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Do you have an OnlyFans account? You may need one as many are turning to the internet to generate income with many creating OnlyFans pages to have folks subscribe to their content for entertainment. And the 'Adult-ish' crew are all over the rise of OnlyFans in this episode.Host Afiya and co-host Vincent take on the growing popularity — and stigma — behind the content creator outlet and chat about the folks flocking to the website for fun and those shaming the entertainers sharing their skills for the world. The pair delve deeper into the over-sexed perception of the site, the prudes who have an issue with, and start the scratch the surface on how a lot of the questions about sexuality a site like this provokes. It's quite the episode — so we invite you all to listen! Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vinceberna

COVID-19 has been quite the nuisance, but there's been one silver lining: the Verzuz battles. On Saturday, May 7 the Verzuz battle between Erykah Badu and Jill Scott popped off and rather than being another basic battle, these two powerhouses gave their fans one hell of a musical experience — and the Adult-ish crew needed an episode to gush about it. Listen on as host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard speak about their favorite parts of the battle and how COVID-19 has allowed them the time to rediscover music.The two music lovers take a trippy turn in this episode, discuss who they would match up in their own Verzuz battle, and even take a moment to relay how they're able to best take in tunes (aka with a bit of the green stuff *wink*).(If you're not up to speed, the Verzuz battles are essentially free, Instagram Live concerts were artists pit their catalogs against each other to let the court of public opinion not only reminisce on better days through music but to also be the judge of who has the better coll

Season 4 of HBO's hit show "Insecure" has got the 'Adult-ish' crew talking about friendships, and this time we're talking about toxic friends. In Part 2 of our two-part episode featuring our host, Afiya, and her sassy, shady bud & fellow "Insecure" fan, Gary, the two continue to delve deep into the first two episodes of the hit dramedy and hit pay dirt when the conversation of toxic friends comes to light. Listen on as the two delve into the concept of harmful friendships built on superiority complexes and power dynamics and do their best to answer the question: what happens when the basis and/or foundation of friendship is no longer there? How do you handle life once the things that made you and your bestie have changed? What do you do when your friendship changes due to your own personal evolution? Hear them talk it out!Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Adult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adulti

Art is absolutely imitating life on Season 4 of HBO's hit show, "Insecure," and the Adult-ish crew is living for these adult-ish themes circling friendships. Yes, the topic of changing friendships has come up a few times, but in this latest episode, our host, Afiya is joined by her savvy bud & fellow "Insecure" fan, Gary, to discuss the super tense friendship between the show's main characters, Molly and Issa. Listen on at the two have a mini-recap of the show's first two episodes, do a bit of soul critical thinking around the theme of personal growth, and discuss the lessons of loss the show may be putting us onto. Part 1 of this two-part episode features two friends chatting about all the shady moments, and thought-inducing actions of two people who seemingly used to be friends. Take a listen! Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Adult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastAre your #TeamIssa

Sick of talk about COVID-19? So are we, but it's a part of the "new normal" and in the episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya is rejoined by co-host Vincent Bernard to discuss the woes of this dreadful pandemic. In this episode (recorded via Zoom because "social distancing"), the duo talks about living life in self-quarantined as a result of the ongoing pandemic run rampant in their native New York City. How are they staying sane in what is being deemed the "new normal"? What tips and tricks do they have in order to keep things moving on a day-to-day basis and what has been triggering and making life difficult? Are there any real perks to working from home or are they really just trying to work during a crisis? Hear the twosome get in all their self-isolating feels! Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardAdu

Picking up where we left off, in this latest episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya continues the chat with Errol Gordon, the founder of FoFoArtGear on how to transition your craft into a career.Listen on as the pair talk about the ups and downs of the hustle of being a creative entrepreneur, as well as the hurdles that can keep one from continuing on. Is there a point where a hobby-turned-business can give creative burnout? Is there a right or wrong way on how to promote your creative business online? And lastly, is it all worth it? Afiya and Errol share their personal pitfalls, and share a few gems on how to stay positive in order to make your creative endeavors an entrepreneurial success. Check it out!Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Guest: Errol Gordon http://instagram.com/fofoartgearhttp://instagram.com/_beastart_Adult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastDo you have amazing plans for a crea

Everyone wants to be an entrepreneur, and only a few are successful at it — especially when the business itself is a creative endeavor. In this latest episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya sits down for a long-overdue chat with Errol Gordon, the founder of FoFoArtGear to discuss how he was able to transition his love of art into a successful creative career for himself. Listen on as he describes how his love of doodling and sketching eventually evolved into becoming an entrepreneur determined to bring beauty into the world in the form of artistic expression and how he hopes to give other artists the opportunity to shine as well.Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Guest: Errol Gordon http://instagram.com/fofoartgearhttp://instagram.com/_beastart_Adult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastDo you have amazing plans for a creative endeavor? Tell us all about it at Afiya@Digidisnet.com. We'd love to giv

In past episodes of "Adult-ish," we've talked about catching a case of the SADs (Seasonal Affective Disorder) during the holidays, and we've also talked about how to de-stress (cue Tati Luv shouting 'SEX')... but have we actually talked about stress itself? Well, we're starting the conversation right now! In this new episode, host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard are joined by Vincent's beau, The Cuban, to speak on stress, anxiety, the key difference between the two, and how we do our best to handle it. The conversation takes a few swerves and turns, but ultimately raises the question on the non-sexual way we approach our day-to-day stresses, long-held anxieties, and overall mental wellness. Take a listen! Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://

It's been a week living in the COVID-19 pandemic of NYC and our host Afiya is back with new thoughts and feels on the subject after having to endure the rapid changes herself. Will she change her tune on toilet tissue hoarding? Will she think people are over-the-top for wearing face masks now that it's a little more than just a mild cold or flu? Probably not. After all, she's not Vanessa Hudgens =\Hear her out as she explains (but does not backtrack) her thoughts on the pandemic affecting her and those around her. She also rips a new one for the people still showing their entire asses during an unprecedented time.Find out what she says by listening to the latest episode! Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Adult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastHow are you all holding up during COVID? Hit us up on the socials above or via email at Afiya@Digidisnet.com. You've got the time now...

It's an episode about that pandemic y'all and host Afiya is getting A LOT of animosities out regarding what's being going on in the general public. The world is being impacted by Coronavirus/COVID-19 and in this Fifi After Dark (sans alcohol), our host gives a breakdown on how the virus has led to an outbreak of stupidity, in her opinion. Listen on as she details her disgust with the hoarding of toilet paper and water, her annoyance with over shopping of food, and how pandemic panic is really the danger we're facing. Hear her get in her feels, y'all — it's completely unfiltered.Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Adult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastAre people really doing the most for COVID-19? Tell us all about it at Afiya@Digidisnet.com

The 'Adult-ish' podcast is BACK, y'all! For the Season 4 premiere of the Adult-ish podcast host, Afiya A. is joined by her amazing co-host, Vincent Bernard, and Vincent's beau, Alex, "The Cuban" to celebrate the couple's anniversary (woot woot) AND discuss the Netflix phenom, "Love Is Blind." With a brief synopsis provided by Afiya, the group poses the question, "Is love really blind?" Using the reality TV show as a starting point, the trio discusses their own challenges in relationships as was presented on the show, specifically the age gap between Vincent and The Cuban, the differences in their culture, and questions physical attraction being vital or not. Listen in for the laughs, the ruminating, and members of the crew decide for themselves whether or not love can truly be blind. Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twit

Hello, 'Adult-ish' Stans and Fans!Happy 2020!!! It's been far too long since a new episode of the 'Adult-ish' podcast, but Host Afiya A. is here with an end to the drought. That's right — 'Adult-ish' returns for a Season 4 to your favorite streaming platform on March 11! The colorful host also spills a few deets on what's to come in the new year and the podcast is looking to do a few interesting things to keep the energy — and conversation going. Tune in to the quick update and remember to come on back for the 'Adult-ish' Season 4 premiere on March 11 on most streaming platforms!! Thank you for continuing to listen to us and show us love. We love y'all! Email: afiya@digidisnet.com http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta (Afiya)http://instagram.com/alja0214 (Afiya)https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543 (Vincent Bernard)http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83 (Vincent Bernard)http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard (Vincent Bernard)https://www.facebook.com/DigitalDiscoveryNetwork http

2019 is coming to an end in just a few hours and it also marks the end of Season 3 of the 'Adult-ish' podcast! That's right — good things must come to an end, and this year, we're sending the podcast out on a bit of an alcohol-laced bang with the final 'Fifi After Dark' of the year. In this end-of-year episode, host Afiya piggybacks on the idea of "letting go" from the previous episode and makes it the overall theme of the episode while taking a look back at all the topics that were touched on during the year and bringing it all together. We promise this episode is more lucid than you'll think and definitely propels the conversation of how letting go of things that have been plaguing our hosts throughout the year can propel them into a more prosperous 2020. Thank you all for listening to us and be sure to come back in the new year!Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 http://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/digidisnetis t

Happy Holidays, Adult-ish Fam! While we hope that everyone is filled with holiday cheer this Winter 2019, there are those of us who may be having a hard time during this festive season. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard tackle those who are can't get into the celebratory spirit due dealing with the S.A.D. — Seasonal Affective Disorder. Listen as the duo talk to their own experience with tearing down the facade of what the holiday season meant to them, talk about how S.A.D. can truly affect those this time of year, and Afiya goes a step further to discuss her own experience with dealing with people in her life who may be affected by the S.A.D.s. — and how they've actually made her sad as well with their actions. *Please note — the conversation may be triggering.*Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83h

As adults, we should be looking to expand our horizons by taking in a movie, a play, a musical, or a dance performance, but sometimes our pockets can't afford such luxuries. Well, thankfully 'Adult-ish' host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard take to talking about the very subject on this episode and even provide a little help to broaden those horizons on a budget. Vincent takes the reins to discuss the fabulous way a little culture can add to one's life while dropping a few resources on how to score tickets to a Broadway show for cheap. Meanwhile, Afiya speaks to the stigma of being a "cultured" individual, how some may see the experience as a way to demean others and the duo explain how it can a key component to diverting some of those growing pains of becoming an adult. Adult-ish Podcasthttp://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastHost: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoetahttp://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://insta

It's hard to navigate the world... even more so, when you can't get any relief because you can't get pleasure from someone else — or yourself. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya kicks back with special guest co-host, Tati Luv of 'The Luv Chronicles' to spitball on turn offs including broken battery-operated-boyfriends and dating men who love themselves too much to even notice their dates. Listen as the duo rattle on about Afiya's not-so-great times with her not-so-vibrating pals and her less-than-stimulating dates. Trust us, you won't want to miss the laughter (or the opportunity to laugh at this lady's expense)!Do you have any pet peeves of self-love sad stories? Join the convo by emailing the crew at Afiya@digidisnet.com or hitting us up on social media at the handles below:Adult-ish Pod http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastHost, Afiya A. http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Special Guest Co-Host, Tati Luvhttp://instagram.com/theluvchronicles

Do you have a hard time saying, "I'm sorry," to someone that you've wronged? Can the words flow easily, or are you just a person who loves to be wrong and strong? Well, we talk about it all on this episode of "Adult-ish." Host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard hop behind the mic to discuss how "Everybody 'grown' until it's time to communicate or apologize." The pair talk about how a bad apology (oh yes, they do exist), a backwards apology, or the absence of one can really make a difference in a person's perspective and what it really means when someone can't admit their fault or wrong doing. Hear the two ponder on how this all ties into being an adult, and hopefully learn how to say those two magical words yourself. Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoetahttp://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardDo you have your own tale about apologizing — or

You know already KNOW the "Adult-ish" crew has a soft spot for all things Disney, and on this episode, they're at it again! On November 12, Disney officially released its newest product: it's streaming service, Disney+ and co-host Vincent Bernard got his first taste of all that goodies Disney has to offer with this newest addition to the entertainment biz. Listen as the pair dive deep into the world of their favorite Disney animation, what it's like to relieve their childish gems through this new innovation, and how Disney strategically found its self into our adult-ish hearts. Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoetahttp://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardHave you tried out Disney+ yet? Tell us your thoughts at afiya@digidisnet.com

The saying goes, "The sins of the father shall be visited upon the sons," and yet it doesn't seem like we've really taken the time to think how the actions of your parents in the past may have molded who you are as an adult. Well, in this episode of 'Adult-ish,' we do. For this installment of 'Adult-ish Presents Fifi After Dark,' — recorded on Veteran's Day — our host Afiya A. takes a swig of her concoction as she toils over a conversation between mother and daughter that eventually leads her down to the question: how much does our parents' sins really after our adult ish? Listen on as she gives examples of how the sins of the past may take root in the children of the future and her thoughts on how we should all work on keeping history from repeating itself. Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 http://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/digidisnetHave any observations on your own how a parent's actions manifesting in your a

So your established friends are getting married and/or having kids and you've found the relationship's changed. You're still cool, but feel like something's missing and you need a new perspective. Sounds like you need a new friends. But, when you're already comfortable with those around you, how do you go about making new friends when you're in your 30s? The concept may be harder than you think, and in this episode of 'Adult-ish,' host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard talk about just that. The duo give personal accounts of how they're attempting to integrate new people into their lives after already making life-long friendships and bonds with those in their circle. The episode culminates on Afiya's own current steps in making friends and the childish awkwardness that's beginning to resurface! Take a listen on how we're learning to make NEW friends and hit us up on the socials below with your feels: Host: Afiya A. http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajolie