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Sinopse
A series of inspirational seed thoughts to brighten your day.
Episódios
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People Pleasing
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever found yourself doing things you didn't want to do, just so others would like you? That was something I learned when I was young.
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Courage
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minWhen I started dealing with the effects of growing up in an alcoholic family, I was so bound up in the fear and terror of what I had lived through as a child, that those emotions were all I could see for a long time. Yet later I started seeing how much courage it took for me to confront those issues!
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Parents and Paradox
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you had a love/hate relationship with a parent? When I was in my '30s, the thing I wanted most was not to end up being like my Dad. Then I realized with a shock that I had become just like my Dad.
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Seeking Outside Help
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHas it ever seemed like your problems are bigger than you can deal with on your own? When I sought the help of professionals, it gave me invaluable insight and assistance in dealing with my carryover issues from childhood.
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Progress
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever taken a step forward and not long after found yourself two steps behind where you started? At times I was growing faster than my mind could accept - I was trying for revolutionary progress. These days, I am better off trying for evolutionary progress.
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Low Self Esteem
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave friends ever told you to give yourself a break? Did it ever seem like you didn't think much of yourself? I had that experience a lot, where someone would try to compliment me or say something nice to me, and I would find a reason not to believe them.
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Being Gentle With Myself
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you're being too tough on yourself? It often seemed like I was doing that - nothing I ever did measured up, and I would focus on the strikeout I had in the softball game, rather than the 3 hits and the great catch I made in the outfield.
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Learning to Feel Joy
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHas it ever seemed like it's hard to feel happiness or joy? Easy to feel pain, but tough to feel excitement? I discovered that when I was growing up in an alcoholic family, every time I felt excited and joyful about something I did, I got put down or hurt.
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Owning My Talents
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you can't appreciate your talents the way you could for someone else? I could tell you that David was a gifted speaker, or a talented athlete, but I couldn't see the same thing about myself.
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Fear of Success
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever found yourself more comfortable if things didn't work out, than if you succeeded? I was once told it looked like I was not afraid of failure, but afraid of success. The statement rang true.
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Release Anger But Don't Hurt
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you had to hold on tightly because if you let your anger surface, it would just explode? I was like that in my mid '30. It was affecting my health, and I finally had to face how angry I was.
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Spacing Out
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever had something traumatic happen, like a family crisis, and you found yourself just spacing out? I would do that - be frozen to the spot and not able to take action.
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Dependent Personality
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like your world rotated around someone else, and that person had the ability to determine your happiness? For me it almost felt like a physical craving that I had to be around the woman I was involved with, and sometimes I would do crazy things.
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Not Being A Victim
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like a victim? Like everyone was out to get you? I was hurt as a child, I was victimized. No doubt about it. But if I carry that mentality into adulthood, it's now a problem that I'm carrying.
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What Am I Doing For Fun?
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you were too serious? That it was tough to let go and just have fun? When a friend asked "What are you doing for fun?" it used to bug me, because I couldn't come up with many examples of fun in my life.
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Frightened by Angry People
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever been frightened by an angry person? I'm sure most of us have at some point. But for me being around anger brought up a deep terror. Because I knew from growing up in an alcoholic household how anger could explode, and how dangerous that could be.
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Helping Others
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you just weren't being useful? That your problems were so overwhelming that they became your whole world? Yet there's a great deal of truth in that old saying, "you don't get it until you give it away."
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Willingness
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHave you ever felt like you just didn't want to look at the problems that were plaguing your life? I was like that for many years, and yet - it didn't make those problems go away.
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Being Self Critical
25/01/2011 Duração: 01minHas it ever felt like you were being too critical of yourself? That whatever you did, it wasn't good enough? If I got a 98 on a test, I beat myself up over the 2 I missed rather than feeling good about the high score.