Radio Free Tote Bag

Return of the Bryan! Returning champion Bryan Quinby aka MurderBryan from the Guys podcast join us again this week! We catch up on Bryan's life since starting Guys, his daughter moving out to head to our alma mater, self-esteem, and then your questions here's what we get into:   GF can't cum and seems fine with that but you're not | Someone writes in about hemorrhoids for some reason | Weight/body image issues making you feel like shit   Thanks again to Bryan for joining us, follow him on socials @murderxbryan and listen to Guys podcast wherever you listen to us!   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

What's up gang it's Audrey's bday and to celebrate we're getting through as many backlog questions as we can and ya know what? We did alright we hit a lot. So if you've been waiting for an answer to your question from over a year ago maybe we hit it this time! There's so many questions I can't list em all so you'll have to listen to find out     Thanks for tuning in folks! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week, plus our Frasier bonus series PLUS stickers PLUS OUR DISCORD AND MORE?? Griddy on over to Patreon.com/rftb

Good LORD don't get covid people that sucked! Dono's back, we've got Kath Barbadoro back on the show, and we're rip-roaring to go this week. We're talking food around the country, we're talking overcoming injury, we're talking dating, and then it's question time:   Ended friendship with a guy after he turned out to be a creep, are you a bad person for having been friends with them? | Ex's friends/your neighbors are "mean gays" and they're talking shit about your ex but you're no contact - do you say something? | In love with your best friend to the degree that you had to come clean and ask for space - how do you know when you can go back?   Thanks again to Kath for joining us, we love her, find her on socials @kathbarbadoro and listen to What A Time To Be Alive and Lie Cheat And Steal wherever you find podcasts!   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

What up tote nashe (nat? naischte?) it's Audrey posting this week because Donovan is afflicted with the Novel Coronavirus. They're alright! Getting better, chattin' with them as we speak. Sitting in as Definitely Not Donovan Donovan this week is friend of the show Andrew Hilary joining us for a rollicking discussion of your questions, queries, quandaries and other sundries. We answer these burning questions! A listener updates us on an apology to an ex. | Is it problematic to stay friends with an ex? | Unicorn is growing angry at being forced into that role. What do? | Friend is probably gonna get back together with their shitty ex. How do you tell them no without being relentlessly negative? Check out The Worst Week Yet everywhere you find your podcasts! Check out our Patreon! Patreon.com/RFTB

This week, the Radio Free Tote Buddies are joined by writer Rebecca Alter to talk becoming ordained ministers, Skibidi Toilet and Momo the freaky-ass bird lady! She gets pretty vulnerable about attatchment!Follow it up with some listener questions, which is a thing we do! A relationship is long over and there's still guilt about how a listener treated their ex partner. Should they contact them and apologize? | Someone encourages your friend to go monogamous and she goes for it. Then the guy cheats! They make up after the cheating and then the friend treats you poorly. THEN you find the partner on Tinder!? What the hell! | A FINAL mention of the Blocked Party toilet jerk-off question. | A friend is into you and you're not into them. That's all well and good, but you ARE into their friend? How much should you spare the friend's feelings?   Follow Rebecca on Twitter!https://x.com/ralterCheck out our Patreon!https://www.patreon.com/rftb

Greetings dear listener! Gather close and attend ye the tale of our friend, actress and artist Tåsi, joining us on the program! We talk Seltz and the evils of Fanta, we talk bear v gorilla and the horrors of Ursus Maritimus. We get into a very fun embarassing dating story about a clogged toilet. Then, listener questions!   Anxious/Depressed person with ADHD has it all but the ability to text back. How do you find success in dating? | Partner has a physical illness preventing them from taking care of their half of the chores and you're getting burnt out. How do you navigate this? | Girlie at the gym is flirting with you, a happily married man. What's next?   Thanks so much to Tåsi for joining us! We had a lot of fun! Follow her at @islandgoth on Bluesky   Check out our Patreon for bonus episodes and video content! https://www.patreon.com/rftb

THUNDER NOISE! It's stormin in Chicago, Dono's sick, Audrey had a nice date, and we're joined this week by musician Darren Keen aka PROBLEMS! We're talking sobriety, getting back into dating, ART, and your QUESTIONS:   Dating after being hardcore gaslit | Struggling with the initial loneliness after moviing to a new city | Nebraska dog - good or nah? | Where HAVE all the cowboys gone?   Thanks again to Darren for joining us, go listen to PROBLEMS it's really good music and it's on streaming and keep an eye out for tour dates!   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Alright listen Audrey drank several beers and Dono napped right before this, I don't know what to tell ya. But wait we're joined this week by Ash from the Horror Vanguard podcast! Who is now out as trans! LFG! We catch up, Audrey takes a bird ID quiz, and then it's question time:   Relearning how to have sex after gaining the ability to orgasm for the first time | Another scorcher | How to stop being an over-apologizer | Another response to the crankin' it in the toilet survey   Thanks again to Ash for joining us, listen to Horror Vanguard wherever you find us!    

That's right, we hear the blues a-callin! You got us to our Patreon goal and, as promised, we're doing a bonus series on Frasier! Audrey's seen it multiple times, Dono's never seen an episode, and we're watching and discussing.   THE FIRST TASTE IS FREE! Subscribe to our Patreon for more hot Frasier action and bonus RFTB episodes each week at Patreon.com/rftb    

IT'S HOT! Except in Chicago its fine here for now. But everyone else on the show this week is gettin scorched and I mean EVERYONE cause we've got all three of the Librarypunk hosts with us, it's Sadie, Jay, and Justin, it's a goddamn panel show so we're talking inter-podcast romance and an embarrassing dating story from Sadie and then it's your questions:   Follow-up from the sexy mailman who wrote in | Gender dysphoria from a disability? | Best coffee table books to INTIMIDATE GUESTS   Thanks again to all the Librarypunk punks for joining us, they're great we've been on their show go check it out at librarypunk.gay   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Like stickers! Discord! And a new Frasier series we're doing on account of hitting our Patreon goal! Patreon.com/rftb gogogo

Good lord it's Fugue Week I stg. No guest. Dry. Moving and hard feelings, we're both a lil run down. But it makes for comedy and then we're pushing through and getting to as much of this question backlog as possible. Like ten of em it's a new record. Too many to list I am still exhausted.   Thanks for tuning in folks! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week and stickers and Discord and more? Head on over to Patreon.com/rftb

COME ORIGINAL! It's HOT gang jesus christ, it's a sweatisode and it's extra hot cause we got musician and weirdo extraordinaire FrankJavCee with us! We talk to Frank about all kinds of stuff from inflation to catching feelings to being queer and then it's question time: A mysterious insect cartoonist wonders what the calling card of 2020s music will be | How different is FJC online vs offline? | Partner looking at cis porn every time you have sex and it's making you insecure | Several responses to the Toilet Jerkoff Survey   Thanks again to Frank for joining us, this one was a blast! Find him basically everywhere as FrankJavCee   And thank you for tuning in! Hey want to support the show AND get bonus episodes each week PLUS almost 200 in the backlog AND Discord access AND sticker AND MORE? Head to patreon.com/RFTB gogogo

OOOOooooo Canada! O beach! O Plefan! What's up gang we've got a wild ep this week featuring Beach Dono and returning champion Stefan Heck! We talk beach and moving and curling and canada and jerking off into the toilet and also your questions:   Poly but a new partner is making you want to go monogamous | Wanting to leave your twitch cohost in a glue trap | Wondering if you're mediocre at life (you aren't) | Would you help your friend jerk it?? Thanks again to Stefan for joining us (and bumping us over our $500 goal! what a homie) You can find him on Bluesky @stefanheck and check out his work on Blocked Party pod and the Go Off Kings stream on Twitch!   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week, access to over 180 eps in the backlog, Discord access, a sticker, and MORE at Patreon.com/rftb 

What's up gang we're joined again by extremely cool person, Robin Hatch! We talk about our mutual pod friend meeting Fred Durst, Robin's move to LA, her dating life, and a whole lot of synth talk. Listen, we got excited idk what to tell ya. And then questions:   Trying not to fall into codependency again and SPOOKED | You're a mailman and you keep getting hit on and you're worried it's gonna cause problems   Thanks again to Robin for joining us, we love her and you should check out her music! Find her and her stuff on social media @robinhatch on Twitter and @robin__hatch on Insta   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! If we get two more Patrons we're doing a Frasier watch/rewatch, make it happen!

Eyyyyy new guest time! We're stoked to have Johnny Health himself from the band HEALTH with us! We talk music and get several embarassing stories before diving headfirst into your questions, here's what we get into:   A new listener says very nice things about us but is worried about overcoming their disability | Beer and margarita guy follow up | Rat Girl Summer | Pedal circuit question | Partner wants you to learn Chinese but turns out it's real hard | Would Johnny date a fan?? | Most annoying type of relationship to see in public?   Thanks again to Johnny for joining us, seriously go listen to HEALTH and see them live when they're near you, extremely great band! And find em on Insta @_HEALTH_   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like streams and stickers wow!

Howdy Totebaggers! We're joined this week by Beetlemoses of comics fame, who joins us for a freewheeling conversation that roams from fame to ignominy, from lizards to dogsitting. Then we get into listener questions!   How do you navigate seeing people you know on dating apps? | A beer and a margarita is a cause for concern? If you've ONLY had a beer and a margarita? | An existential sub follows up. | What do you do to cope in the hours and days following a breakup of a relationship of 5 years? | For Beetlemoses: What comics did you expect to be successful that were less so? | For Beetlemoses: What motivates you every day and which is your favorite comic that you've done?   Thanks again to Beetlemoses for joining us! What a homie! Check out the comics here! https://comicskingdom.com/beetle-moses Follow Beetlemoses on Twitter and Instagram! @Beetlemoses on both!

Hoowee! What's up gang, let's get right to it we've got Haus of Decline returning to the show - Trans Style! We talk about negative feedback on our media, Alex's coming out, getting the hang of makeup, and then questions:   Partner is saying your friend is too mean to you | Feel like you're not asexual anymore after a psychdelic experience? | What would we name a race horse | Feeling weird because you're still friends with someone who has distanced themself from your other friends | 

We're joined by Alex Goldman this week, a returning favorite! It's a laid back episode but Audrey has a hurty tooth and needs to pee and kicks her router so it dies and UGH.  Donovan is Siskel coded. A listener follows up about setting up their friend who has autism. | How do you *not* masturbate because you believe its effecting your sexual energy for your partner? | We don't care for coochie coochie coo. Also, should you let your freak flag fly on the dating apps? | How do you get to a place where you're okay with being a stay-at-home sub? How do you find internal validation? Thanks again to Alex for joining us! He's considering starting a new podcast! You can contribute to a survey to help him get some figure out how to go about starting/sustaining that below!Alex's Membership Survey! Follow Alex on Twitter! Check us out on Patreon! Music from the show is found here!

You will be brought to justice! What's up gang, insane time this week and we're joined by returning homie Kayte Terry. We catch up with Kayte on her dating and relationship excapades and then we answer your questions - a couple of which it seems are fradulent!   How much oil is TOO much in your pee? | A lovely follow-up on the unexpected pregnancy question from last week | Partner won't knock off the baby voice | Catching flak for a pretty reasonable kink   Thanks again to Kayte for joining us! Check out her shows Fangs For The Memories and Tender Subject - we've been on both! And find her on socials @kayteterry to see her rad art   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like sticker! and Discord!

Oh no Donovan's got news! No spoilers! Here's a spoiler though we're joined this week by John Cullen from Blocked Party and What Is A Jeopardy Podcast!   Friends with both sides post-breakup - how to handle social event invitations | How to navigate accidentally getting one your partners pregnant in a poly relationship | Feeling not-put-together at 29 | Anxious about getting back into dating after not having sex for 14 years   Thanks again to John for joining us, what a homie! Listen to Blocked Party and What Is A Jeopardy Podcast whever you listen to us. And find the link to John's upcoming show below: Broomgate: A Curling Scandal - https://link.chtbl.com/ijykS7P8   And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!