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What's Really Going on When Men Struggle in the Bedroom? Join us for a no-holds-barred conversation with renowned sex and relationship coach, Caitlin V, as we dive into the unspoken world of men's sexuality. From confidence and performance anxiety to the emotional side of masculinity, we're about to get real about what's really going on when men struggle in the bedroom. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The surprising reasons why many men struggle silently with confidence and performance issues • The most common insecurities men face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them) • Practical tools and tips to boost confidence both in and out of the bedroom • Expert advice on tackling performance issues like staying hard, lasting long enough, and being dominant • The importance of emotional intimacy for men and how to tap into it • How partners can support men in building confidence and improving their sex lives Caitlin V is a leading expert in men's sexuality, with a proven track record of hel

Are you ready to turn your passion for sexual health into a powerful, profitable brand? Join us for an exclusive workshop where you'll learn from DB herself—creator of the wildly successful Sex Ed with DB podcast with 375K+ downloads and 120K+ followers. This is your chance to get insider tips, real-world tools, and connections that can transform your career. Here’s what you’ll master: Building Your Brand: Create an authentic, standout identity in the sexual health space. Winning Partnerships: Learn how to connect with brands and sponsors to boost your visibility and income. Going Viral: Crack the formula to make your content blow up and reach thousands. Audience Growth: Discover the strategies you need to grow a loyal, engaged following. Preventing Burnout: Tips to balance content creation while staying sane. Authenticity in Content: The secret to producing quality, on-brand content that resonates. Pricing Strategies: DB's personal advice on how to price yourself bas

Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life and Relationships? Get ready for a Shameless Sex mashup episode that's about to blow your mind (and other parts, too) with the amazing Erwan and Alicia Davon, renowned relationship coaches and tantra teachers from San Francisco. We're combining three explosive episodes to bring you the ultimate masterclass on transforming your sex life and relationships. For full episodes check out: #292 Positions and the Art of Penetration #451 F-ing vs. Making Love #347 Say BYE to Sexless Marriages Here's what you'll learn from this epic mashup: • The art of penetration: because it's not just about the physical act, but the emotional intimacy that comes with it • How to know if you're just fucking or actually making love: and why it matters for your emotional well-being • The shocking truth about sexless marriages: and how to reignite the spark (or start a new flame) • The secrets to creating a deeper, more meaningful connection with your partner: think tantric practice

Perimenopause: The Secret Stage of Life That's Not So Secret Anymore Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the mysterious world of perimenopause with Lauren A. Tetenbaum, author of Millennial Menopause and social worker extraordinaire. Lauren, aka "The CounseLaur," shares her expertise on navigating this often-confusing and misunderstood phase of life. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The difference between perimenopause and menopause (yes, there's a difference!) • Why perimenopause is suddenly a hot topic (hint: it's not just about the hormones) • How long perimenopause can last and what symptoms to look out for (it's not just hot flashes, folks!) • Why this experience can be so confusing for individuals and their partners (communication is key, but it's not always easy) • The biological shifts that affect desire and pleasure during perimenopause (it's not just about the estrogen, baby!) • Tips for reclaiming your sexual connection (hello, sex toys and lube!) • The po

Welcome back to your bonus segment featuring an episode from a new-ish podcast we absolutely love (and we are picky about our podcasts!): Filthy Milfs! You have to check them out! This week, the Filthy Milfs welcome husband and wife Dave and Victoria Arena, the hosts of Comin' Out Swinging, to answer all the questions about swinging that you've been too afraid to ask! Join us as Dave and Victoria spill all the secrets from their 24 years of marriage, share tips for couples who are looking to experiment, and teach us about what really happens behind closed doors in sex clubs. Want to know what a Cookie Room is? Stay tuned :) To learn more or listen to Filthy Milfs, find them + subscribe on your favorite podcast app. Also check out: https://www.youtube.com/@FilthyMilfs IG @filthymilfspodcast https://ellenancui.substack.com/ Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.intimacyrewired.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! D

Sex Stories Without Shame: The Power of Anonymity Imagine a space where you can share your deepest desires and most intimate experiences without fear of judgment. Welcome to the world of anonymous sex stories, where Kathy Kay has been hosting the highly acclaimed Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast for over eleven years. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * How sharing sex stories can be a powerful tool for building connections and community * The role of anonymity in creating a safe space for people to share their sex lives * Kathy's favorite sex toys and how she uses them (yes, we get into the juicy details!) * How to explore different types of play, from external and internal to anal and cock pleasure play * The benefits of sharing your own sex stories and experiences with others As someone who has maintained anonymity for over a decade, Kathy brings a unique perspective to the conversation. Her commitment to non-judgmental support has created a loyal following, and her book is a testam

Beyond the Taboo: Uncovering the Secrets of Cuckolding and Hot Wifing Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the fascinating world of cuckolding and hot wifing with the charismatic Orpheus Black. With his unique blend of wisdom, insight, and storytelling, Orpheus will guide us through the intricacies of these often-misunderstood practices and reveal the surprising benefits they can bring to your relationships. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The real deal on cuckolding and hot wifing: what they are, how they work, and why they're not just for the adventurous few • How these practices can actually strengthen your relationship and bring you closer to your partner (yes, you read that right!) • The female perspective: exploring the equivalent practices and how they can be just as empowering for women • The secret to navigating cuckolding and hot wifing safely and lovingly, without sacrificing your emotional well-being • How to tap into your own desires and ignite a deeper pa

In this bonus episode Amy interviews dear friend, fellow podcaster, and talented author Kyle Thiermann all about his new book One Last Question Before You Go. Kyle shares everything from why we should all do this to strategies for interviewing and asking great questions that will not only change your connection to your parents, but also all of your relationships whether romantic, strictly platonic, or even in the professional world. This book will inspire you and change your life. Tune in to learn why. More about Kyle: An award-winning journalist, pro big wave surfer, and podcast host with over 400 episodes, Kyle Thiermann is curiosity in motion. His podcast guests include longevity expert Dr. Peter Attia, 3x Surfing World Champion Mick Fanning, and his own dad—where the idea for his first book began.  Blending witty narrative with practical advice, One Last Question Before You Go explores the art of interviewing our parents. As Thiermann writes, “Questions are invitations to see our parents in the pres

Can Sex Really Be Magic? Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of Sex Magic with the incredible Dr. Laura Berman. With over 30 years of experience as a sex, love, and relationship therapist, Dr. Berman is here to shake things up and challenge our conventional views on intimacy. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: * How Dr. Berman's journey led her to become a leading expert in the field of sexuality * What inspired her to write Sex Magic, and how it's different from her previous work * How to create a deeper spiritual connection in your relationships (no, you don't have to be "spiritual" to benefit from this!) * Practical exercises to help you channel your sexual energy into a more meaningful connection AND lead to bigger, better orgasms * Why intensity is more important than novelty when it comes to keeping things exciting in the bedroom * Common blocks to intimacy that might be holding you back (and how to overcome them) Dr. Berman's story is o

The Period Paradox: Why We're Still in the Dark About Sex and Menstruation Let's face it: periods and sex are still major taboos in our society. But why? Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of menstrual cycles, hormones, and sex with the incredible Dr. Sarah E. Hill, author of the groundbreaking book "The Period Brain." We're about to shed some much-needed light on the secrets our bodies have been keeping from us. Here's what you'll learn from this unapologetic conversation: • The real reason we call it a "period" (and why it's not just about bleeding) • The shocking truth about why the luteal phase has been ignored by science and medicine (and how it affects your sex life) • How menstrual cycles impact your sexual desire (it's not just about being "hormonal") • Tips for having mind-blowing sex during the luteal phase (yes, it's possible, even when you're feeling meh) • How to navigate PMS like a pro (no more excuses for bad moods or bad sex) • Advice for partners who want to be more support

Can You Imagine Having the Tools to Easily Rewrite Your Relationship with Intimacy and Create a More Fulfilling (and Juicier) Life? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of Intimacy Rewired. Not only will you learn about this online course that will transform your relationships and life, but you will also walk away with a few life changing tools to apply in your own life. Amy Baldwin and Ian Stratton are the masterminds behind this groundbreaking program, and they're here to share more about this program, alongside guests such as Dr. Nazanin Moali, Keeley Rankin, MA, Dr. Charlie Glickman, Sarah Tomchessen, and more. Here's what you can expect from this episode: • The whys and how-to's on easy tools for sexual and romantic healing that will last and actually change your life • A personal and intimate conversation with Amy and Ian about their journey to creating Intimacy Rewired and why they think healing doesn't always have to be hard (or unpleasant) • A deep dive into th

Can You Have It All: Passion, Intimacy, and a Happy Marriage? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of intimate marriages with the incredible Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka "The Intimacy Doctor." With her extensive experience in helping high-achieving couples ignite their passion, sensual connection, and erotic intimacy, you'll want to take notes. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The surprising reasons why intimacy often fades in long-term relationships (and it's not just about marriage) • How to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship whether married or not, with and without kids • The importance of the initial courting phase and how long you should date before tying the knot • Top tips for maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships, from a leading expert in the field • How to prioritize your relationship and make time for each other, even when life gets busy As a physician coach, Intimate Marriage Expert, and best-selling author, Dr. Alexand

Breakups: The Ultimate Opportunity for Growth, or Just a Hot Mess of Emotions? Get ready for a real talk with Medinah, the multi-hyphenate creative who's not afraid to get honest about the messy world of relationships and breakups. As a Realtor, podcaster, voice actor, and co-host of Paradise & Vibe retreats, Medinah has a unique perspective on love, loss, and self-reclamation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How to navigate the darkest depths of a breakup and come out stronger on the other side (yes, it's possible) • The pros and cons of celibacy and taking a break from dating after a breakup (is it right for you?) • How to deal with those pesky post-breakup feelings (heartbreak, horniness, and everything in between) • Medinah's top tools for a successful and easeful breakup (because who doesn't want that?) • How to fall in love with your single life and make the most of this time (self-care, self-love, and more) • The lowdown on breakup revenge: is it worth it, or just a rec

**Award Winning Porn Star and Director Teaches Us About Sex and Pleasure at All Ages** Join us for a candid conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • What porn looks like behind the scenes and what types of shoots changed Jessica's life for the better • The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media • Jessica's thoughts on porn and sex addiction, and her tips for managing intake and consumption • How Jessica's work with Wicked Sensual Care has helped her create a more inclusive and pleasure-positive sex culture • What Jessica is learning about sex and aging and the importance of high quality lube As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-inf

**Porn Star Turned Sex Educator Helps Us Rethink Sex and Pleasure** Join us for a candid two part (yes, there will be more in next week's episode) conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, Jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • How Jessica's journey from porn performer to world-renowned sex educator has helped her dismantle stereotypes and open minds • The common stigmas faced by sex workers and educators, and how we can work to overcome them • The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-informed spaces that resonate with audiences from all walks of life. Her mission is to open minds, dismantle stereotypes, and redefine the way society vi

**What if someone told you that your vagina was trying to tell you something, but you just didn't know how to listen?** Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of pelvic floor health with the one and only Dr. Sara Reardon, aka The Vagina Whisperer. With hundreds of thousands of followers on social media and a bestselling book, FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage, Dr. Reardon is here to spill the tea on all things vagina. **Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:** • The fascinating story of how Dr. Reardon became The Vagina Whisperer and dedicated her life to helping people care for their pelvic floors • What the heck is the pelvic floor, and why is it so crucial for our overall wellbeing? • The common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction and why so many people suffer from it in silence • What to do when your doctor tells you that your pelvic pain or leakage is "just part of being a woman" (hint: it's not okay, and Dr. Reardon

Can you handle the face-to-face intensity of face fucking, sitting, and queening? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive head-first (pun intended) into the world of face-centric kink with the incomparable Orpheus Black. This isn't Orpheus' first rodeo with us – he's back for his sixth visit, and we're thrilled to have him share his mastery of the erotic arts. Here's what you can expect to learn: • The nuances of face fucking, face sitting, and queening: what sets them apart, and why people are drawn to these intense, intimate experiences • Safety first: essential precautions and potential risks to consider when exploring these kinks • Top tips for maximizing pleasure and connection during face fucking, face sitting, and queening – from dildo dynamics to queening techniques • The best props and toys to elevate your face-centric play • Orpheus' expertise on the intersection of trauma, transformation, and conscious kink By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of f

Beyond the Bedroom: The Art of F**king vs. Making Love Get ready to dive into the world of intimacy, connection, and unapologetic lovemaking with Erwan and Alicia Davon, the dynamic duo behind the Davon Method. As renowned relationship coaches and Tantra teachers, they're here to dish out the truth on the age-old question: what's the difference between f**king and making love? Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * The fascinating story of how Erwan and Alicia went from individual journeys of self-discovery to creating a revolutionary approach to relationship coaching * The lowdown on the difference between f**king and making love (and why it's not just about semantics) * Alternative terms for "making love" that won't make you roll your eyes (we've got some suggestions!) * How Tantra can transform your sex life (and what it means to f**k Tantrically) * Practical Tantric tools to boost intimacy and connection (no matter your relationship status) * How to apply these tools to your solo practice (

In this special mashup episode, we dive deep into what it really takes to keep passion alive over the long haul with one of our favorite returning guests: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly. As a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, and founder of TurnON.love, Dr. Aly brings a unique blend of academic insight and real-world tools for sustaining emotional and sexual intimacy. We explore: #83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover #311 How to Take the Pressure Off of Sex  #348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses and retreats, including her popular Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love couples retreat and her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course. Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships. Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting

The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life? Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study.  Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The surprising story of how our anonymous guest became part of the Magic Wand study and what they learned about themselves in the process • Why Danielle felt compelled to study pleasure and how it led to the creation of the Magic Wand study • The gap in sex education that the Magic Wand study aimed to fill and how it's changing the conversation around pleasure • The most striking results of the study and what Danielle found most surprising • How the study's findings can be applied to real-life sex and relationships • What still needs to be studied in the world of sex and pleasure, including representation and inclusivity As a listener, you'll benefit from: • A deeper understandi