Sex Chat For Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with four ways to be fully present during sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

When it comes to making time for sexual intimacy during the holiday rush, it can be wonderfully stressful or wonderfully playful or anything in between. We discuss how to navigate the busy-ness and stress of the holidays so that you can create a time of playfulness with your spouse and give you some ideas to build playfulness in your relationship and sex life. Sponsor Share the Soap provides skin care products with natural and carefully curated ingredients. With the Sensual Senses Set, Share the Soap is offering an additional bonus for our listeners: FREE lip balm for kissable lips when using code FCWDATENIGHT. Add the set and the lip balm to the cart, then apply the code, and the lip balm will show FREE. From the Bible Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6–7 Resources Season of Joy or Sea

What do women want to know about sex when we're face to faced with them? While we have regular listener question episodes, we wanted to address FAQs we get when speaking to a group or working with individuals or small groups. So get ready for six common questions and our answers. Sponsor Better Help can match you with a licensed, trained, experienced, and accredited therapist who shares your faith foundation. Access care through messaging, live chats, phone, and/or video conferencing. Check them out HERE. Our episode is also sponsored in part by Married Dance, a marriage-focused Christian sex toy store. From the Bible Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about how to have a conversation about mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Chris and J answer listener questions about sex after a vasectomy, competing with his phone for attention, plus-sized lovemaking, and how to use lube without losing the mood. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap, our favorite skin-care shop, for sponsoring this episode. Check them out: Share the Soap online store From the Bible Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance. Proverbs 1:5 (ESV) Resources What's So Great about "Shooting Blanks"? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Get Off Your Screen & Have Sex with Your Wife - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives (Available for preorder now!) Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - Honeycomb & Spice Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - Honeycomb & Spice Episode 111: Accepting Your Body Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid – Married Dance Full Chart of Over 300 Different Sex Positions (christianfriendlysexpositions.com) Q&A wit

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of prioritizing sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We welcome Christian sex therapist Karissa Curtis to discuss talking to kids—our own and others in our church—about sex. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. John 17:14–18 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about adding fun to your marriage using items commonly found in autumn. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him. Sponsor Happy Fall from Share the Soap! Buy 2 Get 1 FREE any item! Put 3 items in the cart. Use coupon code FCWFALL. Lowest item will be FREE. Mix and match products. *Applies to all products except Just a Girl Merch.* From the Bible You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body   and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!   Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. Psalm 139:13–14 (NLT) Resources Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Understanding Her Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives 2019 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (includes two above + foreplay) 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (all of our current webinars) Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex Man vs. Woman: The Differences - Hot, Holy & Humorous “The Fema

This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Let's talk about the five senses—touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste—and how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy & marital aid store.  From the Bible For you created my inmost being;     you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;     your works are wonderful,     I know that full well. Psalm 139:13–14 My dove in the clefts of the rock,     in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face,     let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet,     and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources Episode 179: Light Hearts & Lingerie Introduction to Sensate Focus Dona Massage Lotion - Married Dance Intimate Organics Energizing Massage Oil - Married Dance Fuzu Massage Candle - Married Dance Red Lightbulbs - Amazon Episode 74: Getting Comfortable with Your Body Episode 111: Accepting Your Body Experience Deeper Int

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to remember when making sexual changes. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

What is sexual betrayal? Have you experienced it? Today, we address the sensitive topic of sexual betrayal with honesty and compassion, relying quite a bit on our in-house expert, Bonny Burns.  Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap for sponsoring this episode. Visit sharethesoap.com for quality bath and skin care products! And for August, take advantage of their special just for our listeners. Buy a Neroli Hydrosol Sprayer and get a FREE Anticipation Aromatherapy Roll-On. Put both items in your cart and use coupon code FCWNEROLI. From the Bible "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28 “For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16 (NASB) I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Jeremiah 3:8a John’s disciples

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the power of words to foster friendship and overflow into your bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

The gang's all together again! Gaye Christmus joins us to talk about myths about sex, where they come from, and what truths wives need to embrace instead. Sponsor Married Dance – a Christian sex toy store From the Bible I slept but my heart was awake.     Listen! My beloved is knocking: “Open to me, my sister, my darling,     my dove, my flawless one. My head is drenched with dew,     my hair with the dampness of the night.” I have taken off my robe—     must I put it on again? I have washed my feet—     must I soil them again? Song of Songs 5:2–3 My beloved thrust his hand through the latch-opening;     my heart began to pound for him. I arose to open for my beloved,     and my hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with flowing myrrh,     on the handles of the bolt. I opened for my beloved,     but my beloved had left; he was gone.     My heart sank at his departure. I looked for him but did not find him.     I called him but he did not answer. Song of Songs 5:4–6 For as high as the heavens are above the

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor and is specifically for wives who have been sexually reluctant and are ready to work on improving their sexual engagement with their husbands. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

In this episode, we tackle listener questions—specifically how to feel more confident in the bedroom by choosing something positive to wear, how to find a therapist in your area or online, and how to mentally shift from seeing oral sex as “dirty” to something married couples can (if they both want) do. Sponsor Better Help – connect with a fellow believer online within our network of licensed, professional therapists. From the Bible Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Song of Songs 2:3 Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. Song of Songs 4:16 Resources Honoring Intimates Mentionables “Getting Ready for Sex,” Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s Design (Signed) by J. Parker Episode 179: Light Hearts & Lingerie Better Help Online Therapy Psychology Today

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of speaking up about what you need to experience sexual pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka join us today for a candid conversation about women and their struggle with porn. If you struggle, this episode will help. But if you don't, listen anyway so that you can be there to support fellow women trying to break free. And be sure to check out the new resource, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out Of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, cowritten by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap, your go-to site for natural, quality bath and skin care products! And check out their special deal just for our listeners: free aloe gel with any order using coupon code FCWALOE. (Put gel in your cart, use the code, and the price for that will go to zero.) From the Bible It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1 I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. The