Sex Gets Real: Talking Sex, Relationships, And Kink With Dawn Serra

Sarah and Brian from YaySex.ca join in the fun this week. Since they recently started teaching an anal sex class, we start off with a question about anal sex myths. A listener who wants to study sexuality asks for book recommendations and we have quite the list (see below). Plus, a heartbroken listener is tired of his wife's interest in fast fucks and quickies. He wants lovemaking and slow sex. What can he do? In this episode, we mentioned a ton of resources. Here are the books we discussed with links! Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity" Mark Thompson's "Leatherfolk" Allison Moon's "Girl Sex 101" Christopher Ryan's "Sex at Dawn" Emily Nagoski's "Come As You Are" (TOP PICK) Barbara Carrellas' "Urban Tantra" Tristan Taormino's "The Ultimate Guide to Kink" Amy Jo Goddard's "Woman on Fire" Franklin Veaux's "More Than Two" Meg-John Barker's "Rewriting the Rules" You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Contact form: Click here

What if you're already in love before the sex happens? Comedian and 4-Play Baltimore host, Prescott Gaylord, joins us for the first of two HIQIs. First, we hear from Sophie about college hook-ups and how she worked all her FWBs on campus. Then, Katie writes in because she is about to have sex with her girlfriend of one year for the first time. But she's never been in love before having sex and needs advice. We weigh in. Also, Prescott makes lots of t-shirts. Want to check out Dawn's Facebook community? Pop over here. You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Contact form: Click here

Dirty Lola joins us this week! First up, there is a free webinar on March 28th all about intimacy in relationships as you explore non-monogamy and opening an existing relationship up. Register here! Second, Dawn is an expert speaking at the Love Detox online event that starts April 4th. Learn more here: http://www.thelovedetoxseries.com/dawn This week's co-host is Dirty Lola, a sex toy extraordinaire at Shag in Brooklyn, and also the creator and host of Sex Ed a Go-Go. After hearing all about Lola's new Daddy Dom, we jump into two listener questions. One listener wants to know how to prepare for experimenting with their girlfriend's vibrator. We have lots of thoughts. Another listener is sexually inexperienced and wants to know - how do you even get started with sex and how do you find people to experiment with? Prepare for LOTS of ideas. Find Lola on Twitter and check out Sex Ed A Go-Go online or over at swingset.fm. You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Contact form: Click here

Dylan's official last episode and we talk blowjobs. If you have any parting messages for Dylan, just use the email down below to send them to Dawn and she'll pass them along. On this Hit It and Quit It, we heard from a listener about some horrible advice that Anna Faris and Adam Corolla recently gave on Anna's podcast, Unqualified. Just because your partner wants to watch you have sex with someone else does NOT mean they want a divorce. Ugh. Also, a listener wrote in feeling horrible about how grossed out she gets with blowjobs. Do we have any thoughts? But (butt?) of course we do. Also, we have an ask! Can you review us in iTunes? We are trying to move up in the ratings charts. Just search for us in iTunes and leave a review. You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Contact form: Click here

100 episodes of Sex Gets Real!!! Wow. 100 episodes. What an amazing 2+ years it's been. And it also seems appropriate that today is the day Dylan is announcing she's leaving the show. As sad as Dawn is about the news, Dylan has an opportunity that is amazing and something she's been wanting for a long time. The show isn't going anywhere though, so don't worry. We'll be having loads of amazing guest co-hosts and contests, so episode 100 is simply a chance for us to try something new with our next 100 episodes. And this episode doesn't disappoint - questions about threesomes and unicorns and ass sex and precum and much much more. Also, we have an ask! Can you go review us in iTunes? We are trying to move up in the ratings charts. Just click the iTunes link below. You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Contact form: Click here