Adult-ish

On this new installment of 'Fifi After Dark' presented by "Adult-ish", host Afiya sips a bit of vodka while mulling over the weird thing about dating in your '30s (as a woman). Using Samantha Irby's "We Are Never Meeting In Real Life" yet again as inspiration for the conversation, our host lays down her thoughts on "dating with intention," the pressure of expectations, and her overall thoughts on the subject. Enjoy! *FAD Correction -- Host Afiya means to say the conversation is a continuation of FAD #6 NOT #7* Links mentioned in this episode: http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Read Samantha Irby's work here: http://www.bitchesgottaeat.com

In this episode of "Adult-ish", host Afiya and co-host Vincent are joined yet again by special guest host Tati Luv to chat about their wins & fails with using dating apps and finding love online. Laugh along as they talk about their trials with Tinder, experiences with Seeking Arrangements, and reminisce on Myspace & Yahoo Chat rooms. Want to join the chat? Email the crew at adultishpodcast2018@gmail.comLinks mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta (Afiya)http://instagram.com/alja0214 (Afiya)https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543 (Vincent Bernard)http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83 (Vincent Bernard)http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard (Vincent Bernard)http://facebook.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)http://twitter.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)http://instagram.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)

In this episode of "Adult-ish", host Afiya is joined by special guest host Tati Luv to air out one of their pet peeves: people who refuse schedule quality time. Listen as they relive frustrations and go on amazing tangents of lovable butts, soft beards, sweet-smelling men, and the weird thing that is Afiya's greatest attraction. Want to join the chat? Email the crew at adultishpodcast2018@gmail.com or chat with us on Twitter at http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcastLinks mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta (Afiya)http://instagram.com/alja0214 (Afiya)http://facebook.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)http://twitter.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)http://instagram.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)Stream Adult-ish Here: Itunes - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/adult-ish/id1331780240?mt=2Google Play - https://play.google.com/music/m/Ieb22jxpfj5qybe7i5j7lztj3by?t=Adult-IshSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0penqXqKfAKeQtE4aazd2YSpreaker - https://www.spreaker.com/show/adult-ishIheartradio - https://www

In this episode of "Adult-ish", host Afiya and co-host Vincent are joined by special guest host Tati Luv who gets in her feelings for a discussion and recollection of the "casual wave" AKA casually "being" with someone (in a non-committal relationship). Hear them as they recount the times they were surfing a wave, creating a wave, and ponder on when it's the best time to hop off a wave going nowhere. Want to join the chat? Email the crew at adultishpodcast2018@gmail.comLinks mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta (Afiya)http://instagram.com/alja0214 (Afiya)https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543 (Vincent Bernard)http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83 (Vincent Bernard)http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard (Vincent Bernard)http://facebook.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)http://twitter.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)http://instagram.com/tatianaluv (Tatiana Luv)

On this new installment of 'Fifi After Dark' presented by "Adult-ish", host Afiya has an alcohol-driven chat about the concepts of "real love." What is it — or better yet, how do we individually define it? Using Samantha Irby's "We Are Never Meeting In Real Life," as a jumping point for the conversation, our host lays down her definition of the elusive thing... while slurping back a cocktail. Enjoy! http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214Read Samantha Irby's work here: http://www.bitchesgottaeat.com

On this latest installment of 'Fifi After Dark,' presented by "Adult-ish", host Afiya has a solo, follow-up chat to S2, E8's "work politics" chat In this chat, she talks about the pains of having to find and secure new work, all the insecurities that follow, and the super hard work of landing the perfect job when you're on the hunt to better your livelihood — and better yourself in the process. Enjoy all the shenanigans! Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15912637http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214

In this episode of "Adult-ish", host Afiya and co-host Vincent discuss the games to be played in the world of office politics. While Afiya is not skilled on how to move the pawns in the game of office chess, Vincent gives his insight on how intrigue, relationships, and manipulating perceptions can get a person ahead in their career. Make sure to take notes as Vincent gives quite a few of the goods!Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard

In this episode of "Adult-ish", host Afiya and co-host Vincent recall their drunken (or near-drunken) moments and reflect on what it means to "drink responsibly" as their getting older and their bodies can't handle liquor like it used to (oh yes, it's about that time to start taking care of that liver). Take a sip and listen to this one! *Warning* some of the experiences shared in this episode get pretty gross. You've been warned.Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard

In this episode of "Adult-ish" host Afiya and co-host Vincent talk about embracing their inner child in the midst of all the adult-ish that weighs them down. Are you ever too old to enjoy the things you did when you were younger? Does it make you less of an adult when you do child-ish things? What was your favorite thing to do as a kid — and do you still do it now?Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard

Host Afiya is joined by special guest co-host (and former aviation 'expert') Tatiana Luv to talk about taking the big leap and traveling the world solo like an adult. What are the countries to try? What should you avoid? And what should be Afiya's first solo adult trip — and will she do it? Listen on to find out! Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214http://facebook.com/tatianaluvhttp://twitter.com/tatianaluvhttp://instagram.com/tatianaluv

Host Afiya is joined by re-curring co-host Vincent Bernard to chat about tackling mental health issues, the stigmas of mental health in the Black community, and how all the world's problems can't be solved by the man upstairs alone. *Please note — the conversation may be triggering.*Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard

'Adult-ish' presents the latest installment of 'Fifi After Dark,' where 'Adult-ish' host Afiya has a solo, follow-up chat to the Season 2 premiere on "fighting while adult." In this chat, she discusses just why her mom is the Queen of Petty, how she became the Princess of Sorrow and her final thoughts on duking it out as a grown-up. Enjoy all the shenanigans! Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15912637http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214

In this special episode of Adult-ish, host Afiya is joined by the hosts of Digital Discovery podcasts 'Young Black & Opinionated' (Miss Chris Dee) and 'The Young Adults' (Mark Lavar & Mavinga) for a rousing round of "Fish Bowl Convo" where we had to randomly chat about K-Pop, experiences of when we were just not that into him/her, and watching cartoons as adults. And as usual, the convo goes way off course — and lands in crazy territory. Be sure to take a listen! Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.instagram.com/MissChrisDee http://www.instagram.com/marklavarhttp://www.instagram.com/digidisnet http://www.twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://www.instagram.com/Alja0214

Coming back from an impromptu hiatus, the Premiere Pod of Adult-ish Season 2 finds host Afiya and new recurring co-host, Vincent Bernard, chatting about our respect of Cardi B., her gangsta with Nicki Minaj and the hottie bartenders, and how we "fight" like adults at home and in the workplace. Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214https://www.facebook.com/vincent.bernard.543http://instagram.com/vincentbernard_83http://www.twitter.com/vincebernard

On this installment of 'Fifi After Dark,' Adult-ish host Afiya celebrates the 25th Anniversary of the hit FOX show, 'Living Single' (#LivingSingle25) and takes a wine-induced deep dive on actually living single including the good, bad, terrible unattractive, and deeply confusing. Links mentioned: http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta

Adult-ish presents another BONUS episode of 'Fifi After Dark,' where host Afiya has a couple glasses of wine and spitballs whatever's on her mind. In FAD #2, Afiya ruminates the ramifications of how a loved one having a baby changes the ENTIRE nature of the relationship — especially when you're still single & childless. Yup, it changes EVERYTHING.Links mentioned in this episode:http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214

On this episode of 'Adult-ish', host Afiya and co-host Chels are joined by Chels' partner, Rob, and the pair discuss the growing pains of adulting with a baby. As if life couldn't be hard enough, now there's a smaller human to raise! Listen, like, and subscribe!Links mentioned in this episode: http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214http://www.instagram.com/chelz_222This podcast is powered by ZenCast.fm

Host Afiya and Co-host Chels chats about that good, bad, or simply awkward feeling of navigating an ex when they want you back. What do you do with you get that, "Hey Big Head!" text message? Listen on to hear their take on the topic.Links mentioned in this episode: http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214http://www.instagram.com/chelz_222This podcast is powered by ZenCast.fm

In this BONUS episode (a companion piece to Episode 18), hosts Afiya and Chelsea play FMK (f*ck, marry, kill) with the members of the Marvel & Harry Potter universe from their previous chat. Tune in and figure out who would you choose in these fun selections!Links mentioned in this episode: http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214http://www.instagram.com/chelz_222This podcast is powered by ZenCast.fm

Host Afiya and co-host Chelsea take a trip down pop culture lane and chat about Marvel movies and moms — super random, we know. Listen as we talk about adulting with a baby in movie theaters, movies we're interested in, and having to deal with moms while being an adult. Take a listen!Links mentioned in this episode: http://twitter.com/adultishp0dcasthttp://twitter.com/lajoliepoeta http://instagram.com/alja0214http://www.instagram.com/chelz_222This podcast is powered by ZenCast.fm