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How to Tell When "Growth" Stops Being Productive   In this episode of the Resilience Across Borders podcast, host Rachid Zahidi explores the critical distinction between genuine healing and pain avoidance. While self-improvement is often seen as a universal good, Rachid warns that it can sometimes serve as "pain management in disguise"—a way to move around discomfort rather than through it. Key concepts explored in this episode: The 90-Second Rule: Rachid introduces a practical exercise for journaling or meditation: identifying an avoided feeling and sitting with the physical sensations for 60–90 seconds without analysis. This process allows the emotion to be processed rather than suppressed. Healing vs. Avoidance: True healing reduces the emotional charge of a trigger over time. Avoidance, by contrast, merely buries pain beneath a layer of intellectual understanding or temporary calm. Behavioral Transformation: A major theme of the discussion is that healing changes behavior, while avoidance only chang