Sexy Marriage Radio

Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex. On the Xtended version ... Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more about where they come from and what to do with them. Sponsors .. SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smrnation.com/smracademy The post Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

On the Regular version of today's show ... An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband.  What's the difference between sexual thoughts and lust? A husband wanting to know what to do when he's tried to live in a way that ignites his wife's passion (according to an old post I wrote - https://smrnation.com/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair. On the Xtended version ... How do you confront gridlock in your marriage and what are the forced choice dilemmas that come along with them? Sponsored by SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smrnation.com/smracademy The post Mutual Masturbation #473 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a husband who loses his erection when the direct stimulation stops.  A wife wanting to know if there are dangers to porn use in their marriage.  On the Xtended version ... What's your marriage story? It's important to be living something larger than yourself and your marriage if you want to live fully alive.  Sponsors -SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smrnation.com/smracademy The post Your Marriage Story #472 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

On the regular version ... An email from a husband whose wife believes if they can't orgasm together at the same time then there must be something wrong. A husband seeks our thoughts on how he can reestablish connection with his wife sexually and emotionally when she doesn't really like him currently. On the Xtended version ... Pam and I talk through the concepts of desire and how it's part of our process of growth in life and marriage. Today's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300 different workouts to choose from, streamed right into your home on any device. Text SMR to 303030 to try it out for FREE. The post Simultaneous Orgasms #471 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A voicemail from a wife wanting to increase the erogenous zones on her body. An email from a wife whose husband only touches her when he wants sex, usually in the middle of the night, leaving her wide awake after. On the Xtended version ... A deeper conversation about how living more from your core and as designed increases passion, energy and eroticism. This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by the SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smrnation.com/smracademy The post Securely Attach Your Genitals #470 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Melanie Greenberg joins me to talk about her research surround the brain and stress. Read more from Melanie on her site - https://drmelaniegreenberg.com/ On the Xtended version ... Melanie and I continue the conversation about how stress impacts married life. This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by the SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smrnation.com/smracademy The post Stress Proof Your Brain #469 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a husband asking for ideas on how he show more appreciation to his wife for her supporting him in some stressful times.  A wife wants to know if there are different ways to change the way she tastes since her husband doesn't like the taste when he goes down on her.  A voicemail from a woman who has experienced vaginismus and wants to tell her story about her experiences. The resource we mention on the show is here - https://www.womentc.com/ On the Xtended version ... A husband in the Academy shared that his wife has come to the belief that she has not been sexually attracted to him and can't see that she will be in the future. We go deeper into what he can possibly do in this dilemma.  Enjoy the show! Today's episode is sponsored by Let's Get Checked: Convenient and confidential hormone testing from your own home. Get 20% off today -  https://trylgc.com/smr use code SMR20 The post Wife Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me #468 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Peggy Orenstein joins me to talk about her research surround the messages girls and boys are experiencing and have experienced with the subject of sex. Read more from Peggy on her site - https://www.peggyorenstein.com/ On the Xtended version ... Peggy and I continue the conversation about how the messages regarding sex and sexuality differ between parts of the world and the States. This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Beach Body: Try our Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300 different workouts to choose from, streamed right into your home on any device. Text SMR to 303030 to try it out for FREE. The post Girls and Boys and Sex #467 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Margaret Rutherford joins me to tackle perfectionism and how it can actually be something that is covering up depression.  Learn more from Dr Rutherford on her site - https://drmargaretrutherford.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Rutherford and I continue the conversation about how perfectionism impacts our sex life and marriage. This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Let's Get Checked: Convenient and confidential hormone testing from your own home. Get 20% off today -  https://trylgc.com/smr use code SMR20 The post Perfectionism #466 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a husband asking about sex during pregnancy and how they can stay connected and intimate. A husband is wondering how he can handle rejections so his wife doesn't feel guilty.  On the Xtended version ... Much of what we face in married life is quite simple, if we look at it correctly. But after our view is simplified, the difficult comes into play. This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Let's Get Checked: Convenient and confidential hormone testing from your own home. Get 20% off today -  https://trylgc.com/smr use code SMR20 The post Simple But Difficult #465 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Gary Thomas joins me again to discuss the idea of cherishing your spouse. Listen to hear how this idea transformed his marriage and sex life. You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/ On the Xtended version ... Gary and I have a conversation about the church's history handling the topics of marriage and sex. Enjoy the show! The post Cherish #464 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me to answer an email from a wife who thinks she may be using sex as a form of emotional attachment and it possibly isn't helpful for her, or her husband. You can find more about Dr. Jennifer on her site http://www.finlayson-fife.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Jennifer and I talk about the factors that can come up when the husband is the lower desire spouse. Enjoy the show! The post Sex For Emotional Attachment #463 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation with Dr Nan Wise about her work in the field of sex and sexuality - specifically about the importance of pleasure in life. You can find more about Dr. Nan on her site http://askdoctornan.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Nan and I talk about her research and the science of orgasms.  Enjoy the show! The post Healthy Hedonism #462 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the stress and issues couples will face in their sex lives during times of quarantine and uncertainty. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/ Pick up her checkin for free here https://vmtherapy.com/checkin Enjoy the show! The post Quarantine Sex #461 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

With almost a fifth of the world's population in quarantine or distancing for the next couple of weeks, how do you navigate married life better? On the Xtended version ... An email from a husband who's frustrated with our response to another husband about his sex life and desire for more novelty and eroticism. Enjoy the show! The post Marriage in the Time of Quarantine #460 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Lori Brotto joins me to discuss how stress impacts life and sex. Specifically sexual desire. Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website - www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social media using this #debunkingdesire On the Xtended version ... Dr Brotto and I talk more in depth about the myths surrounding sexual desire and her research on the subject. Enjoy the show! The post Stress and Sexual Desire #459 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Laura Dabney joins me to answer a couple of questions from the SMR Nation. A husband asks for help in getting his wife to be willing to try new things in sex. And a wife emails wanting to know how to get her husband to seek help with his ED issues. Learn more about Dr Dabney on her website - https://www.drldabney.com/ or call her at 757-695-3925 On the Xtended version ... Dr Dabney and I discuss the trend of our field and society seeking to medicate problems rather than address them head on. Enjoy the show! The post Spouse Won’t Try Anything New #458 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation about slowing down in life and marriage. A question from a husband asking for help with a position they both enjoy but want it to last longer for him/or quicker for her. A caller speaking up about pain in sex for women. On the Xtended version ... Is it possible that you can make things too easy for your spouse? Yes! Enjoy the show! The post Too Easy For Your Spouse? #457 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation with Dr Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, about all things sex. What's normal? What about responsive desire? Context is king? Check out Emily's work on her site http://www.emilynagoski.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Emily and I continue a conversation exploring the world of sexual non-concordance. Enjoy the show! The post Responsive Desire #456 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A question from a wife about a condition her husband has called phimosis and how this impacts their sex life.  Another wife wants to know how to get her husband to be more romantic. A wife calls wanting to know how to be more free and let go in her sex life. On the Xtended version ... A caller asks us three questions - female-led relationships - pleasure derived from pain during sex - and vibrators.  Enjoy the show! The post Question Potpourri #455 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.