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When you find yourself living in a dream you once had, or you’ve accomplished a huge goal, it can be both beautiful & ugly sometimes. Everything in life has a price boo, and we’re not just talking about dollars and cents. The life you want to have, you will have to pay for it in some way. And sometimes that price can feel very expensive. But don’t get it twisted sis….just because it’s expensive doesn’t mean you can’t afford it. If something was placed on your heart to do, then it is there for a reason. You are equipped to handle whatever your dreams, goals and ambitions may cost you sis. Always have been, always will be. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Make money anywhere an

The words you speak to others and most importantly to yourself, have power sis. The things you say out loud have the power to make you or break you, and you have to be mindful about what you speak. The words that you speak become the house that you live in, and if you wake up speaking from an awful, negative, ugly place – then that is where your mind will stay. If you wake up, and speak of all the good, of the change you see coming, of the light you see in every dark place, the good you want to feel…then that is where your mind will stay. How do you speak about your situations sis? Which house, are you living in? It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Ship more and grow more with S

Hold on to that vision of yours sis, like your life depends on it. The vision you have for yourself, for your future, for your family – hold on to it, and do not ever let it go. Even if your vision seems impossible. The thing about impossible, is that it only seems impossible until it’s done. But if you put in the time, and put out the focus…anything is possible sis. Literally….anything. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! It can be hard to fit everything in – especially when it comes to luggage. Bring it all – with Beis and get 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/SLAY  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Fight For Your Focus appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adch

Never settle for anything, just because it’s available sis. If you settle for less than what you rightfully deserve, then you will get less than what you rightfully deserve. Whether you are choosing to be single, in a relationship, married or divorced – it is still a journey. And sometimes other people won’t understand that journey. But sis, hold on to your values. Hold on to your worth. Hold on to the vision that you see for yourself. And do not ever settle, for any person, place or thing…until you get exactly what you were looking for. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Slay Girl Slay listeners get 15% off your first order, when you visit thrivecausemetics.com/slay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post You Are More Than Your Relation

Contrary to popular belief, your confidence can not be purchased sis. You can not find your confidence in the makeup aisle at Sephora. It can not be found in your likes and views on your social media. Confidence isn’t in what other people think about you, but most importantly how you think about yourself. It’s about how beautiful YOU think you are. It’s about how smart YOU think you are, or capable, or good enough…we can keep going. Confidence is about how you see yourself sis. And the more you start to confirm and reaffirm who you are, the less you’ll need others to. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! It can be hard to fit everything in – especially when it comes to luggage. Bring it all – with Beis and get 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/SLAY  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on o

A blessing can change your life in the most beautiful way, but sometimes blessings…can be heavy sis. Often times the big opportunities, the moments that change our lives, the blessings that we work for – don’t look so good in the beginning. We think that these opportunities and moments will make our lives feel good immediately, and everything will make sense, and all will be aligned. But most times…it’s the opposite. Some blessings…come with a tremendous cost and a tremendous sacrifice. But it would not have been given to you, if it was not for you. You would not have reached this point in your life, this moment, and this season…if you were not mean to. We want to hear your story! If you’ve faced an extraordinary obstacle, and it changed your life…we want to hear about it! Visit slaygrlslay.com to share! Also, as mentioned in today’s episode, learn more about Samantha CurlHaus here!  It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshi

Worrying will get you nowhere boo. Worrying will have you spinning your wheels, trying to solve a problem that you may not even have to solve. Calm down boo….rest your mind. There’s a chance that what you’re worried about might happen. But there’s also an even greater chance that it wont. Intrusive thoughts have the power to ruin your day…and even your life if you let them. Don’t let your thoughts, or your mind…keep you in a place that does not serve you boo. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/slay Slay Girl Slay listeners get 15% off your first order, when you visit th

Sometimes it feels like we are going to break, right before a breakthrough. Often times right before everything starts to come together, it feels like your world is coming apart. Today, we just wanted to remind you that it’s okay. One day, you’ll look back and be glad that you didn’t stop. If you’ve been feeling down and out, ready to throw in the towel on what you’ve been working towards, and just ready to give up…this one is for you. So keep moving sis, keep going, and do not stop until you get there. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website

Some of you are still waiting to move forward with your ideas, out of fear that it won’t happen the way that you want it to. Some of you are holding back on your plans, because you want it to be perfect before you get started. We’re not the experts, but sis…you can’t be a NY Times Bestseller – without a first draft…you know? You can’t be an Oscar winning actress, without a first audition. Those are just examples, but the point is, the outcome isn’t what matters at first. It doesn’t matter who likes what you do, or how you do it. What matters…is that you sit yourself down…and just start it. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/slay Slay Girl Slay listeners get 15% off your first order, when you visit thrivecausemetics.com/slay.  Subs

You have to be super mindful about not just the things that make you happy, but even more mindful about the things that don’t. Protecting your peace, gives you a peace of mind sis. What good is achieving your goals and dreams if you don’t have the peace to enjoy them? What good is getting a bag, if you don’t have the peace to enjoy it? Some of us are working hard and finally starting to make moves in our lives – but constantly giving people, family, friends, coworkers the rights to take our peace away. But after today…we’re making some changes.  Mark your calendars, the Slay Girl Slay podcast has merch dropping on August 1st!!! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay It can be hard to fit everything in – especially when it comes to luggage. Bring it all – with Beis and get 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/SLAY  Subscribe To Our YouTube! W

You can’t control what happens next, but you can do your best to be prepared for it. Planning for your life, your business, and even your family is just preparation. Preparing for the things you want to happen, and sometimes preparing for the things that you don’t. Anything can happen, and there is always a chance that it will…but your plans, keep you prepared, in the event that they do. What plans are you making right now sis, and in the event that those plans fall through – what’s next? Because it’s better to have a plan and not need it, than to need it….and not have it.  Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/slay  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our me

It’s a lot going on in the world right now, or maybe it’s a lot going on in your life and it’s easy to feel hopeless. But no matter what’s happening to and around you, make a decision to get up, and get yours anyway sis. You make the decision for what comes next in your life. You make the decision for how you want to move forward. Do not let people, family, friends, society, or whoever dictate the very gift, and the very essence of who you are. You make the decision….not them. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Decision Is Yours appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The more you work, the more progress you make. But also, the closer you get to burning out. You can’t always be “on” sis. You are not a machine. Sometimes being unproductive is just as important as being productive, and this week we’re showing you how. No matter what’s on your plate, no matter how many responsibilities you have or the number of your to do lists – you deserve to rest. You can’t keep achieving more, without taking a step back, and doing less. If you needed a sign (or permission) to take a step back, and take a break – here it is. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Deserve To Rest Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Remember 12 year old you? What you looked like? What you struggled with? Before you start beating yourself up today about how you’re not getting anywhere in life, or mad at yourself because you don’t feel like you’re making progress and your life is going nowhere – remember your 12 year old self. Believe it or not, you’re doing much better than you think you are sis. If you take a minute and remind yourself of your past – you might end up making yourself proud of all that you’ve become today. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You’re Doing Better Than You Think You Are appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The reality is, bad things happen sis. Sometimes they happen to us, and sometimes they happen around us. But it’s our job to not let it get the best of us. Do not let bad situations, bad people, bad experiences, ruin the very good that is you. If you are still here, there is still time to love the people who love you, create the things you want to create, dream what you want to dream, and go to the places you want to go. That deserves the very best of you sis…and nothing else. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Don’t Let Bad Things Get The Best Of You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes the situations you find yourself in, and the outcomes you’re waiting for will happen the way that they are supposed to happen, and when they are supposed to happen. That means that there will be moments of your life where you can only do what you can do – and the rest is no longer up to you boo. A lot of us are trying to control things that we have no power in controlling. But instead of running yourself ragged, freaking out, and stressing – stop worrying about the “when” and shift your focus to the “how”…and then…just keep riding that wave until you get there. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Control What You Can Control appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The friends that you have today, may not be the friends that you have tomorrow. As you evolve and change, the people around you evolve and change too – and sometimes they don’t grow in the same directions that you’re growing. It can be tough making new friends as an adult, but you set the standards for your life…even within your friendships. We all have experienced jealousy, competition, and “weird energy” within our friend groups, that show us maybe the friends we have aren’t so great. But while you’re out looking for those great friends, that support you, add value to your life, and genuinely love you – remember great friendships…start with you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post What About Your Friends appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some of you are sitting on some really dope ideas. Some of you have been wanting to step it up, and take your business to the next level. Take your projects and creativity to the next level. Take your life, to the next level. But you have not moved, because you are concerned with whether or not the world, your peers, your family, or your audience….will be pleased with what you do. But the reality is, you can’t please everybody sis. If who you are, and what you do is your best? Then who you are, and what you do…is enough. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Best Is Enough appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A lot of us know, what will ultimately make us happy. We know the things that we need to do to bring us happiness…but because there’s so many steps, and so many changes that we have to make to get there…we put it off. Doing things that bring us joy can sometimes be an inconvenience. It takes time out of our day, and not a regular part of our schedules. But sis….happiness is a choice. Happiness is not found at the end of the journey that you are on. In most cases…happiness can be found right where you are. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stop Putting Off Your Happiness appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s okay to be disappointed that your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would by now. But never forget, we live life on our own terms sis. Not by the terms of your family. Not by the terms of your friends, and certainly not by the terms of society. Don’t feel bad because you haven’t checked all the “life boxes” that you thought you should have checked by now. No matter what age you are, no matter what season you’re in, if it didn’t happen before today, it wasn’t supposed to happen before today. But the good news is…you still have a lot of life…to live. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Destiny Isn’t Going Anywhere appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices