Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality From A Christian Perspective

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions from our Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:Sex drive and pregnancyCan medications cause permanent sexual issues?Low-drive husband's affairBirth control optionsResourcesFistingThe banana questionSex machinesSex and being overweightSex in heavenTantric sexIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,100 responses. I've started on the analysis and hope to have it out soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

Back for part two of our anonymous reader's questions from January 2019 from our Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this second part, we're tackling the subjects:Is hetero anal sex new?Anal sex re-hashToo large for anal?Prostate massageFelchingFactors in orgasm abilityCan women learn to ejaculate?Can kegels lead to vaginal orgasms?Can men be multiorgasmic?How to learn to orgasm on commandAre my PC Muscles too strong?If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Links to things we discussed:The Key to Feminine Response in Marriage (book)The Act of Marriage (book)Edging (post)The Womanizer (toy)Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,000 responses, so I'll be doing the analysis as so

This podcast episode, I'm answer our reader's questions from January 2019. I got a ton of them, so it took me a while to write answers to all of them. However, there are so many I'm having to split it up across multiple episodes.In this first part, we're tackling the subjects:Should single people be reading this blog?Mind-ReadingDIY Arousal LubeIs it wrong to masturbate to get ready for sex?Sex RoutinesSex Furniture"Unwanted" BookSome other updates:I’ve changed some things around with respect to our support community. Until recently, I’d been using Patreon to handle all monthly contributions. Unfortunately, Patreon has gone and upset a fair number of people. So, I’ve changed our Support Us page to include a PayPal option - for those who would prefer not to be involved with Patreon.Also, we have a new survey up. If you haven’t filled it out, please do so here.Lastly, I’ve got a toll-free number! I thought it would be neat if people could leave voicemails of questions and I could include them in the podcast.

Looking for a fun and sexy gift for Valentine's Day? Check out our new printable: Sexy Memory - Foreplay Game On sale now until Valentine's Day. Download it today and have it printed and ready tonight. 60 different activities to choose from so you can play at your comfort level. Been getting a ton of great feedback from both husbands and wives. Some like that it forces them to slow down and lets them get really aroused. Others just like that it includes sex :) If you're already one of our monthly supporters, check your inbox for a coupon code. Don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss out our next round of anonymous questions. If you have a question you'd like answered, you can ask it anonymously here.

This podcast episode, I'm catching up on some listener's questions that I got back in 2018.You can find the complete questions and answers at https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/anonymous-questions-from-december-2018/Topics include: ED due to medical problemsHusband in erotic chatroomsSex toys caused sexual awakeningList of books for continued learningDouble standard on the blogPositionsAnal sex in Song of SolomonSexy underwear for menHypnosisIs it wrong to masturbate if you don't have an orgasm during sex?Why there is nothing new on the blogHow to ask a potential spouse if they like oral sexOrgasming on command If you have a question you'd like to have answered, check out our Have A Question page at UncoveringIntimacy.comFind us on PatreonFacebookInstagramTwitterPinterest Or subscribe to our newsletter to get all the info.

This is just a quick podcast episode to let my listeners know about our Intimacy Advent Calendar currently for sale in our shop. You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day. Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? Well, I wanted to try and recapture that feeling. At the same time, I know many couples struggle to maintain intimacy during the holidays. Not just physical intimacy (but that too), but it’s also a high-point for arguments and blow-outs. So, I wanted to make something that encouraged us to draw together during this season. So, I put together an Advent Calendar for couples. It took me a while to figure out how to manage things like visitations, big dinners, people’s differing boundaries and comfort levels around certain sexual activities, travel, and even periods. But, I think I found a fairly elegant solution. Check

This is the audio recording of the sermon I preached in my home church about sex. You can get the full transcript on the website. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.

Today I'm talking about oral sex and whether or not it's sanitary. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.

I have a lot of wives coming to me asking how to get their husband to be more assertive in bed.  The problem is, our society and culture have taught men to be more submissive, and take a back seat with regard to sex.  We're either explicitly or implicitly taught that we should let the woman lead in the physical relationship. The problem is that many married women don't want that.  They want a husband who is assertive and confident, not waiting for his wife to make the first move and anxious. So, this podcast is about how to help your husband to be more assertive in the bedroom, because while I can tell men all day to be more confident, the truth is, a lot of it has to do with how his wife responds. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.

Today I'm answering some more questions from our Have A Question page that have come in over the last month or so.  This episode I talk about my credentials, dealing with sex drive and long-term illness, falling out of love, self-control and how to start leading when you haven't been. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.

This episode, I'm answering anonymous questions we've received about fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.

I'm changing up the format of the podcast a bit this week and answering some reader questions.

Looking for the perfect Valentine's Day gift that will continue to around for years to come? Something that's sexy without being sexual? Check out Melt.

Father's Day is this Sunday, and I thought we'd share some last-minute Father's Day gifts for those wives who listen to the podcast.  We've got some free options, some not-so-free options and some options that are a bit of an investment, but all of them you can manage to pull off even the day before Father's Day.

Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday, so thought I'd talk briefly about why father's should celebrate Mother's Day in honour of their wives.  And today, my wife, Christina, has made the time to join me on this episode.  Sort of to make up for the ones I missed recently.  So, here we go.

Often men see sex as a reward, even when it's not intended for one.  Conversely, if they don't have sex, sometimes they feel punished, or that they failed at something.  Why is this?  I think there are three reasons: Hormones - specifically dopamine, the "reward" hormone. Society - We're taught that sex = winning Sex is a big part of being male

The Bible uses marriage as a metaphor for God's relationship with us many times.  I think there's a good reason for it.  In this podcast episode, I discuss my belief that all the do's and don'ts, both in marriage, and in the Bible, point to one thing: the relationship.  Not that the rules are unimportant, or are not valuable, but that the underlying relationship is far more so.  In fact, if we focus on the relationship, on our love for the other person, then all the rules, the guidelines, the do's and don'ts, will happen all on their own.

A couple of years ago I got a message from a reader who was beside herself with unfounded fears that her husband was no longer attracted to her.  She hadn't asked him.  She had no indication that he wasn't, but she had this deep seated fear that he wasn't. So, I ran a survey, asking spouses about their attraction to their husband or wife.  And today I thought I'd share some of results with you, to help anyone else who has the same fears.

I didn't have much time this week to record, so this is a very short podcast episode to let you know about our marriage challenge this week to help you break out of a sexual rut, as well as our new product: The Spice Jar - A printable game to help you change things up in the bedroom tonight.

I once heard it said that the definition of conflict is two people in the same ZIP code.  Well, in marriage the people are a lot closer than that, and this inevitably spawns conflict.  Now, conflict isn't bad, in fact, it can be good and healthy.  Conflict forces us to grow, to see another person's perspective, to seek unselfish solutions.  But, if conflict is dealt with in an unhealthy manner, then it can be damaging.  Today I'm going to share with you 7 damaging conflict behaviours that you might recognize in your marriage.  If any of these ring a bell, you need to start working to rid yourself of them in your relationship.