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HEAR ME OUT. I honestly feel like I've gotten to the point that none of the signs give me a total and complete ick like I'm to a point that I see and acknowledge the duality not only of each zodiac sign but also understanding how to process whatever certain signs do to trigger or ignite inside of me. It's giving next level adulting because this is me being mad accountable lol but also truly understanding that everything outside of us is just a reflection of ourselves. Sidenote: this doesn't mean some of the zodiacs aint bat shit crazy lmaoooo all of us have the potential to be Let's be clear I still very much have my preferences but listen and let me know what you think !! Click here for all of my links and I hope that you'll join us on the community call that I have at 9pm est every Sunday! 

If you're reading this then you have survived 100% of every obstacle that has come your way. IT may not be easy but somehow it works out even the difficulty is apart of the plan. Recently I had a revelation regarding the timing of this past year and how even though I was dedicated to remaining calm through the chaos and not overthinking I STILL could have stressed less. It worked out, it is working out and I needed the reminder that the only time that matters is NOW. Trying to solve problems a year from now on today is only adding more stress to your life especially when divine timing is always at play. Sometimes we are interfering when a plan is already in motion... You can find all of my links HERE and consider this your invite to our weekly community call that is every Sunday at 9pm est. New Vlogs are up on youtube xoxo love yall 

It's that time of the year again when fall is fresh & you get one good chance to see all your college friends in the same place that you met them. A time to celebrate how far you all have come and forget about all adulting responsibilities. Well last years homecoming was difficult for obvious reasons but this year was during my integration phase of trying merge back into some sort of social life...and I had to be honest with myself All my links can be found HERE  and please consider this your invite to join our weekly community call at 9pm est every Sunday! See you soon xoxo

Say it with me "Integration Phase"!!! How can you know how much you've truly changed if you're afraid to actually interact with anyone? You're delusional if you think you're as healed as you seem to be alone without actual proof in the form of relationships with others. I know that the past was hard & you learned some hard lessons but it wasn't for nothing, give yourself a chance. That's just me talking to me. All my links HERE, hope to see you on Sundays at 9pm est when our community meets weekly to catchup! You can also watch this series via my Youtube.

I'm definitely the person that thinks everything has a meaning & though it can be mentally exhausting I've learned to embrace it so when I watch corny movies or the same movies over and over its usually because I'm seeing a lesson that I truly need to learn in the metaphor of the movie. With that being said ...when's the last time you watched Last Holiday yes the one with Queen Latifah lmaoooo Y'all don't block me I think this episode was great and to be honest this is how I process behind closed doors I can't help it but I think a lot i find it best to just let my mind do its thing. I'm always learning. Love y'all xoxo All my Links can be found HERE, hope you'll join us on Sundays at 9pm est for our weekly Community Catchup

This one was so honest, compared to the fearful girl that I was a few years ago sometimes I'm just unrecognizable to myself everything about me has changed, what I believe, what motivates me what I'm afraid of what I take accountability for. For the better, is that the miracle I've been praying for all this time? All of my links can be found HERE

Y'all all this feels so familiar! In this sit down I share about how I realize I go through similar processes when it comes to moving past internal limitations. Ass and abs is not built in a day and neither is your evolution and we talk about it! Last year at this time I was refining my schedule and I held onto that schedule for over 6 months and now I need something more, after I got my mind straight consistently then it was time to say ok how can I turn things up a notch. This is the beauty of letting atomic habits and learning when to pivot work for you.  My community meets every week on Sundays 9pm est! All my socials, links and offerings can be found HERE! 

It's been a while so I wanted to update the trailer for you all aso you can stay connected with my projects! You can watch,listen or read my work and currently you're on my audio stream to listen!  Here you can find all of my projects that have an audio option if this is your preferred way to tap in. Here you'll find: 75 episodes of Not Just another Sex Podcast  Season 1 of The Bankrupt Millionaire (working on season 2 as we speak) Dear Diary Series (visual version on youtube) Audio from my Substack Randoms, things i've recorded that don't belong to a specific project All of the audio for my projects will live here. Stay connected with all that I have to offer or find my other platforms HERE

Before we get back into the Bankrupt Millionaire story I wanted to leave one more Dear Diary for you all, more can be found on my youtube and Patreon. Here I discuss how despite my physical life looking like much hasn't changed a recent chain of events has shown me that the founddation that I operate by HAS! I'm reminded that even if kindness is all I have to offer that is still a gift.  Checkout my youtube HERE all of my Links can be found HERE

Recently I've been asked to church by a couple of people that I did not know & so I thought it was time for me to discuss why religion or belief of God is NOT an automatic green flag qualifier for me. I understand who people say they are but I've just learned despite the words people use doesn't mean that their life & actions are actually a reflection of that and with something as sacred as my spirtual practices and routines I prefer to get to know someone before joining alongside them in the ways that they explore their religion and beliefs.  This is aduio channel holds 3 unique series currently  bankrupt millionaire randoms dear diary series  The dear diary series is actually a patreon series so if you'd like to catchup or receive them 1-2 times per week you can grab them there! By simply letting the ads play you are supporting my channel if you are looking for support I recommend joing my patreon community where we meet weekly as wella s you receive access to all 300+ unique pieces of content and

Don't worry The Bankrupt Millionaire is still here just wanted to share my latest series from my Patreon, it's been out for a few weeks & the feedback has been great so wanted to share with you all.  You can also WATCH this episode here. Having a clear distinction between TBM (the bankrupt millionaire) & my personal reflections and day to day voice is important to me. I've been building this audio feed for almost 3 years & I like sharing everything audio wise in one spot so lets catchup on what you can find here: Ep. 1-75 is Not Just Another S*x Podcast or NJASP (Bonus episodes are now being released over on Patreon btw) Ep. 76+ are The Bankrupt Millionaire  Randoms: these are talks that I've shared on other platforms that I thought you all may appreciate they are numbered seperately  Dear Diary: these will be numbered seperately as well this is a patreon series that comes out 1-2 times a week and I will share them here from time to time  You all are welcome & encouraged to join my community

In this episode we discuss the pressing matter of integrating the things you've learned from going 'bankrupt' into your actual world & reality. You thought the hard part was being accountable & starting over? IDK I think the integration phase of who you discovered yourself to be or have become in solitude & healing meets your reality is definitely a process as well. Going through the pain of self discovery is one thing but standing firm on that when you have to reemerge to the world is where we realize OLD HABITS don't go quietly & standig up for yourself doesn't mean you won't mess up.  Don't worry in this episode I discuss 5 ways that I've been coming to terms with old habits dying the hard way & how I've been supporting myself & how you can too as you try and do better moving forward.  PS come camping with us in Charlie the Van Ways that YOU can support me for FREE: Watching the episode on YOUTUBE (uploaded within 24 hours of audio) Let the Ads play (I know it sucks) Engage on soci

This week I get into the last of the 4 agreements. When reflecting I realized that I was only focused on half of what the word assumption really means. Here I discuss forgetting that assumptions can be overly negative OR positive as well as you could have a habit of assuming risks or responsibilities that aren't yours as well. We shouldn't be assuming ANYTHING. I referenced "clarity isn't crystal clear, it's the lack of confusion" in this episode as well.  Support me for FREE: Watch on Youtube Let the ads play (I know it sucks) Engage on Socials with a repost, share, like or comment Leave a Review below please, I read them all and would love to hear what you all think You can join my community where we do weekly calls and have access to my 300+ video catalog from all my previous projects All My Links Here

This week I dive into the 3rd agreement & how we get distracted and out of alignment and into confusion by being focused on doing THE best versus being and doing OUR best. I discuss why we struggle with doing our best as well as why we have difficulty expressing and cutting off things that aren't the best for us. If you'd like to skip past the intro story that may be triggering you can jump ahead to time stamp 17:11 I'm doing a series on the only expectations that I'm agreeing to going forward, you can start the series HERE with "don't take anything personally" Ways to Support me for FREE: Let the Ads play (I know it sucks) Leave a review below, I'm vulnerable & when you give that back it affirms me more than you know OR send me a DM. If you fancy you can do both xoxo Watch the visuals on Youtube & Subscribe Follow @_thebankruptmillionaire on IG & repost something or leave a comment i read ALLLLL of them You can join my community that meets weekly, get access to my 300+ video catalog or acc

Moving on to the next of the four agreements. In this episode we go into ways that I meausure what impeccable means to me. Is it honest, respectful & consistent and not just with me but do you uphold that standard in your own life and do you require that of those who are around you?  Did you hear the agreement before this one? dont take it personal? Here it is Ways to support me for FREE: let the Ads play (i know it sucks) Watch the visuals on Youtube & Subscribe (currently uploading give it a sec lol) Repost a reel from social media Leave a comment under a video or leave me a review for the podcast I read allll of my dm's but if you all could publicly share how I have helped that means so much as well You can join my community that meets weekly, get access to my 300+ video catalog or access my previous projects and podcasts with all my Links here. 

This is a convo that I revisit often. Often times we follow the path that seems crystal clear that shows the next 10 steps but it may not be the path with the most clarity or lack of confusion. I went bankrupt following a plan that was crystal clear. But there was rarely any clarity, I was constantly confused.  Support me for FREE: Watch on Youtube Let the Ads play during the episode (I know it sucks) Repost on socials Leave a comment under a video or leave a review I love reading them and read them all  You can join my community where we do weekly calls and have access to my 300+ video catalog from all my previous projects by seeing all my links here.

Here's another convo I shared on Youtube going forward I'll share them here as well.  If it resonates or you'd like to support me for FREE: Watch on youtube Repost on socials  leave a review or comment under the video I read them!!! Let the Ads play on the episode xoxo If you'd like to join my community for our weekly calls and get access to my entire catalog of over 300 videos of content you can checkout all my links here.

I started posting some random downloads and discussions that I've had with myself & thought it would be selfish not to share.  These came out on my socials already but adding them here and going forward I will add them here as well. Don't worry a new episode drops tonight its exporting as we speak!  Here are ways to support me for FREE: pressing play on youtube or reposting the video to you stories or leaving a comment! Don't forget to leave a review below xoxo.  All my Links are here if youd like to join my community where we meet weekly and access to my 300+ video catalog of my previous projects   

I've been a lover of the Four Agreements for a while but as I'm starting over and auditing my life figuring out where I went wrong and understanding how I overcommitted myself and was consistently creating a sturdy case for burnout ... I had to go back and ask myself what did i miss and did I really integrate the principles entirely? Yes we change often but we aren't just talking about a mistake we are talking bankruptcy. So far gone the only option is to burn it down and start over. So why was I so overcommited? Was I taking what other people had going on in their life more personal than I thought? And why was what I actually needed not personal enough? All My links here & Full Video on Youtube The Book Clarity isn't Crystal Clear

Co-creating with the universe means you'll never know. All you can do is what you believe is right and if nothing else ask does this align with my soul. Detach from the outcome & give yourself permission to go with the flow. It doesn't have to be perfect but you do have to start. Hey suga's we'll talk soon xoxo This week I answered the question: How Am I ok going from a millionaire to bankrupt  You can join my weekly community andd get access to all my previous creative works andd courses HERE See a tour of my Van HERE