Adult-ish

Do you ever feel a way when you re-watch one of your favorite films as an adult? While we know 'Adult-ish' host Afiya loves to tear into Disney films with her adult lenses, it's Mr. Vincent Bernard who has something to say about one of his favorite features. In this fun episode of 'Adult-ish,' the pair take on several films from their past including 'To Wong Foo: Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar,' and how the film reduced sexual assault to comedic plot as well as their personal favorite, 'Bram Stoker's Dracula.' The two really take a deeper dive into moments of the film that spoke to assault, rape, and sexuality on levels that weren't really there yet as younger folks. While we laughed and loved as children, as adults, the twosome sit back and take a harder look at these themes and how they expressed themselves. And yes, the two were slightly inebriated. But that makes the convo all the more fun! Take a listen and hit them up on the socials below: Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instag

Baby, we're back! Your favorite podcast hosts are back together and they're here to discuss the very thing that's been keeping them booked and busy: traveling. In this episode of 'Adult-ish,' host Afiya is joined by the glamourous Vincent Bernard to discuss the recurring themes of travel, recall their recent trips away from home, the experiences they had, and how the very act of "travel" is much needed as an adult. Listen on ats the pair describe the sights, sounds, and perspectives they got on each of their trips and how the time away from home can actually do a bit of recharging of the soul. Can't get away or feeling very cautious about traveling in the times of Corona? Well, the duo also gives their own tips and trips on how to get the "away from home" feeling in your country, state, and/or city. It doesn't take a lot to create a getaway that works for you — and your pockets. Be sure to tune in and give your own thoughts, too! Links Mentioned:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.c

All is fair in love and war, right? So why do girl/guy codes seem to make or break a potential relationship? In this episode of 'Adult-ish,' host Afiya uses the time for a little Fifi After Dark to discuss her own unconventional -- and possibly controversial -- thoughts on the ever-popular "girl code" as it related to 'Real Housewives of Atlanta' reality star, Porsha Williams. The peach-holding hottie has been put in some hot water after announcing her new engagement to boyfriend Simon after a month of dating for those not in the know. The shocker? Simon is recently divorced from Porsha's "friend" Fallon. While new details regarding the relationships between all parties involved come to light, many are throwing Porsha under the bus for violating the "girl code," but is she wrong? Should one deny themselves a potential love because of a past relationship that included a "friend"? Of course, we can have a conversation on what it really means to be a "friend," but for right now, the slightly inebriated host is d

What happens when the child in the family grows up and wants to be viewed as an adult around the other adults in their lives? After a month-long impromptu hiatus, Adult-ish is BACK, and on this episode, we're diving head-first into a Fifi After Dark talking about... well, being an adult! For this FAD, our slightly tipsy host speaks about her recent travels to older/elder relatives and talks to her experience of being seen (or not) as an adult... as an adult. While some folks have an easier time of the transition from kid to adult in their families, the Brooklyn-based podcaster speaks to her time making the jump in a traditional, Caribbean family, where years of routine respect, obedience, and even language can dominate one's perspective on another. Take a listen and hear what's she's got to say! Links Mentioned: Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0

Parents... it's hard to raise them, am I right? In this episode of 'Adult-ish,' host Afiya comes through with a new Fifi After Dark to continue the conversation on raising parents. Digging into her own personal experiences, the quirky hostess divulges her thoughts on children taking care of their parents in their older years; the stresses of trying to be in control and take care of individuals who do not know how to give up authority. In talking about her trials and tribulations, she also speaks to the concept of younger children being obligated to take care of their parents in their old age and all the feels that come along with that. Take a listen — it's sure to get you thinking about your own looming future. Links Mentioned: Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://facebook.com/adultishp0dcastWhen the time comes, are you going to be raisi

It's one thing to have to learn how to adult, it's another when you have to take care of one, too. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya is joined by co-host Vincent Bernard to pose a big question a lot of older millennials like themselves are facing these days: how can I make the most of my life while taking care of my aging parent? Not all folks are often met with the responsibility of taking care of their older parent, but for the twosome, the looming thought is slowly becoming a reality and the duo sit and hash out what it means to... well, parent a parent. Listen on as they speak to their current experiences with the topic, give their thoughts on what can help the situation, and speak to the idea of a child who does not want to take care of their parent's in their twilight years — and why it's OK to feel that way. Take a listen! Links Mentioned —Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comCo-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.fac

It's been a while, but we're back — with a new episode of "Fifi After Dark" for this week's episode of "Adult-ish." In this episode, our CBD-infused hostess speaks to her recent issues with her health and how it's put a spotlight on the overall concept of wellness. While opening up about her current illness, Afiya talks very candidly about how we often neglect signs when our bodies are telling us something is wrong and how pushing ourselves and not taking care of our health can cause more harm than we bargained for. Listen on to her own cautionary tale, and be sure to let her know how YOU have been taking stock of what's going on with your body and wellness. Links Mentioned: Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://facebook.com/adultishp0dcastAre you checking in with your body regularly? Tell us all about it at afiya@digidisnet.com.

It's time to celebrate, 'Adult-ish' fans and stans — our very own Vincent Bernard is striking it out on his own and we're taking in the full moment. Our favorite co-host's recent move to his own pad is the subject of today's episode and with host Afiya A., the pair discuss the differences between living on your own, living with your family, living on your own with others, and the importance of how a mindset can make a home. Drawing from their own personal experiences with others, the two dish on how much personal space matters to a person's growth as well as their feelings on what makes a person's place feel like an "adult" lives there. Tune in — you won't want to miss it! Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comCo-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0d

It's the first week of March, and some of us are still feeling the result of all those chocolate-covered strawberries, seafood-stuffed lobster tails, and steak from Valentine's Day. With that in mind, it may be time for a reset — and on this episode of "Adult-ish," you'll learn how with an expert. Former guest and friend to the show Kwaku (aka Super Osei) flexes his personal training savvy to breakdown the importance of doing a health reset, the best foods to help you get in gear and even gives a few tips and tricks on how to get back in shape. Listen on as he and host Afiya A. talk fit vs. fat and even debate about whether a person can be both! Tune in — you won't want to miss it. Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Clubhouse @AljaugustSpecial Guest Co-Host: Kwaku aka Super Oseihttp://instagram.com/super.oseiSpotify: Super OseiAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastHTTP://facebook.com/adult

Drinking — it's something we love to do, and at times a hallmark, nay, a right of passage for adulthood. So, why does it seem like a lot of us are doing wrong? Well, because we are. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. sits down with Kayla Mensah, a sommelier, to discuss the science behind drinking wine, finding the stuff you like, and some of the stereotypes that have come with drinking liquor. The duo go down a rabbit hole talking about drinks that were once outlawed for certain groups (looking at you, Coke!), and how the beverage industry is playing favorites to get sales out of us. Oh yeah — even drinks are racialized. Tune in for a pretty interesting conversation. Links Mentioned: Host, Afiya A. http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214HTTP://www.aljathewriter.comClubhouse @AljaAugust Special Guest, Kayla Mensahwww.winegriot.com HTTP://instagram.com/winegriot winegriot@gmail.comAdult-ish Pod http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcastHTTP://facebook

Still reeling over the titillating talk about porn with adult entertainer, Jet Setting Jasmine? Well, Afiya is — that's why this episode of "Adult-ish Presents: Fifi After Dark," she's really getting into it with a concoction and conversation about porn and her relationship with sex. The pseudo-sober host opens up about her introduction to sex, how she was able to understand her sexuality, and comes clean about her former love-hate relationship with porn. Was she ever able to break free from the shackles of shame? Tune in to find out.Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://facebook.com/adultishp0dcastWhat is your relationship with porn like? Tell us all about it at afiya@digidisnet.com.

Porn. Pornographic material. We all know about it. Some of us use it, some of us... not so much. Sometimes, uttering the word can bring about many feelings — including shame. So, let's talk about it with an expert! In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. sits down with psychotherapist, fetish trainer, AND adult entertainer Jet Setting Jasmine to discuss our feelings about porn as adults. This very candid conversation runs the gamut from the porn star's first introduction to sex, to how she believes porn can be used to shape our perceptions of sex and sexuality in a healthy way. The two speak to how they use porn in their individual lives and why it's essential to break the negative stigma around the industry since it's the way many of us first learn about the concept of sexual pleasure. And if sexual pleasure is important, shouldn't the conversation around watching it hold similar weight? We think so! Make sure to tune into this episode — you won't want to miss it! *Podcaster note* - "Don Jon" reference

Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and for the single crowd, that day can be one of the worst days of the year. But it doesn't have to be. In this light-hearted episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. welcomes back relationship coach Alison Wellington of Align with Alison to discuss how singletons should take on the holiday. Not only does Alison give a few tips and tricks on how to celebrate like a single, but she and Afiya also tackle the over-used term "self-love," what they think of the phrase, "Every day should be Valentine's Day," and what their favorite Valentine's Day looked like. It's a fun and helpful episode filled with tiny, red, hear-shaped gems — so you're not gonna want to miss it. Tune in, now! Links Mentioned: Host, Afiya A. http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214HTTP://www.aljathewriter.comClubhouse @AljaAugust Special Guest, Alison Wellington of Align With Alisonhttp://www.alignwithalison.comhttp://instagram.com/alignwithalisonhttp://twitter.com/alignwithalisonhtt

Comics may be popular among the kids, but let's face it, a comic book fan will always be a comic book fan — and in this episode of 'Adult-ish,' host Afiya A. and co-host Vincent Bernard chat with one woman who's made her childhood love her current career! In this fantabulous episode, content creator Stephanie Williams joins the "Adult-ish" cast to talk about her LOL-worthy viral tweets to her new position as a staff writer for Marvel Voices. The writer and low-key comedian breaks down her inspiration for her comedic social media presence and gives us a full origin story of how she went from making Marvel fan-fiction comic book to actually joining their Steph as a storyteller. And when she and Vincent get into the feels about comic book characters and runs, it's a geek-fest like you wouldn't believe! Make sure to check it out now! Guest: Stephanie Williams http://twitter.com/steph_i_willhttp://instagram.com/steph_i_will https://www.instagram.com/bwit_webcomic/https://www.instagram.com/parenthoodactivate/www.wh

Hey, Adult-ish fans & stans! In this update, 'Adult-ish' host Afiya A. breaks down what's to come for the month of February and you don't want to miss it. While January has been a bit dry (and no, not because we were sober), we are aiming for February to be pretty juicy. This month, we have four AMAZING guests dropping by for some fun, quirky, funky, and kinky conversation. Tune into this quick update to hear the topics we'll be covering this month as well as talk of our upcoming Patreon. Go ahead and listen in — you know you want to. You don't want to miss it! Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://facebook.com/adultishp0dcastAre you ready for the Black Girl Magic coming for Black History Month? Tell us all about it at afiya@digidisnet.com.

As the country has officially sworn in a new president, we can only hope now that this will be a time our nation will attempt to make peace with itself. Several of the rioters and domestic terrorists who have stormed The Capitol are facing the consequences of their actions. No one should ever feel like they are so entitled — whether it's the law or your life. In this uncovered Fifi After Dark, host Afiya A. chats about the insurrectionists that attacked our nation's capital and how this could very well be a life lesson on we allow others to take our voice, and our agency all due to the entitlement the feel as a person in your life.It's amazing how we can allow others to dictate what's right or wrong to suit their needs and in this episode, she really lets Vanilla Isis — and the insurrectionists in your squad — have it!You don't want to miss it! Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @Aljaugustwww.aljathewriter.comAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dca

The first week of 2021 has already taken the nation by storm — literally — as rioters and domestic terrorist waving their Trump flags stormed the nation's Capitol building to overturn the results of the election. It's an embarrassing display that has the whole world looking at the USA sideways and the hosts of "Adult-ish" get into this failed coup. Listen on as they talk about the grand level of entitlement this insurrections speaks to, how the Trump supporters are making a complete mockery of the democracy America is a "symbol" of and how entitlement creeps into our everyday lives, causing the same kind of terrorism on a smaller scale. You don't want to miss it! Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @AljaugustCo-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://facebook.com/adulti

It's just a few minutes until the ball drops and we all ring in 2021... but 2020's path is still in plain sight. In this episode 'Fifi After Dark,' host Afiya A. laments on how time changed in 2020 and what the year gave to us, both good and bad. Dubbing it a forced "moment of stillness," the slightly inebriated host talks to the moments of opportunity and reflection 2020 gave us in the midst of all the sadness and sorrow of illness, death, and stupid politicians. Hear what our quirky host plans to take with her from 2020 into the next year and it's actually good stuff! Once again, thank you all for listening to us and be sure to come back in the new year!Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @AljaugustAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://instagram.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://facebook.com/adultishp0dcastAre you ready for 2020 to be over? Tell us all about it at afiya@digidisnet.com.

2020 is about to go to dust, but not before leaving its mark. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. and co-host Vincent Bernard take a quick look back at how 2020 has changed their lives — and the lives of everyone on planet earth. Between the circus we called politics, to the devastation of the COVID-19 virus, the duo talk about the losses and stresses 2020 brought with and how quickly it's all ending. But it's not all sad talk! The pair talk about the lessons they've learned about life (and maybe love) in 2020 and what they intend to take with them as 2021 approaches to tons of optimistic people around the globe. Before we go, we want to make sure we thank you all for listening to us and be sure to come back in the new year!Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214 Clubhouse @AljaugustCo-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adulti

Grammy nominations are out and per usual, many musical artists are in their feels about being "snubbed." One in particular, Teyana Taylor, took the snub pretty hard and went on to announce her potential retirement from music... but was it really warranted? In this episode of "Adult-ish," both host Afiya A and co-host Vincent Bernard examine the "WTP" singer's decision to leave the industry and poses the question: is she bowing out because of rejection OR because she feels it's time to step away from music? This ultimately leads to a larger discuss around the concept of stepping away from one's passion and how to do that like an adult, sans regret. Listen on to episode and then tell us your feelings on the situation!Links mentioned in this episode:Host: Afiya A.http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Co-Host: Vincent Bernardhttps://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernardAdult-ish Podcast http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcas