex, pleasure, and intimacy and what this work has taught Yanitza about herself and about people. Later they talk about how grief affects our capacity to receive, and what working with a sex and intimacy doula looks like.It’s a fun episode and Randie’s first in-person interview with a listener, turned Patron, turned friend, turned doula ever in the history of BMM. And it’s only up from here.So tune in and come as you are.Items Mentioned:Listen to Ad-Free Episodeshttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-151-honey-self-sabotage-bonus-ep/id1363790050?i=1000615916050 Connect with YanitzaIG: https://www.instagram.com/yanitzamarcel/IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecyanmango/Contact: https://calendly.com/cyanm/one-on-one?month=2023-07 Book: Come as You Are The Surprising

Hey y’all!In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted and there’s so much to say.Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house, activities couples can do to draw them closer and ensure their needs are being met, HBNS (Hot Butt-Naked Sex), and how the brain remembers trauma even when you’re no longer in danger.To end, the couple show each other some love in their PDA segment because you know that’s how they do. In all, nothing but playing the episode can do justice to the gems Dr. Jeannelle shared in her book and on the show.So tune in and grab the book. Randie finished it in one day!A

Hey y’all. Mikey and Randie, are back after a hiatus of seven months. With a renewed energy and passion, the duo aim to deliver thought-provoking topics, engaging interviews, and even more personal moments that resonate with everyone as always.To start, in this episode Randie and Mikey detail what’s changed about them and how having boundaries, self-respect, and faith again has affected them and the podcast for the better. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that turns into a poem, wondering when Randie will remember who she is. But, just like old times, it’s all love when they show each other PDA.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http

Gettin’ Free! : A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. We know that history is told from the side of the victors, but that leaves room for misinformation and false narratives. We are on a mission to change that.11 Black podcasts have come together to reclaim our history and tell it our way - flavor and all. Welcome to a chronological journey to get free. Learn where we’ve come, what we’ve overcome, and how much further we need to go. Sistas Who Kill IG: @SistasWhoKillPod22:16 Hoodrat to Headwrap IG: @ihartericka42:25 Black Millennial MarriageIG:@blackmillennialmarriage54:03 Journey to LaunchIG: @JourneyToLaunch 1:05:36 So what are you readingIG: @sowhatareyoureadingpodcast 1:22:28 Chile, PleaseIG: @itshoneychile1:34:36 The Professional Silly PodcastIG: @itsprosilly 1:47:00 Jokes on YouIG: @JokesOnYouPod2:04:07 Black Fashion History IG: @blackfashionhistorypodcast2:15:31 Zora’s DaughtersIG: @zorasdaughters2:26:35 Black True CrimeIG: @blacktruecrimepodcastAdvertising

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsDidn’t expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)She misses y’all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.And . . .Tune in as Randie details a homework assignment she received from her sex and intimacy doula. This homework included lots of honey and an epiphany about her attachment to self-sabotage. Prayerfully, you can feel the love through this episode. Randie loves and misses y’all and as always, hopes you enjoy this episode.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMMContact Yanitza Cubilette, Sex and Intimacy Doula: yanitzacubilette@gmail.comBook: The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery, By: Brianna WestArticle by Lisa A. Romano: Tina Turner an Aching Icon  Documentary: Tina Follow us on So

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Now whoever thought that making more money and making it out of the valley would scare the hell out of Mikey and Randie?Can you relate? Tune in as the Chapmans detail why abundance has been triggering them and find out how they self-sabotage and re-ground themselves back in the present. Because the truth is, it's been a hard few years and it's also true that trouble don't last always. Right?Later Randie brings a fight or flight confronting Mikey about how he parents when he's worn out. But it's all love when in the end the couple shower each other with PDA and thank one another for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.l

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsWas an episode with Randie's dad on your bingo card for 2022?Tune in as Big Ran gets interviewed by the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. Together the two detail their happiest childhood memories and later Randie learns what inspired her dad to give up the drugs you snort and heavy alcohol. Big Ran also reveals how he thinks his upbringing affected his previous marriage and parenting, talks about what reconciling with all of his kids would look like in a perfect world, and more. It's a special episode and a good one. And as always, Randie (the big one too) hopes you enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they’re gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don’t have to internalize the others’ triggers and more.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight Randie can’t help but fly away from and it all seems too easy. They wonder:: has being married for 6 years tamed them or is this growth? No one knows. The only thing for certain is, the Mr. misses make-up sex SMH. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they’re finally ready to take action.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also makes him fly quicker than he ever has in the history of fight or flights. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBMM 023: It’s a Hard Knock Life: https://bit.ly/3TwBeHeBMM 036: The Bat Cave:  https://bit.ly/3D0YCpnCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIf you find that you're always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you're the problem. You are the problem. But it's not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, and reads some codependent characteristics she's certain may resonate with you a little all too well. Later, Randie details the ways she is working to break codependent habits that portray her as a victim and leave her looking for others to rescue her and be the authority in her life.It gets deep, y'all.Tune in as the sultry voice half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast shares what it's been like taking responsibility over her life. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMWebsite: Out of the Fog: https://outofthefog.website/Book:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parentshttps:

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.Ad-Free Highlight Reel (Only on Patreon)03:47 The Chapmans begin the relationship check-in46:31 Fight or Flight50:13 PDAItems Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you'll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you smile.As always the Chapmans thank y'all for your grace, love, and listens this special season. May Noble's name live on forever and ever.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-75

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they'd see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey are certain you'll enjoy it.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that makes no sense to the Mrs. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA--some spicy PDA, they might add.As always the Chapmans thank y'all for listening to this very special season.Remember to rate and review them 5 stars if you enjoy this and every other episode. It means more than you know!Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwri