How To Buy A Home

Think you’re not ready to buy a home yet? Kennedy started with $8,000 saved and no clear plan — and five months later, she closed on a $300,000 home. Here’s how education, the right team, and a focused savings strategy made it happen.Kennedy didn’t think she was ready to buy. She had $8,000 saved and just wanted information. Five months later, she closed on a $300,000 home in Louisville. In this episode, she shares how connecting with the right lender and “unicorn realtor” helped her create a clear plan, double her savings, and buy with confidence. This is a real example of what happens when education replaces hesitation and strategy replaces fear.“I didn’t think at the beginning of the year when I said I was interested that I would be at this point of already in a home.”HighlightsWhy you don’t need to feel “ready” before starting the homebuying conversationHow the right lender and realtor create a clear, customized planThe impact of doubling savings in five months with focused intentWhy location should match

Mortgage rates aren’t falling the way buyers expect—and this interview breaks down why “waiting for a crash” may backfire, plus what realistic first-time buyer strategies still work in today’s market. Zachary Foust explains why mortgage rates haven’t followed Fed cuts the way people assume, and how bond investors, inflation risk, and the mortgage-to-bond “spread” affect what buyers actually pay. He argues a 2008-style housing crash is unlikely without a major inventory surge, and that the kind of crash many buyers hope for would likely come with painful unemployment. The conversation shifts into practical “path of least resistance” moves—like using FHA/USDA/VA and state housing authority assistance, considering townhomes in secondary markets, and paying attention to new construction incentives—while also naming the emotional toll this market is taking on first-time buyers. “Townhomes aren’t sexy, but they’re affordable to build and they’re cheaper, especially if they’re on the outside of a primary m

Think you need to wait until you’re “ready” to talk to a lender? Think again. In this episode, David sits down with expert lender Kelly Cort to explain why early conversations — even a year or two in advance — can save you time, money, and stress. If you’re serious about buying a home, this is the episode that could change your entire timeline. Most first-time buyers delay talking to a lender because they think they’re not ready — not enough savings, credit isn’t perfect, or they’re “just researching.” But that delay can cost you. In this episode, David and seasoned mortgage pro Kelly Cort bust that myth wide open. They explain how early lender conversations don’t require a pre-approval or credit pull, and how they help you create a custom financial game plan for buying a home — not just a mortgage estimate. From understanding soft vs. hard credit pulls to when you can actually lock in an interest rate, this episode walks you through everything you didn’t know you needed to know. You’ll learn h

Check out our updated 2026 First Time Homebuyer's Episode Guide - Over 100 of our BEST Episodes of Detailed Homebuying Knowledge, Interviews, and MORE! Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHomeInstagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcastTik Tok @HowToBuyAHomeVisit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing t

Learn the essential “last-mile” steps that prevent closing-day surprises—and how to use your first home as the foundation for smarter next-move planning.This final installment of the 2026 first-time homebuyer checklist breaks down what really happens between offer acceptance and getting your keys—especially the details that tend to blindside buyers in the last week before closing. You’ll learn why the closing date should be treated as a moving target, what to handle early (like utilities and mail), and how to protect yourself when wiring your funds. The episode also zooms out beyond closing day to explain how first-time buyers can build options for “house #2” without automatically selling the first one.“The actual closing date is fluid.” - David Sidoni Highlights Why is your closing date more of a “target” than a guarantee—and how should you plan around that?What do most buyers forget to set up before closing that can create immediate headaches (and fees) after they get the keys?How can you avoid wi

Emily and Patrick share how they went from a cramped $2,400/month one-bedroom rental to owning a 1,400 sq ft Southern California townhome by trusting the numbers, timing the market, and staying organized through the entire process. After renting for years and assuming Southern California homeownership would be out of reach, Emily and Patrick learned their buying power by working through their numbers with a lender and adjusting their price bracket strategically. They toured roughly a dozen homes, hit a rare slower moment in the local 2025 market, and ended up being the only offer on a townhome that needed mostly cosmetic updates. Emily practiced the future mortgage payment in advance using a spreadsheet budget and shifted savings into safer accounts once they began seriously shopping. From inspection through closing, they describe the process as surprisingly smooth—largely because they stayed document-ready and followed each step quickly online. “It was surprisingly smooth. Everything was really eas

Learn how to negotiate smarter by using flexibility, contract timelines, and inspection strategy—without giving up the protections first-time buyers need.This episode breaks down what actually drives real estate negotiations (and why preparation months ahead protects your leverage). You’ll learn how earnest money, contingency timelines, seller disclosures, and home inspections shape both your risk and your negotiating power. It also covers why asking for credits can be cleaner than repair requests—and closes with a practical credit score “nugget” to help you avoid last-minute financing surprises.“It all comes down to two simple concepts. Real estate is all about time and money.”HighlightsHow does flexibility on timing help you negotiate a better price without feeling “desperate”?What do earnest money and contingency deadlines really protect—and what happens if you miss them?Which seller disclosure details should make you slow down, ask questions, or renegotiate?Why is waiving a home inspection usually a risky

Part 2 of the 2026 essential checklist shows first time homebuyers how to research neighborhoods, tour homes strategically, and protect themselves while shopping in today’s weird housing market. This episode jumps from planning into the “fun stuff”: a practical checklist for researching neighborhoods and shopping for homes like a pro instead of a scrolling-Zillow zombie. You’ll learn how to use tools like Google Maps, Street View, WalkScore, crime maps, school ratings, zoning plans, and even old-school paper maps to understand a community before you ever step inside a house. David then walks through smart touring strategy—bundling showings, ranking your top three, watching for surveillance cameras, checking commute times and internet service, and touring midweek to beat the weekend crowds. Finally, he explains how to avoid traps with open houses and new construction, why list prices are “garbage,” how to spot opportunity in “back on market” and badly photographed listings, and why your realtor’s most val

A first-time buyer shares how early planning, relocating for affordability, and buying with a family member helped three roommates become homeowners in California.  Eric, his partner, and their cousin Alex were priced out of San Jose and chose to explore Bakersfield after realizing it fit their budget and lifestyle goals. They spent time learning the city firsthand (including a smart Uber/Lyft approach that doubled as income and neighborhood research) while working through job changes and loan qualification. Eric explains how pre-planning with a mortgage pro reduced last-minute stress, and how they protected themselves by backing out of an escrow when a solar loan complication became too costly. The story ends with their team finding a better home quickly—one that met their must-haves—and a reminder that the process can be a stop-and-go emotional rollercoaster.  “My biggest tip was pro. It’s like starts as early as possible. Even if you don’t think you’re quite ready yet.” - Eric &nbs

This interview breaks down how self-employed first-time homebuyers can use intentional tax strategy to improve mortgage qualification and avoid higher-cost loan options.  In this interview, CPA and licensed loan professional Dan Mullen explains why many self-employed first-time homebuyers are incorrectly told they cannot qualify for a mortgage. He breaks down the critical difference between taxable income and mortgage-qualifying income, showing how common write-offs can unintentionally reduce buying power if planned poorly. The discussion walks through legal tax strategies—such as depreciation, mileage, and asset treatment—that can preserve lender-approved income while remaining compliant with tax law. The episode also explains why bank statement loans are more expensive and why early coordination between a CPA and lender can dramatically change a buyer’s outcome. Check out Dan's book Real Decisions: The Financial Impact of Renting and Owning on Amazon “Buying a home is the financial found

Part 1 of the 2026 essential checklist walks first-time homebuyers through the smartest way to start—by building a financing plan, avoiding common internet myths, and getting a real pre-approval early. This episode kicks off a multi-part “essential checklist” with a focus on financing and loan strategy, including a rapid-fire myth bust around “deal” listings like short sales and tax lien properties. It explains why the 20% down payment belief is outdated for most first-time buyers, and outlines today’s common low-down-payment paths (including FHA, conventional, VA, and USDA where eligible). It also breaks down why “pre-qualification” is mostly marketing noise, why APR matters alongside the interest rate, and why buyers should prioritize finding the right people (a specialist realtor + lender team) over chasing a single number. Finally, it flags that down payment assistance programs and grants change frequently, so buyers should always ask about current options and stacking possibilities. "I’m going

Get the exact “move fast without panicking” checklist Gideon and Caroline used to get under contract in under a week—numbers first, must-haves clear, team aligned. Gideon and Caroline share how they got under contract in under a week by doing the prep that prevents regret: running numbers early, narrowing to a true non-negotiable, and leaning on a coordinated lender/realtor team. They also break down how they handled common first-time buyer sticking points—PMI, one borrower vs two, inspection tradeoffs, and avoiding closing-cost surprises. “I didn’t realize how smooth the process could be… they were all talking to each other in the background, and it was almost completely hands off for us.” — CarolineHighlights When should you “run the numbers” so you can move fast without overbuying?What’s the fastest way to identify your true non-negotiables (so you stop second-guessing)?How can one must-have narrow your search and speed up the whole timeline?Should you apply with one income or two—and why mi

This episode explains why a rare January buyer’s market is creating real affordability opportunities for first-time homebuyers right now, without waiting on government “fixes.”  SynopsisWith sellers outnumbering buyers by 47%—including 631,000 more sellers than buyers in January 2026—the episode breaks down why leverage has quietly shifted back to homebuyers. It outlines practical ways buyers are getting affordability through negotiations, seller credits, and builder incentives—plus rate buy-downs and closing cost help. It also explains why headline-driven policy talk doesn’t solve the real issue (inventory) and why affordability wins often come from local and market-based opportunities instead.   Finally, it spotlights emerging state and local ideas that could reduce monthly payments—like property tax caps/exemptions and stacked grants—while encouraging first-time buyers to get proactive before spring competition returns.  “Right now, there’s 631,000 more home sel

This episode breaks down the biggest myth in home buying: how affordability is really calculated.Most first-time buyers ask, “What can I afford?”—but that question leads to the wrong answers. David explains how bad math, bad advice, and outdated thinking have made homeownership feel further away than it actually is. Learn how debt-to-income ratios, down payments, and private mortgage insurance actually work in 2026. Real buyer examples prove you may be much closer to owning than you think.“Buying a home isn’t just a financial decision. It’s a plan that interacts with every other aspect of your life.” HighlightsWhat happens when you ask, “What can I afford?” too early in the process?Can saving $45,000 more really lower your monthly payment in a meaningful way?What’s the truth about PMI—and is it actually a smart tool for first-time buyers?How did some buyers get in for as little as $3,700… or even less?Is the January 2026 market creating unexpected opportunities for renters? Referenced Episodes300 –

John and Chrissy share how they turned early inheritance and smart planning into a successful first home purchase in pricey California.After renting for over 18 years, John and Chrissy navigated skyrocketing rents, family support, and strategic planning to buy a $700,000 home in San Luis Obispo. With only $5,000 in savings, an unexpected offer of early inheritance shifted their mindset from surviving rent hikes to buying a home. They used the How to Buy a Home system and their Unicorn team to align monthly affordability with realistic home options. From dealing with open house stress to choosing a planned urban development (PUD) for detached living without breaking the bank, their journey reflects persistence, planning, and prioritizing what matters most.“You have no idea what you’re capable of until you put it in front of you and crunch the numbers.” — ChrissyHighlights: How do you go from $5,000 in savings to owning a $700,000 home with confidence?What options exist for buyers who want a detached home

Most first-time homebuyers don’t need a miracle — they just need a system. In Part 2 of this playbook series, David Sidoni gives you the exact monthly roadmap to go from renting to owning in one year or less.The housing industry ignores renters during the most important phase — the planning stage. But that’s exactly where first-time buyers need the most support.In this episode, David Sidoni delivers the second half of the “Last Lease Ever” Playbook, a proven system designed to help renters become homeowners with just one focused action step per month. You’ll learn how to stop guessing, start tracking, and build your own custom plan based on the “Big Three”: credit, debt, and savings.Forget waiting until you’re “ready.” This episode shows you how to take control now — even if you’re still a year or two away from buying. You’ll also learn why finding your unicorn realtor and lender before you’re ready makes all the difference.“Most renters can buy in 12 months or less — if they stop waiting for someone to hand

This episode introduces the Rent Replacement Strategy as a powerful mindset shift for first-time homebuyers. In part one of the First-Time Homebuyer Playbook, David Sidoni lays out the essential mindset every buyer needs before they ever look at a home: the rent replacement strategy. Rather than comparing rent and mortgage as separate costs, David explains how your rent can—and should—be replaced with a fixed, wealth-building home payment. The episode challenges the fear of becoming “house poor” by breaking down the math of equity growth, tax benefits, and long-term stability. This is the playbook to avoid financial regret and take real control of your housing future. “Renting is about survival. Owning a home is about growth.” Highlights What is the rent replacement strategy, and how can it help you afford a home?Why do so many renters regret not buying sooner?How does understanding full financial math debunk the fear of being house poor?What low down payment options and strategies can fir

Abigail and her husband thought they needed $50,000 before they could even think about buying a home. But after reaching out for budgeting advice, they learned they were already closer to ownership than they imagined. With guidance from a Unicorn team, family gift funds, and smart loan planning, they closed on a $400,000 home in under 90 days. This episode details how early conversations and the right financial education can replace fear with facts — and get buyers into homes faster than they expect. “We did have to break our lease in order to buy the house… it worked out so well.” - AbigailHighlights What financial assumptions kept Abigail and her husband from realizing they were ready to buy?Why does using only one spouse’s income sometimes secure a better loan rate?How can breaking a lease early actually speed up your homeownership timeline?What loan and gift strategies helped Abigail cover her down payment without draining savings?Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to

You’ve made it through the offers and inspections—now don’t let closing day blindside you. Learn what to expect (and what can still go wrong) in the final stretch of buying your first home. If you’re like most first-time buyers, you think you’re in the clear once your offer is accepted. But the final 4 to 6 weeks—known as “closing”—are packed with surprises that can derail your timeline, your budget, and your sanity. In this myth-busting episode, David Sidoni explains why closing is rarely “set in stone,” and walks you through everything from shifting dates to last-minute costs. Designed specifically for buyers who crave control and clarity, this episode helps you anticipate the unpredictable, manage expectations, and stay grounded when it matters most.“You can do everything right, but you are just one of dozens of different factors that determine if you close on time.”HighlightsWhy closing is a process, not a single day—and why that mattersHow even a signed contract doesn’t guarantee your moving dateWhat “fl

The origin, mission, and standards behind the “Unicorn Realtor” and how they transform outcomes for first-time homebuyers.Unicorn Realtors aren’t mythical—they’re real estate pros who specialize in first-time buyers and uphold elite, client-first standards. In this origin story, David Sidoni shares how the unicorn concept emerged as a radical answer to an industry that sidelines first-time buyers in favor of profits. He explains the strict vetting process that separates unicorns from the rest and why their mastery, ethics, education, and advocacy offer real advantages to new buyers. This isn’t just about realtors—it’s a buyer revolution built to protect and empower.“Unicorns aren’t magic. They’re just incredibly rare—and built to put first-time buyers first.” - David SidoniHighlights:What really sets a Unicorn Realtor apart from the rest of the industry?Why are first-time homebuyers ignored—and how did this model flip the script?What strict standards must Unicorn Realtors meet to stay on the list?How does hir