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Christmas often brings tension alongside joy, mirroring the difficulties present in the original nativity story. Just as Mary and Joseph faced unexpected challenges, we too encounter wilderness seasons - times of spiritual dryness, relational strain, or emotional struggle. The prophet Elijah's experience teaches us that these difficult periods often follow spiritual highs and serve important purposes in our faith journey. Rather than seeking quick fixes or temporary relief, wilderness seasons invite us to trust God alone and listen for His voice. These challenging times ultimately reveal God's larger plan and develop our spiritual endurance, preparing us for the abundant life He promises.

Dealing with difficult people is a universal challenge that requires a biblical approach rather than worldly solutions. We must first distinguish between difficult people who make life hard and dangerous people who make life unsafe. Moses provides an example of leading complainers with patience and intercession. Paul's blueprint in Colossians 3 offers three key steps: pray for Holy Spirit power to develop compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience; learn to bear with one another by enduring and tolerating challenging relationships; and extend grace by remembering how much we have been forgiven. This approach transforms our perspective and enables us to respond with Christ-like love rather than self-protection.

Life can be difficult. What do we do when life seems like more than we can bear? Let's take a look at what the Bible has to say about times just like that.    watch the message

John's Gospel reveals Jesus as the eternal Word who became flesh to dwell among us, serving as the light of the world in our spiritual darkness. Many claim to follow Jesus while walking in darkness through subtle sins and false faith patterns. True believers receive Jesus as Lord and Savior, allowing His light to shine through transformed lives. God desires to dwell within us as His temple, making His presence central rather than peripheral. Walking in God's light produces visible fruit and distinguishes genuine faith from mere religious activity.

Modern society has embraced moral relativism, with most Americans rejecting absolute moral truth. Even within Christian churches, majorities doubt the existence of unchanging moral standards. However, Scripture teaches that moral absolutes exist and remain true regardless of personal opinions or cultural shifts. Like King Solomon, whose heart was turned from God through worldly influences, believers today face the danger of compromising biblical standards. God's moral requirements and His promises are inseparable - we cannot fully embrace one while ignoring the other. Guarding our hearts through Scripture and maintaining consistent moral standards is essential for spiritual strength and maturity.

Spiritual gifts are supernatural tools the Holy Spirit gives to every Christian believer for practical ministry purposes. Unlike the fruit of the Spirit which develops over time, these gifts are given by God to spread the Gospel, lead the church, and serve communities. Every believer has spiritual gifts, ranging from wisdom and healing to prophecy and tongues. Paul instructs Christians to actively pursue love and desire spiritual gifts, not wait passively for them. The key is approaching these gifts with humility and love, using them to serve others and advance God's kingdom rather than for personal recognition.

Salvation is God's supernatural rescue from three enemies: the world's corrupt systems, Satan's deception, and our own sinful desires. It involves spiritual resuscitation from death to life, divine intervention that changes our story, and rescue that transforms us into God's instruments. This salvation comes by grace through faith, not through works or religious efforts. While we cannot earn salvation, those who are truly saved will naturally desire to serve God, read Scripture, pray, and share their faith. Every believer should have a 'But God' testimony of how Jesus supernaturally intervened in their life.

Modern culture swings between two extremes: materialists who deny anything beyond the physical world, and those unhealthily obsessed with spiritual forces. As Christians, we must find biblical balance, recognizing that we are both physical and spiritual beings living in a world where supernatural reality exists. Scripture teaches that we are engaged in real spiritual warfare, not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil. While Christians cannot be possessed, we can experience spiritual oppression through persistent negative thoughts, compulsive sin patterns, and various forms of spiritual attack. The good news is that victory belongs to Christ, who has already defeated our enemy. We fight spiritual battles through ordinary Christian practices like prayer, Scripture memorization, worship, generous giving, forgiveness, and faithful church attendance.

Raising children of honor requires teaching them to value God, themselves, and others appropriately. Parents must establish clear rules with consistent consequences while understanding their evolving role from caretaker (ages 0-8) to coach (ages 9-15) to consultant (ages 16+). Children who honor God bring their best, not leftovers, recognizing everything as His gift. Balanced self-honor means avoiding both selfishness and self-hate, while honoring others involves teaching forgiveness and sibling protection. Most importantly, children learn by example—what they catch from parents matters more than what they're explicitly taught.

Life rarely follows our plans, especially regarding family. When facing unexpected family situations, we must guard against resentment, which can poison future blessings and become generational. Jacob's family illustrates how favoritism and jealousy create destructive cycles, while Ruth and Naomi's story demonstrates how God can redeem broken situations. The key is trusting God for future restoration, remembering that He can build beautiful things from broken pieces. With Christ as our ultimate redeemer, even our most painful circumstances can become part of God's redemptive plan, working together for good for those who love Him.

Fighting for your marriage requires recognizing the real enemy isn't your spouse but the temptations that threaten your relationship. These temptations mirror what 1 John 2 describes as the lust of the flesh (seeking fulfillment outside your marriage), the lust of the eyes (materialism and discontentment), and the pride of life (self-sufficiency). When we give in to these temptations, we experience separation, shame, fear, and blame-shifting in our relationships. To build a healthier marriage, be careful about where you get advice, avoid entertaining tempting thoughts, take responsibility for your actions, communicate expectations clearly, apologize sincerely, and practice forgiveness.

Family relationships bring both our greatest blessings and our toughest battles. Generational strongholds—patterns of sin or brokenness that pass through family lines—can trap us in destructive cycles. These strongholds manifest in various ways: emotional baggage, manipulation, destructive coping mechanisms, family dysfunction, and misplaced priorities. The good news is that these patterns can be broken through recognizing we're in a spiritual battle, using the weapons of truth and discernment, acknowledging our own role in the problem, and taking intentional steps to change. By identifying strongholds, confessing, repenting, and choosing what values to pass down, one generation can change a family's trajectory forever.

God's original design for family remains relevant despite cultural shifts that question its value. Research confirms that married people with children report higher happiness levels, validating the biblical teaching that humans thrive in family units. The family is central to God's plan, established in Genesis as His first creation after the world itself. God's blueprint includes being created in His image, distinct male and female identities, sex within marriage, meaningful work, spiritual leadership, partnership between spouses, and the formation of new family units. As both our greatest blessing and battleground, family relationships require intentional effort to align with God's design.

Jesus declared that His church would stand against the gates of hell, requiring courage, worship, and mission. Being on mission means recognizing that Jesus came not just for personal salvation but to establish God's kingdom on earth. The Great Commission calls us to go, make disciples, baptize, and teach as we extend this kingdom. This mission isn't optional—it's central to following Jesus. The church is God's plan for spreading His kingdom, and despite our failures, it will not fail. We must remember our calling through regular reminders and embrace courage, worship, and mission in our daily lives.

Worship is the fuel that sustains a courageous church, extending far beyond Sunday songs to encompass our entire lives. We were created with a space that only God can fill, and when we worship anything else, we diminish ourselves. True worship involves both mind and body, as Romans 12 teaches us to present our bodies as living sacrifices while being transformed by the renewing of our minds. Modern idols like money, body image, and entertainment compete for our devotion, but corporate worship recalibrates our hearts and anchors us to God's truth. By examining what we truly worship and realigning our lives accordingly, we become more fully who God created us to be.

God's plan for changing the world centers on the local church, which Jesus promised would prevail against the gates of hell. Christians are called to be salt and light, preserving culture and illuminating darkness through courageous action. Fear, however, often paralyzes the church as it did the Israelites at the edge of the Promised Land. A courageous church preaches the whole Bible, confronts spiritual darkness, challenges people to change, and speaks truth when culture demands silence. This courage manifests personally when we stay in difficult situations, speak truth at personal cost, live by God's wisdom, and help those who cannot reciprocate.

Building a legacy of faith requires intentional discipleship across generations. Drawing from Deuteronomy 6 and Joshua's example of creating stone memorials, we learn that our testimonies of God's faithfulness should be shared openly with future generations. Research shows that young people are more likely to maintain their faith when they have multiple adult mentors and participate in intergenerational worship. Rather than allowing social media to disciple our children, we must actively share both the gospel and our lives with them. Every believer, regardless of age, has a vital role in passing on faith through authentic relationships and shared experiences.

God's vision for the church includes three key characteristics: diversity that reflects heaven, intergenerational community, and functioning as a true Christian family. Churches fulfill their mission through the 'C3 wheel': connecting people to God, caring for one another, and cultivating powerful faith. When believers understand their 'why' - both personally and collectively - they gain clarity about their direction and can better fulfill God's calling. As churches navigate transitions, they must remember God goes before them, preparing the way for new seasons of ministry. Every believer has a responsibility to move beyond being a spectator to becoming an active participant in building God's kingdom.

The concept of giving to God begins in Genesis with Abel's first fruits offering, while tithing (giving a tenth) first appears with Abraham. While the Old Testament established specific tithing requirements, the New Testament emphasizes generous, cheerful giving that flows from a transformed heart. Early Christians actually shared everything they had, going beyond the 10% standard. We give because we believe God's promises, to support Kingdom work, and because generosity actually blesses us spiritually, emotionally, and even physically. Though some may abuse religious giving, true biblical generosity isn't about rules but relationship with a generous God.

In this sermon, the pastor addresses the question 'Why should I trust the Bible?' by examining both historical evidence and personal application. He explains that the Bible is a collection of 66 books written over 1500 years by approximately 40 authors, with the New Testament written within 15-60 years after Jesus' death by eyewitnesses. The pastor contrasts this with other historical figures whose biographies were written hundreds of years after their deaths. He discusses the remarkable preservation of biblical texts, including over 5,800 Greek manuscripts and the Dead Sea Scrolls which demonstrate textual consistency over thousands of years.