Solid Steps Radio

"Why is this happening to me? “ Every person has had that question run through their mind. Whether it's a car breaking down or a call from the doctor, we have never really been taught how to mourn or grieve. When the inevitable happens, how can we best handle it? On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad welcome corporate chaplain and grief counselor James Santos. James discusses how we can grieve before, during, and after traumatic events. He also talks about how we can lovingly help the ones we care for who are grieving.

On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad finish up a 5 week study on the book "Shepherding A Child's Heart" by Tedd Tripp. Kurt and Chad talk with Gabe Smith and Brad Ricca - two Dads who either have a teenager or soon will. 
Listen now to learn 1) Three goals to impart into the worldview of a teenager. 2) The importance of having a healthy perspective of the identity of God and self; 3) How to move from authority to influence with teenagers.

“Spare the rod, spoil the child." (Proverbs 13:24) That proverb was written by King Solomon centuries ago. Is the idea of spanking as old as the phrase? Is there a place for spanking in the families of today? On this week’s show, Chad and Kurt continue the study of the book Shepherding a Child's Heart (by Tedd Tripp). They talk with Family Pastor Bryan Elliott and Family Counselor Chad Stettler (Olive Branch Family Counseling https://m.facebook.com/Olivebranchfamilycounseling/ ) about what good discipline looks like, as well as what it shouldn't look like. The ultimate goal is getting to the heart of the child, not just managing their behavior. Kurt shares the story of how he explained gospel of Christ in a powerful way to one of his children during a spanking. It’s one of the most moving segments on the show (4th segment, it's worth checking out at least to hear the story.)

"Spare the rod, spoil the child.” That's a phrase many people heard growing up, but in today's culture and society, it may be frowned upon. Few people believe that discipline should not be part of child rearing. But what is a correct way to do it? Is spanking too harsh and outdated compared to more "enlightened" methods? On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad continue their walk through the book Shepherding a Child's Heart as we sit down with fathers Max Semenick and Rob Keto to discuss what is proper discipline in a child's life. And, how should we communicate with our children? According to the author Tedd Tripp, most people just use 3 ways to communicate to their children, but there are another 5 that we don't think utilize.

Things we think we want for our children - the skill of hitting a baseball, being well-adjusted psychologically, reading the Bible, behaving well in public, straight A's in school, and not going to hell. But what if they are the wrong goals in parenting? On this week’s show Kurt and Chad welcome fathers Rob Keto and Cameron Howell to discuss the book Shepherding a Child's Heart (by author Tedd Tripp). While all of those things listed above are what we would like for our children, they could be incredibly shortsighted in the big picture of life. The guys discuss how we Dads can rethink our goals as parents and even enjoy our children in the process.

Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart. It is the wellspring of life.” How do we parent our children so they will not only be driven by behaving well and will actually have insides that match the outside? On this week’s show, Kurt and Chad welcome Ken Idleman - former pastor, college president and current consultant for The Solomon Foundation. Ken talks about reaching a child's heart without losing the importance of teaching behavior.

The Kentucky Derby is known as “the greatest two minutes in sports.” The Derby is the oldest American sporting event. Every year the city of Louisville, Kentucky celebrates for two weeks in preparation for a two minute horse race. Is the build up worth it? If you've ever been to the Kentucky Derby, you’d have to say it is. And the majority of the time, the intrigue is not about horses, but about the people. On this week’s show, Kurt and Chad talk to racing Hall of Famer Pat Day about how he got into horse racing, and about his meteoric rise to fame and fortune. With 8,803 career wins on some of the greatest championship horses, his favorite win was the 1992 Kentucky Derby. But was that THE defining moment in his career, and life? At the top of the horse racing world, as Rider of the Year, God showed him that success, as measured by this world, can be a dead end.

In this week’s episode, U of L Professor Brad Shuck joins Kurt and Chad to share what he knows about compassionate leadership. Brad travels around the world meeting with corporate leaders who are looking for ways to energize their companies. Listen now and you will learn the six characteristics of a compassionate leader. And the same principles that can transform a giant corporation will also work in a church or at home! (This weekend's show is a repeat from 2016 - an interview with professor Brad Shuck about servant leadership. Enjoy!)

“High profile leaders are often set up to experience high-impact burnout or flatline in their growth, unwilling or unable to scale the wall ahead of them.” (From the website www.leadershipreality.org ) If that's true for high profile leaders, what about for those of us that aren't in the spotlight? On this week’s show, Chad and Kurt talk with Daniel Montgomery - CEO of Leadership Reality and author of the book Leadership Mosiac 
( www.leadershipmosaic.org). Daniel points out that one size does not fit all - there are 5 different leadership styles and a piece of each of them is more effective than just the one that comes naturally.

So how do you make a difference in the 10th most impoverished area in the United States? Pop tarts and hugs. On this weekend's show, Kurt and Chad talk with LoveCity's ( LoveCityInc.org ) co-founder Shawn Arvin and Portland resident Austin Lopesilvero about how the Portland area of Louisville is being transformed by the two greatest commandments from Jesus - love God and love others. From open gym basketball - to fish fry’s - to block parties, loving your neighbor can be as effective and simple as, well, pop tarts and hugs.

"There is a protagonist and an antagonist in our story.” When you hear the word "Satan", do you shudder or chuckle? Typically people have one or the other response, but are either one appropriate? On this week’s show, Kurt and Chad talk with one another about spiritual warfare and what it looks like in the life of a believer.

Pride. Greed. Lust. Envy. Gluttony. Wrath. Sloth. The seven deadly sins have been around over 1700 years - Evagrius Ponticus penned them in the 3rd century. What do they have to do with being a father? On this weeks show, Chad and Kurt talk with Kent Evans. Kent is an author and the founder of Manhood Journey. He and Ryan Sanders have written a book - 7 Deadly Sins of a Disengaged Dad - about how the seven deadly sins can creep their way into the father’s life if he’s not intentional. More importantly, what are the opposites of the seven deadly sins? Also, Kent talks about his upcoming father-son retreat on May 18.

Living a "Sunday morning" lifestyle seven days a week. On this week’s show Kurt and Chad talk with John Stewart, owner and President of Encompass Inc. John says, “At Encompass, we don’t just build structures from steel and stone. We build partnerships with heart and soul.” John encourages an atmosphere of generosity with his employees, customers, and more - from Indian tribes in Oklahoma to the homeless in Lagrange, KY.

On this weeks show, Chad and Kurt talk with Tom and Karen McKechnie about their ministry Teach to Transform (www.teachtotransform.org). Tom is an ER doctor and Karen is his wife and partner in ministry. They discuss the birth of their ministry - in the mission field they were surrounded by so much pain and hurt that transformation didn't seem to be an option. But when the power and focus of God is at the center, transformation becomes a reality.

Jesus commanded us to go and make disciples of all nations. Do you invest in other men relationally? On this weeks show, Professor/author Eric Schansberg and author/CEO Tom Harper talk about the blessing of leading other men - we can gain as much as we give. Men, we need to learn from each other in community. It requires discipline and focus.

"I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened." - Ephesians 1:18 Your life growing up, the events you've experienced, and the people you’ve known all influence the way you see the world around you On this week’s show author Tom Harper talks about leadership and the role that your worldview plays. Whether it's in a company or in your home, how you see people (and how they see you) matters - to those you care for, and to those you are leading. Tom’s latest book is Through Colored Glasses (available on Amazon) and he is the CEO of Networldmediagroup.com

Braveheart. Gladiator. Rocky - all of these films are "must see" movies for guys. If it's on, we have to watch it. On this weeks show, Chad and Kurt talk with Tim Byron about the movie business and media outreach. Tim is the VP and General Manager of City on a Hill (www.cityonahillstudio.com). A new film is coming out on March 16th (3:16) - I Can Only Imagine. I Can Only Imagine is a feature film and an example of quality filmmaking with a heart enriching message that can both entertain and inspire. Take your family and friends to see it on opening weekend (3:16). It’s a great movie and you will be supporting a positive and family friendly film.

“God is marshalling his people in the workplace as never before in history. God is up to something. The next spiritual awakening could take place in the marketplace.” -Henry Blackaby. Is there a divide between your work and your ministry? On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad talk to businessmen Bruce Zoeller and Larry Roach of The Christian Advantage (TCA) (www.thechristianadvantage.com). TCA focuses on bringing God into the workplace and more importantly bringing your workplace to God. Bruce and Larry talk about shrinking the divide between work and ministry. They also preview of the upcoming 3rd annual 2018 Business and Ministry Conference in Louisville, KY which will bring business and ministry together to sharpen one another for God's Kingdom.

“God is marshalling his people in the workplace as never before in history. God is up to something. The next spiritual awakening could take place in the marketplace.” -Henry Blackaby. Is there a divide between your work and your ministry? On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad talk to businessmen Bruce Zoeller and Larry Roach of The Christian Advantage (TCA) (www.thechristianadvantage.com). TCA focuses on bringing God into the workplace and more importantly bringing your workplace to God. Bruce and Larry talk about shrinking the divide between work and ministry. They also preview of the upcoming 3rd annual 2018 Business and Ministry Conference in Louisville, KY which will bring business and ministry together to sharpen one another for God's Kingdom.

On this weeks show Chad and Kurt talk with Counselor Tony Gore (of Freedom Counseling) about a topic we seldom think about - loving ourselves. Take this test - what would happen if you spoke to your best friend the way you speak to yourself. Does the Bible teach Love God, Love Others, Hate Self? No it does not. Listen now and learn how to balance confidence and humility, and how to love yourself so you can love others.