Divorce Conversations For Women

In this episode, Rhonda and Brynn discuss the crucial role of a nanny in co-parenting relationships, especially during and after divorce. Brynn, founder of the Premier Nanny Network, shares how professional nannies provide stability, facilitate trust, and help manage daily logistics, allowing parents to focus on quality time with their children. They also explore Brynn’s work in supporting women through life’s challenges and the potential for future collaboration. Key Topics: How a professional nanny supports co-parenting dynamics The impact of nannies on stability, trust, and financial matters post-divorce Brynn’s work helping women navigate life transitions Exciting plans for a future collaboration Connect with Brynn:  www.premiernannynetwork.com @premiernannynetwork Her Social Media:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/brynn-ungerleider-a123ba30a/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558084171799   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her

Rhonda talks with Divorce Recovery Coach and Therapist, Dawn Wiggins about healing in a holistic way. It’s a fascinating conversation about trauma and healing and how homeopathy can work to bring you back to your true self. Learn about:   Mind / Body Connection How we store negative energy  Homeopathic treatment methods There are resources to help you lift your energy levels [be sure to check out Dawn’s journal - linked below]   21 Day Immersive Journal   To get the journal for free, use the code: EMAILFRIENDS    And be sure to grab Rhonda’s new book: Bold Beginnings! About today’s guest:   Divorce recovery coach and therapist Dawn Wiggins helps people tear down their walls and build back their confidence. Challenging the status quo, she integrates multiple modalities from EMDR Therapy to EFT tapping, immersive journaling, and homeopathy, embracing remedies that heal both the mind and body.    She is on a mission to deliver life-changing therapy in an accessible and affordable way, with the same

Rhonda sits down with New Jersey attorneys, Sarah Jacobs and Jamie Berger. Sarah and Jamie’s unique approach to law makes them disruptors in the divorce space. Listen in as they share their top tips for navigating a high conflict divorce. You’ll learn:   How to separate the conflict from your end goal. Find balance in making concessions Feel empowered rather than backed up against the wall 3 tips to successful negotiating   Helpful apps mentioned in today’s episode;   DComply   Our Family Wizard About today’s guests:    The Jacobs Berger team takes a forward-thinking approach to family and matrimonial law by focusing on each client’s unique situation, needs and goals in order to de-stress the divorce process. This solution-oriented mentality helps avoid the scorched-earth approach so commonly seen (and encouraged) on TV.  Located in Morristown, NJ, the Jacobs Berger team of attorneys have decades of combined experience helping families before, during and after the divorce process.    Their areas o

Rhonda sits down with narcissistic abuse expert and divorce coach, Tracy Malone to dive into the importance of protecting yourself and your kids with a good financial parenting plan.    Here are some topics they tackle in this episode [and don’t miss the link and coupons below for Tracy’s Masterclass!]   How to stop post-divorce abuse in advance Learn what to do if your ex won’t do what they promised Build in a conflict resolution policy - do not rely on the courts   Fight for what you need. It’s your life, your children, your future. Tracy has a special offer for our listeners! Join her course and save $100! (note: there are limited coupons and the code is only good through 12/31/24)   https://bit.ly/ParentingPlanCourse-RN   Use this code to save: RHONDA-LOVES-100   Variable Expense Apps discussed in this episode: DComply   Our Family Wizard About today’s guest:   Tracy A. Malone is a dynamic Author, Speaker, Educator, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach.    As a sur

Certified Divorce & Relationship Coach Cindy Stibbard sits down with Rhonda to talk through if divorce is the right option for you. Many women contemplate getting divorce for over 2 years before they make a move. How do you work through the decision? Who should you reach out to for support? Here are some things they cover:   What is my “why?” Self abandonment (learn what this is) Is divorce right for me, right now?   This episode is packed with great insight!  About today’s guest:    Cindy Stibbard is a Certified Divorce Coach who will help you unpack if you’re ready to move forward with your divorce. ​​   A previous version of you chose this relationship—but maybe it has stopped serving you and who you’ve become. Now you are wondering if you are facing the reality of making the difficult decision to stay and give it one last shot at repair or prepare to go—and how to even know what comes next. You are not alone. Connect with Cindy:   Website: https://www.cindystibbard.com/   Instagram: https:

Rhonda sits down with Health Advisor, Leah Perry to discuss the options for Health Insurance after you’re divorced. It’s not fun to talk about - but necessary - and one of the biggest post-divorce expenses.    Topics include:   3 options to get coverage for you and your kids Timing is crucial How to best evaluate your needs as you move forward   Schedule a consultation with Leah:  https://calendly.com/leahmperry2096/insurance-quote?month=2024-02 About today’s guest:   For the past decade, Leah Perry has shouldered the responsibilities of being a single mom to two amazing teens. Along the way, she faced the challenges of divorce, battled lymphoma without the safety net of proper health coverage, and navigated the depths of those difficult times without a strong support system.    Now, she’s here, driven by my own experiences, on a mission to make sure no one else faces the financial and emotional strain of illness without the right coverage. Her days are dedicated to helping others navigate the comp

Rhonda and Attorney Max Emmer talk through some of the latest trends they are seeing in the divorce process.    There is more than one way to get divorced - be informed. Preparation and information goes a long way. Learn some of the newest trends and changes. Imperative that you build the right team for your situation.  About today’s guest:   Max Emmer has been a lawyer for 11 years, with his own boutique family law firm in metro-Detroit for 3 years. He focuses extensively on collaborative divorce, Mediation as a certified Mediator, limited scope services and solutions, and, working with clients creatively and strategically to move on to their next chapter. Max believes lawyers are meant to be advisors and counselors, not just bullying paper pushers. His aim is to help clients obtain the necessary facts, information, law and options to make the best decisions for themselves (and their children).    Connect with Max:    Website: https://www.emmerlawplc.com/   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/

Join Rhonda and CPA Kathy Bue as they walk through some of your tax questions. It’s never too early to be thinking about tax planning, especially if you’re in the midst of divorce.    Tune in to learn:   What should you be doing now? How should you file? What you need to gather (we can help you with that!) What questions should you be asking? About today’s guest:   As a money coach, Kathy walks with you, encourages you, and helps you achieve your goals by understanding your finances and assisting you in making wise decisions.  Through one-on-one financial coaching, we intentionally build new money skills and habits which will move you from frustrated to successful, helping you gain confidence and clarity in your finances. Most people were never taught about personal finance.  Instead, they learned about money by trial and error, leaving them frustrated and anxious.  Seeing this great need, she completed the Ramsey Preferred Coach training.  Kathy enjoys helping people remove their stress and anxi

Today’s conversation is an important one, but may be triggering for some. Guard your heart and be gentle with yourself as you listen.    Rhonda sits down with Attorney Allison Mahoney to discuss abuse including: coercive control, sexual abuse and cyber sexural abuse. Here are some things they cover:   Learn the various types of abuse. What is cyber image based abuse? Set realistic expectations. What steps can you take? Find an advocate and build your team! About today’s guest:   Allison Mahoney founded ALM Law in December 2022. They represent survivors of abuse, helping them to share their stories, find justice, and regain control of their lives.  Their clients are survivors of sexual abuse, cyber sexual abuse, and domestic violence as well as children harmed while in the custody of child welfare systems.   Allison has represented survivors for over a decade. She was previously a Senior Staff Attorney and the Interim Deputy Director at A Better Childhood, a nonprofit that investigates foster

Rhonda and Professional Counselor, Sue Bruckner sit down to discuss emotional wellness, particularly for highly sensitive women going through divorce. Here are some highlights:   Navigate  your divorce and come out stronger. How to make emotional wellness a priority. Learn the 3 pillars of emotional wellness. How do you know if you’re highly sensitive?   Be sure to download Sue’s free resource: Love Again Post Divorce. About today’s guest:   Sue Bruckner is a Holistic Relationship Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor Her business, With Intention is a personal development company specializing in guiding deeply feeling, intuitive, highly sensitive women through their divorce process and into a deeply connected, meaningful post-divorce life. She offers individual therapy and coaching, created a curriculum and group programming, and facilitates community gatherings and workshops. Her presence is calm, connected, and deeply nurturing. Sue draws upon both her personal and professional experiences a

Spoiler: YES. If you’ve got kids over 18 - listen up! Rhonda sits down with Estate Planning Attorney, Ashley Lillesand and her 18 year old daughter, Jenna to discuss the importance of having a Medical and Financial Power of Attorney. This is especially important if you are divorcing.   What is a Power of Attorney? Why is it important to have it in place sooner than later? Choose the most qualified person to speak on your behalf. Let’s normalize this! About today’s guest:    Attorney Ashley Lillesand has fine-tuned her practice over the years to focus on estate planning for both young families and clients reaching retirement age who need guidance with asset protection strategies. Additionally, Ashley represents clients with Probate and Trust administration and Medicaid applications. Ashley also hasn’t forgotten what brought her to law school in the first place by continuing to represent family members in guardianship matters which require knowledge of guardianship laws and the practical ins and ou

Rhonda’s guest today is Cathy Himlin, Family and Marriage Therapist and court officer in Dependency Court. Rhonda and Cathy take an honest look at parenting through divorce and how the court system doesn’t always support what’s best for the child. Here is what they cover:   Divorce shifts a parent’s role. The developmental stages of a child must be considered. Imbalance in the parenting roles can be financially motivated. Parental Alienation - what it is, and what it isn’t. Separate court from time with your child.   About today’s guest:    Cathy Himlin is a member of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts and an affiliate member of the San Diego Family Law Bar Association. At the request of the latter, she has developed trainings for attorneys to help them support their clients (both minors and their parents) in Family Law and Dependency Courts. Cathy is the President and CEO of Family Connections Therapy and the Founder of Himlin Consulting, as well as being a court-involved family th

Rhonda sits down with esteemed Business Coach and CEO, Judy Weber for a candid conversation around being divorced, finding your voice, and building your future. Rhonda and Judy are passionate about advocating for women and you’ll hear how they both use their time and talents to further this mission.   About today’s guest:   Judy Weber works exclusively with high-achieving Christian women, teaching them timeless business strategies - from a decidedly Biblical perspective - so they can step into their CEO role with confidence, calm & certainty.    She helps clients scale business in a way that honors Christ and fulfills their God-given purpose   Connect with Judy:   Website   Instagram   LinkedIn   Facebook    YouTube Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorc

Rhonda’s guest today is Trainer and Consultant, Doug LaBelle who specializes in Gambling Disorder. If you’ve discovered your spouse has a gambling problem, you know how that influences the entire household. If it’s a part of the divorce process, it gets even more complicated. Listen in as Rhonda and Doug unpack what it’s like to live with someone who gambles.    Here is what they cover:   Types of gambling and ways it affects the entire family What to do if you suspect your spouse is gambling and how you can prove it Getting the emotional support you need to heal from the trauma About today’s guest:    Doug LaBelle is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, National Certified Gambling Counselor II, Certified Employee Assistance Professional   Specialties: Mood disorders, Grief and Loss, Addictions (alcohol and other drugs, gambling). Connect with him on LinkedIn Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for

Rhonda is joined by Coach and Author Rebecca Davis to discuss telling your story post-trauma, particularly if you have experienced spiritual abuse. Your life lessons matter and can help others!   Here is what they cover:   How do you know when you’re ready to share your story? Organize your thoughts in a way that helps others. Be in a place of healing before you write your book. Sharing your story will leave a legacy. About today’s guest:   Rebecca Davis is a trauma-informed coach and author, devoted to those who have experienced spiritual abuse through twisted Scriptures. Rebecca is the author of the Untwisting Scriptures series of books, designed to help those who have experienced spiritual abuse get to know the true heart of God. With over 40 years of study of the Scriptures, Rebecca writes to help Christians have a deeper understanding of God and His love for them, to help those who have been abused find hope in the Lord Jesus Christ, and to help Christians better understand how they can help

Rhonda sits down with Social Worker, Veteran and Military wife, Vanessa Lech to discuss life in the military. Vanessa shares how important it is to advocate for yourself - particularly if you are a spouse in the military.    Maintaining your career and occupational credentials Learn the laws that apply to your situation and location. Locate safe access to legal support. Prioritize your health. It is not selfish to focus on your own goals or career.  About today’s guest:   Vanessa Lech is a Military Veteran and Military Wife, born into a family with a proud history of serving in the U.S. Military. "Veterans Affairs Whistleblower Retaliation" Paperback and Hardcover books can be purchased at Lulu Book Store.   Vanessa is licensed as a Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in N.C., has a Masters Degree in Social Work (MSW), a Masters of Science in Health Sciences with a Concentration in Public Health, and a Bachelors of Science in Health Care Management.   Vanessa is passionate about sharing valuable inf

Rhonda is joined today by renowned podcast host, Kate Anthony! They have an honest conversation about making the big decision about your marriage - should you stay or go?    You have a choice Ask yourself the right questions Get informed Tips on how to be prepared once you do decide Know your worth Get Kate’s Book! https://kateanthony.com/dword/   About our Guest:   Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Advocate, a Co-Parenting Specialist, and a High Conflict Divorce Coach.   Connect with Kate:   Instagram Facebook page Facebook gro

Attorney Evan Schein sits down with Rhonda to talk about what happens when you’re facing litigation.     Is litigation as bad as it seems? Ways you can make the process move more smoothly. Finding the right team. Ask the right questions. Do not short circuit the divorce process. About today’s guest:   Evan Schein is a partner with the firm and leads the firm’s litigation practice. Mr. Schein joined Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP in 2010 after practicing at another well-known matrimonial law firm.   Mr. Schein is an experienced litigator with an ability to find creative solutions to complex issues. This allows Mr. Schein to deliver optimum results for his clients at trial or during settlement negotiations. Mr. Schein prides himself on working closely with his clients to develop litigation and negotiation strategies that fit a client’s goals. Whether negotiating a prenuptial agreement for a client or litigating a divorce, Mr. Schein zealously advocates for his clients’ interests.   Conne

Enjoy this recording from our recent live stream with Attorney and Divorce Coach, Kara Francis. Kara and Rhonda have an honest conversation about feeling stuck and what you can do to break free.  You can decide how your divorce will go - you have more power than you think. Learn the types of blocks that are holding you back. What to do when fear and lies paralyze you. Practical steps to help you move the needle forward. About today’s guest:   Kara Francis is an LIcensed Attorney, Professional Coach and Mediator.    As a Marriage & Divorce Coach, Kara’s mission is to help you find and follow your truest, most aligned path in your marriage and in life. You don’t have to stay in an unhealthy or unfulfilling marriage, even for the kids. Your divorce doesn’t have to be a knock-down, drag-out fight. Your post-divorce chapter doesn’t have to be overwhelming and intimidating   Connect with Kara:   Website: https://www.karafranciscoaching.com/   Instagram and TikTok - @karafranciscoaching Your hos

Rhonda sits down with Real Estate Expert, Jeremy Doering for a candid conversation about all of the changes in the industry right now. They discuss how this will affect you - especially in divorce - and what you can do to successfully navigate the buying / selling process. They cover;   National Association Realtors Lawsuit Finding the right experts A roadmap for both parties Inflation, Economics and timing How do you prepare for any out of pocket costs? About today’s guest:    Jeremy Doering  started buying properties as a investment in 2001 and started working in the mortgage industry in 2001. In 2004 he moved to Las Vegas to open a mortgage branch. In 2006, he passed his real estate license, and in 2008, became part-owner of a real estate company in Las Vegas.   In 2009, Jeremy moved to SanDiego and started a partnership with a real estate group. In 2011/2012, he moved back to Wisconsin and opened his own firm called Doering&Co.   During his career, Jeremy has represented many walks of li