Sex Chat For Christian Wives

About This Episode Is it time to expand your sexual position repertoire? We discuss going beyond "missionary" to include other positions, with a dose of reality on what's do-able and how to introduce new positions into your marriage. Sponsor Click HERE to Learn More! From the Bible "His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me." Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3 The mandrakes give off a fragrance, and at our doors is every delicacy, both new and old. I have treasured them up for you, my love. Song of Songs 7:13 (CSB) Resources Spice Up Your Marriage! 18 Fun Ideas - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. I Love New Positions! - OysterBed7 Learn What You Like in Bed - The Forgiven Wife Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - The Forgiven Wife Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - The Forgiven Wife Sexual Positions for Pregnancy, or “My Belly’s In the Way!” - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Adding Variety to Your Marriage Bed - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Should Try This Sex Position - Hot, Holy & Humorous "Co

About this episode Self-care is important—and it helps our sexual interest too! In this episode we talk about why and share some tips. Sponsor Click Here to Learn More From the Bible “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 Then he said to them, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath.” Mark 2:27 But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed. Luke 5:16 Resources 5 Ways to Treat Yourself Like a Friend – CalmHealthySexy Silence the Lies – The Forgiven Wife New Day, New Way – It’s Never too Late to Start Something New – CalmHealthySexy Episode 80: Intimacy During Lockdown Self-Bullying: What to do when the bully is YOU! (affiliate link) 5 Ways to Take Care of Yourself in a Crisis – CalmHealthySexy

About this episode We’re recording this at a time when many people are still living with some form of stay-at-home orders. Others can go out, but aren’t sure if it’s safe. And many others are facing financial difficulties, such as job loss, reduced work hours, or uncertainty about the future of their job or business. All of those things make the idea of “date night” seem rather daunting. But even beyond the current crisis, lots of couples face challenges to enjoying a regular “date night.” Money may be tight, they may not have childcare, or they may be too tired to figure out what to do. So today we’re going to talk about date nights for challenging times, whatever your challenge may be. These are simply ways to plan some fun with your spouse – at home or in your community –  that don’t cost a lot of money and don’t take a lot of time and energy. From the Bible Song of Songs 7:11-13 Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranat

Today, we are answering some of your questions. How can I get over being sexually shy with my husband? How can I begin to get past the negative messages I learned about sex? How can I show my husband desire throughout the day instead of compartmentalizing sex for bedtime only? Sponsor Click Here to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples! From the Bible "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9 Resources Forget What You Look Like While Making Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 29: Lies Women Believe, Part 1 Episode 30: Lies Women Believe, Part 2 Episode 59: Myths We Learned from Pop Culture The #1 Myth Christian Women Learned about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Aqua Notes Water Proof Note Pad (Amazon affiliate link) 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous Silence the Lies - The Forgiven Wife Four Ways to Absorb God's Truth about

About this episode We’re wingin’ it! Hang out with us as we ramble about life during a global pandemic, the reality of trying to continue intimacy despite circumstances, and where our heads and hearts are right now. Maybe you can relate. Sponsor 2019 Replays   2020 Webinars From the Bible “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” – 1 John 4:18 (NIV) “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” – 2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV) The Book of Psalms Resources Squirrels Sports Announcer doing Real-life Commentary Melt Couples Massage Master Class Episode 10: Tending Your GardenUSA Today Mask Pattern (the one J used) No Sew Face MaskFace Mask from Bra

We're recording this during the Coronavirus global pandemic, but today we’re focusing on the positive with some practical tips for fostering intimacy during lockdown. What aspects of marital intimacy are most important during this tough time? How can sex be part of maintaining a positive attitude Knowing the challenges various couples are facing, what tips do you have for nurturing intimacy during lockdown? What scripture gives you hope and comfort right now? Sponsor Download Your FREE Copy! And check out our webinar replays. From the Bible "This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." – Psalm 118:24 (ESV) When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior. – Isaiah 43:2-3 "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink;

About this episode As we record this, we are in the midst of a global pandemic. Life feels far from normal. Besides pandemics, we all live through very difficult experiences from time to time. Natural disasters, deaths, illnesses, and family crises can pull the rug out from under us. In this episode, we share some ideas to help you maintain sexual intimacy when life goes topsy-turvy. From the Bible What does God have to say about [insert topic]? "Then David comforted his wife Bathsheba, and he went to her and made love to her" (2 Samuel 12:24a). "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7). Resources Challenging Times? Some Tips to Keep Up Marital Intimacy! - J's newsletterLet's Address These Marriage Struggles You May Have Right Now - J's newsletter 4 Ways Sex Can Comfort in Crisis or Grief - Hot, Holy & HumorousHow Sex Can Help Us Cope - Hot, Holy & HumorousYour Wife's Anxiety - KHS Ministry 8 Ways to Stay Intimate Even When Life Gets in the Way of Sex -

Today, we are discussing breasts and how they can impact your sexuality.  Song of Solomon calls them twin fawns of a gazelle and clusters of fruit.  Whether your twins are gazelles, grapes, or grapefruit, we are going to delve into a discussion about the female breast. What are some of the names used for breasts through the years? We can’t talk about breasts without first talking about breast feeding.  How can nursing affect a wife’s sexual intimacy? What are some characteristics of healthy breasts and what are some warning signs that you may need to go to the doctor? How breasts can impact a wife's experience of sexuality in the bedroom? Sponsor Click to Purchase 2019 Webinar(s) Click to Purchase 2020 Webinar(s). Also sponsored by KHS Ministry (Knowing Her Sexually) for husbands. From the Bible "Your breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle" (Song of Solomon 7:3). "Your stature is like that of a palm, and your breasts are like clusters of fruit.  I said, 'I will climb the palm tree; I wil

About this episode Today we are discussing how to ask for what you want, in marriage overall, and more specifically in the bedroom. This is something many women struggle to do and many women do not even know if they are supposed to ask. Why is it so hard for women to ask for what they want, especially in the bedroom? What are some practical things that women can do to start speaking up about what they want and need, and keep speaking up until they get it? What about women who do ask for what they want, but nothing changes? Or changes happen for a short time, but then drift back toward the status quo? Sponsors Click Here to Learn More Click here for Unlock Your Libido Visit Gaye's Calm.Healthy.Sexy Shop   From the Bible The Song of Solomon Resources Speak Up - The Forgiven Wife Learn What You Like in Bed - The Forgiven Wife Sock Monkey Kama Sutra book (affiliate link) Cookie Sutra book (affiliate link) Sharpie markers (affiliate link) Q&A with J: How Do I Express W

Today, we are answering some of your questions. How does a high desire wife navigate week-long business travel separation? What are some ways a nursing mom and mom of little ones can increase her desire to be sexual? How does menopause and hysterectomy affect sexual intimacy? Is it sinful to figure out how to reach orgasm on your own so that you can show your husband what works? Sponsor Click to Learn More! This episode was also sponsored in part by Honoring Intimates, lingerie & more! From the Bible The following verse is referenced and explained within the episode, but read the whole Onan story here. "Then Judah said to Onan, 'Sleep with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to raise up offspring for your brother.' But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother" (Genesis 38:8–9, NIV). Resources When My Sex Life Sucked - Part 1 and Part 2 - H

About this episode We all want to be wanted, and our husbands are no exception. Initiating sex is a great way to communicate “I want you” to your husband, but it isn’t always easy. Why do wives sometimes find it difficult to even try to initiate sex? Some wives report that they do try to initiate sex but their husbands don’t seem to pick up on the signals. What is going on? What are some things wives can do to initiate sex and get things rolling? Sponsor Click Here to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Honoring Intimates, lingerie & more! From the Bible What does God have to say about initiating? Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my belov

forchristianwives.com About the Episode We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable being naked with our husbands. Why is having a positive body image such a challenge for women? What can we do to combat messages that make us feel worse about ourselves? Do we have any responsibility to take care of our bodies? Despite how we feel about ourselves, most husbands find their wives beautiful. But what about the wife whose husband criticizes her appearance? What advice from your own journey would you give to help a wife embrace a positive body image? Sponsor Click Here to Learn More about Position Cards Also sponsored by Honoring Intimates, lingerie & more! From the Bible For you created my inmost being;     you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;     your works are wonderful,     I know t

About this episode Today we’re talking about letting go of something old and taking hold of something new in 2020. Sometimes we hold onto habits, thoughts, and behaviors that seemed to serve us well in the past, but now aren’t helping us move forward. They’re keeping us from moving forward and creating something new and better. What are some things we tend to hold onto, that may have helped us in the best but might be holding us back as we move into the New Year? What are some changes you’ve made, or changes you know that other women have made, that have allowed them to take hold of something new in their marriage? Sponsor Click Here to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Honoring Intimates, lingerie & more! From the Bible Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. – Isaiah 43:19 I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust,

Welcome to our Christmas episode! Listen as we share a little about ourselves. Plus, we thank you for listening by offering gift suggestions to build your lovemaking experience, your bedroom ambiance, and your connection with your sweetie. Sponsor Click HERE to learn more. Also sponsored by Honoring Intimates, lingerie and more. From the Bible James 1:17, "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." Resources The shopping links below are affiliate links that earn us a small commission at no additional cost to you. Gifts for Lovemaking We Vibe Sync (OysterBed7 We Vibe Sync Review) Liberator wedge pillow or other sex furniture (Should You Get a Sex Pillow? - Hot, Holy & Humorous) Vibrator pilot program Penis ring pilot program Sex blankets and throws Coconut oil Sliquid Splash pH-Balanced Feminine Wash Nooky Orange Blossom Massage Oil Gifts for Bedroom Ambiance Green Tea Infused Memory Foam Mattress Zen Breeze

About this episode When we struggle with sexual intimacy, we often feel alone. Our husbands may be our go-to support for most things, but if sex isn’t working well, he may not be able to help us in the way we need. Sometimes what we really need is support from other women who know what we’re going through. In this episode, we talk about how to find support for our sexual struggles and how to use that support to help us grow. We’re joined by Ruth Buezis, founder of Awaken-Love Ministry and author of Awaken Love: The Truth About Sex that will Transform Your Marriage. Sponsor Check out the games at Married Dance! Click Here to Learn More about Married Dance ------------------- Learn more about Peace.Love.Joy Learn more about the Honeycomb & Spice Community. From the Bible What does God have to say about letting others help us? Proverbs 11:14 - When there is no guidance a nation falls, but there is success in the abundance of counselors. (NET Bible) Proverbs 27:17 - As iron sha

About the Episode Around 20% of marriages are sexless. That is, the couple has sexual activity ten or fewer times per year. About ten years ago, a New York Times study indicated that 15% of couples haven’t had sex in at least six months. Sexlessness in a marriage can be a source of deep pain—and if often reflects pain as well. Today we’re going to talk about sexless marriages and what you can do about it if you’re in one. Sponsor Click Here to Learn More From the Bible What does God have to say about sexless marriages? "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." 1 Cor

Episode 69: Shower Power About this episode Today we’re talking about bathing and showering—not just having sex in a shower or bathtub, but the whole kit-and-caboodle. You’ll see what we mean once we get started. Sponsor Click Here to Learn More   From the Bible What does God have to say about sex and showers (or bathing)? Song of Songs 4:15 You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon. Song of Songs 5:12-16 His eyes are like doves by the water streams, washed in milk, mounted like jewels. His cheeks are like beds of spice yielding perfume. His lips are like lilies dripping with myrrh. His arms are rods of gold set with topaz. His body is like polished ivory decorated with lapis lazuli. His legs are pillars of marble set on bases of pure gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, choice as its cedars. His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, this is my friend, daughters of Jerusalem. Resources Suave Conditioner (affili

About This Episode Today's listener questions are: My husband is really interested in me swallowing during oral sex. I don't get it. I honestly don't want to work up to it; it's already taken a lot of effort just to give bjs and oral sex to him. But he keeps asking. I'm not sure what to do - keep saying no, or work through my gag reflex and dislike of the smell and try it? To be honest, it kind of grosses me out even thinking of swallowing. I've tried using the gag reflex sprays too and it doesn't help much. I just need some advice. I’ve read in some books and blogs God’s biblical design and purpose is that sex is a) for reproduction b) for pleasure c) creating intimacy - these three purposes are independent of each other — reproduction is possible without pleasure/intimacy or pleasure can be possible without procreation. -the maximum goal of the Lord is intimacy, for happiness of the couple and because marriage represents intimacy between church and Jesus So.. Do you think it’s possible to have real intimac

About this episode Today we’re talking about bedrooms, specifically the effect of your bedroom on the quality of sex and intimacy in your marriage. Can a couple’s bedroom affect romance and/or sex in their marriage? What kinds of things about a bedroom are most likely to negatively and positively affect romance and sex? What are some simple things that wives or couples can do to improve the state of their bedroom? What could they do that costs very little or offers a lot of improvement for a little bit of effort? Sponsor FOR 10% OFF, USE COUPON CODE: SEXCHAT10 Click to Learn More From the Bible What does God have to say about the bedroom? How handsome you are, my beloved! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant. The beams of our house are cedars; our rafters are firs. Song of Songs 1:16-17 Resources Get Off Our Marriage Bed, Fido! - Hot, Holy & Humorous Getting a Sex-Friendly Mattress - Hot, Holy & Humorous Should You Give Your Bedroom a Makeover? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 3 Rules t

About the Episode Today we're talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you’ll benefit from our conversation. Let’s begin by defining “higher drive wives.” Are these just wives who want an excessive amount of sex? What makes a wife higher drive or desire? The standard presumption is that husbands want sex more than their wives. Why has this message been so prevalent, and why do we need to change it? What are some reasons why husbands might have less sexual interest than their wives? What do you think lower interest spouses wish their higher desire spouses understood about their sexuality? Are higher desire wives represented anywhere in Scripture? Sponsor FOR 10% OFF, USE COUPON CODE: SEXCHAT10 Click Here to Learn More From the Bible "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not