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Today we hear the story of Clinton and Charity Munoz (of Restored 2 More) and how pornography almost destoryed their marriage, and Clinton's life. Along the way, they also were given the most destructive advice about how to address this issue as a couple. Luckily, they overcame that advice and have gone on to create a ministry that helps other couples dealing with struggle and crisis from pornography or other issues in marriage. Check them out here - https://restored2more.com/ On the Xtended version … We go deeper into their story, but this time we explore how their journey impacted Charity and what they've learned along the way together. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com The post The Worst Advice About Porn Ever Given #554 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

On the Regular version of today’s show … A voicemail from a listener pushing back on how we answered a wife in a prior episode. He believes she should have been told to put on her "big girl panties" - and he's right.  A husband has asked for some specific sexual favors for his birthday. His wife isn't usually on board with what he's asked for, yet she's done most of them. Should he speak up about the remaining one yet to be done?  On the Xtended version … We believe in setting a course for the new year, but not with new year's resolutions. We love the idea of using Three Words to act as a compass for your life and relationships.  We unpack the idea behind the three words, share our words, and ask you to join us with your words.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Birthday Favors #553 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife. A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin. On the Xtended version … Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do with them? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Best Of SMR: Masturbation and Expectations #552 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Pam goes through a Sex Ed Quiz again. Follow along to see how you do. A wife wants to know how to best co-parent with her step-kids mom, who is now in a same-sex relationship. A husband wants to know how to break out of the sexual rut he and his wife are in currently. How do you address times when there's an agreement for a sexual encounter yet it doesn't happen? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Break Out Of A Sexual Rut #551 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation with Gary Thomas about his newest book, Married Sex. You can learn about Gary and his work here - https://garythomas.com On the Xtended version … Gary and I have a conversation about the pushback and reaction to his book thus far. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Married Sex #550 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we talk about her newest book, The Great Sex Rescue. Learn more about Sheila on her site https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/ On the Xtended version ... A conversation I had with Sheila about the concerns I had regarding her book and the tone of her writing and responses since publication. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com The post Great Sex Rescue #549 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a wife who wants to know if asking questions to her husband about his past struggle with porn will increase the temptation. A voicemail from a wife wanting help understanding arousal and attraction. On the Xtended version … Pam and I work through a gridlock script from a member of the SMR Nation. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Arousal vs Attraction #548 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you want in sex. How do you spice up sex when trying to conceive? Dr. Laurie Mintz joins me to cover this email. On the Xtended version … A deeper conversation with Dr Mintz about her work helping women who are too tired for sex. Find more of her work here – http://drlauriemintz.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Best Of SMR: Too Tired For Sex #547 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

After our segment on BDSM in Episode #541 we received a couple of emails about how we totally missed the mark are came across as judgmental. Today we address this more. A husband wants to rim his wife yet she's not comfortable with the act. She wants to go skydiving which he's not comfortable with. What about an exchange? On the Xtended version ... A role play of how to address gridlock issues, based from a segment in last week's Xtended content. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com The post If I Do This Will You Do That #546 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

I'm joined by Dr Laurie Watson and we talk about how breast cancer impacts a couple's  married life, sex life and desire - plus the journey for both spouses facing this battle. Learn more about Dr Laurie here - https://www.foreplayrst.com/ On the Xtended version of today's show ... Laurie and I talk about the yin and the yang of the energy in a couples sex life. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Rekindle and Connect Online Course: Get in-depth help for your marriage via 7 video sessions to work through at your own pace.  https://smrnation.com/rekindle The post Dealing With Breast Cancer #545 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Today I'm joined by a colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great - except in one area. What's happening here? Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life? Learn more about Dr Jennifer here - https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Resentment #544 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Two emails from wives who do not feel chosen in their marriages. One wife has trouble trusting because of this and past betrayals from her husband. The other wife is married to a man who says he wouldn't get married if he were to do it all over again. On the Xtended version ... With the huge volume of information and noise in our world, we talk about the benefits of an attention diet. And how to go on one. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Not Feeling Chosen #543 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

I'm joined by Kelly Casperson, MD as we discuss the limiting beliefs many people have when it comes to their bodies and their abilities in sex and life. To learn more about Dr Kelly visit her site - https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/ On the Extended Version ... Dr Kelly and I discuss where orgasms reside in the brain! Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The SMR Academy: Get XTD content and support from the experts and an engaged community. https://smrnation.com/smracademy The post You Are Not Broken #542 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

This week we are celebrating SMR's 10 year anniversary!!! On the Regular version of today's show ... Some thank you's are in order as we have been on the air for 10 years now. Thank you to the SMRNation for showing up each week and speaking up about the topics and issues you want to learn more about. An email from a listener curious about BDSM as a Christian couple. On the Xtended version ... What are the secrets of couples that have great sex? We will share 8. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Secrets Of Great Sex #541 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Can sex be an idol. How would you know? A dating couple want to know more about what options are there for birth control as they prepare for the marriage. The pill had too many side effects for the wife and she's concerned about condoms, even though her soon to be husband says he's fine with them. A newlywed couple is averaging sex 2 times a month, not at all what she thought would be the case. Is there something wrong? On the Xtended version ... Could the higher desire/lower desire labels also be limiting to the people who find comfort in knowing they are one or the other in their marriage? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr14 use code smr14 for 14 free meals, including free shipping! The post Sex As An Idol #540 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea as we discuss the distracted mind, or put another way - how to address the times when you can't turn off you mind. Learn more about Dr Jamea on her site - https://emilyjamea.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Emily and I discuss the dynamic in marriage where the wife is the higher desire spouse. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Can’t Turn My Mind Off #539 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A wife gets turned off when her husband wants to do some novel things in their sex life. How can she address him and the situations better? A husband emails about a wife who has lost all desire and libido due to a medication she is on. How can her get her more engaged in their sex life so it doesn't feel one-sided? On the Xtended version ... There is a Scripture that says, All things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. How does this apply to our marriage and sex life? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com The post All Things Are Permissible #538 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Adding music to your sex life in marriage. Join the conversation at my.smrnation.com. A husband is in a 2 year stretch of sexlessness. How can he get his wife, who is also miserable, on board with wanting to improve things? On the Xtended version ... What happens when the low desire spouse initiates sex, yet is shut down by their high desire spouse? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post When The Low Desire Initiates #537 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

There is a cure for ticklishness. Plus this same cure works to create deeper erotic connections! Two newlywed couples email us about issues they are having with sex - within the first year of their marriages. On the Xtended version ... A husband has no attraction towards his wife, and while he kinda thought this may be an issue while they were dating, their honeymoon confirmed it. What should he do now? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Not Attracted To My Spouse #536 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A military wife wants to know how to encourage her husband to be interested in more romantic sex, oh, and she's the higher desire for all the other kinds of sex as well. A wife parents different than her husband, and his manner of parenting is a real turn off sexually. On the Xtended version ... Our Instagram account got quite a bit of pushback over a post we ran about adding a third person to the bedroom. This is my response to the reactions. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Fantasies of a Third #535 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.