Families Matter Most

Want to transform your home?   If you apply this philosophy today, your kids will respond immediately.  It's called Tying Strings, and it's a metaphor for building great relationships no matter what age your kids are. This way of looking at connecting with your kids will help you be intentional when the kids are behaving great, but I'll also share how this can help you even when you have to discipline. Go tie some strings!  Want to learn more about Families Matter Most? www.familiesmattermost.com    Similar Podcast Topics: Three Things to Never Say to Your Kids Raising Resilient Kids Helping Kids Fail Forward Sibling Rivalry  Hard Kids        

Do you struggle with what to say to your kids?  As parents we want to love our kids unconditionally, but sometimes our words don't share that same message to our kids.  If you have fallen into the trap of saying phrases you regret, I am here to help. We won't be just talking about what you shouldn't say. We will also look at what you SHOULD say to your kids. I'm a mom a get it.  We all want to reach their heart, their core. Let's do this in a way that will lift up our kids and ourselves! When we do this properly, we are teaching our children resiliency, the proper way to deal with frustration, and character development.   Want to learn more about Families Matter Most? Check us out at www.familiesmattermost.com   Looking For More Podcasts on this Topic? Check out: Raising Resilient Kids Kids Who Use Words As Weapons Alpha Childen Feelings

Feel overwhelmed? Where do you start? Have you had a day when you look around and realize your marriage isn't where you want it to be? When you look at your kids and admit that it's not going so great? My guest on the podcast is Dwayne Moffat of The Imperfect Parent. We talk about the process of personal development and how this actually looks, focusing on three epiphanies that have helped Dwayne reach the hearts of his kids: Communication, Awareness, and Intention.   Have a listen to our podcast together! You can check out Dwayne's Podcast, The Imperfect Parent, or reach out to him over on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/imperfectparentpodcast/

What do you do when you're in a hard season?    Stress might cause you to explode and take it out on the people around you, or implode and give up altogether. Do you burn up or burn out?   When you're under pressure, there are three things you need to stay connected to in order to come through it. If you're in a hard place right now, I need you to focus on these three things only. Everything else can fall apart if it needs to, but these are your lifelines… this is what will get you to the other side eventually.   You need to stay connected to  your peace your purpose, and  your people.   Otherwise, you could end up sabotaging yourself.  Nothing is worth hurting your relationships, and it's never too late for your comeback moment.     And yes, I'm hearing Rocky music in my head right now :)   In this podcast, let me encourage you to keep focused on what matters most. Don't quit! I'm cheering for you!     Your coach, Jenn Want to learn more www.familiesmattermost.com 

What would your life be like if you had more energy? If you had less pain and stiffness? If you slept better at night? If you managed stress and had more patience? Do you think it would affect your parenting and marriage? You bet!  I've done all the fad diets and exercise crazes. I've experimented with macros and muscle fibers, and I've researched the studies to see what is most effective in real people just like you and me.   Here are five easy tips that will make a difference in your life. Strategies that you can incorporate to help you be comfortable in your own skin and present for the people that you love.  97% of people can't do this on their own. Book a strategy call with me for free, and let's chat about you. www.familiesmattermost.com

I get more emails from parents of 7 year old's than ANY OTHER AGE!  Kids aged 6-8 experience a unique developmental hurdle and it changes everything- you used to be able to give an instruction, but now there's constant pushback. Your sweet 4 year old has now become willful and defiant.  Is it like they've regressed back into emotional outbursts and tantrums? It feels like you're in the twilight zone but you're not crazy! Let me help you reach the hearts of these mysterious kids. Navigate this phase well and it will pay off down the road- I promise!   Recent Listener Comment: "So I want you to know how much I love and appreciate you. Our home is such a better place because of you and your ministry. I was at a loss as to what to do with my eldest two. Then I remembered the Bean Jar! Got that out and instead of always telling each other when we are wrong, we've spent the last two days catching each other honouring. It's changed the atmosphere."  Is it time to get some one-on-one help? Let's schedule a FREE strat

"I shouldn't have to reward them for something basic like making their bed!"  In this podcast, let's break down behavior and come up with strategies to reach our kids hearts. Incentives allow us to teach which behaviors and qualities we want to see more of. The good news is, if we do it right, it will internalize into character that expands into other areas of life. For More details visit www.familiesmattermost.com for chore ideas, rewards, and more.

We have a BONUS podcast this week!  I've received so many great questions about how to get started teaching kids responsibility that I created another podcast to help you!  Some feedback from parents: "It's easy to get overwhelmed and not know where to start, but now I finally have a rough plan. I know it will look differently for each of my kids, but at least I can make sure we get some great life skills started." "I wish I knew more when I left home. So it's encouraging to know that by teaching them some of these skills I'm helping my kids be successful when they head out into the world!" And "My kids are pretty little right now, and I always thought I would teach them when they were older. But after listening to the podcast I realize there's lots I can do right now, and if I follow her guidelines they'll be ready when they graduate."  If you like the idea of having your family work together but don't know where to start, I've got you! Head over to the podcast page at www.familiesmattermost.com to get your

There are so many good reasons kids should have to help out the family with regular work around the house. Learning how to do things you don't want to do is a fundamental skill for life success! Character qualities like self control and time management are developed when kids are lovingly guided to learn hard work and responsibility, and we want our kids to feel confident when they eventually launch into the world. Diligence and responsibility are only learned by doing, so start implementing daily chores now! For more details visit www.familiesmattermost.com 

Think of a situation where you took something personally: Did you overreact, yell at your kids, or become offended at your spouse?  Our consistent actions always follow our heart, not our logic. Our behavior stems from our core beliefs, and if you believe a lie in your heart it will be impossible to make lasting change in our lives.  Which lie do you believe? I'm worthless I'm helpless I'm unloveable Learn how these lies affect our relationships and how to remove them. Your freedom is worth it! For more details visit www.familiesmattermost.com 

When kids face adversity, they can react with anger, tears, or just shut down completely. Often, our own frustration doesn't help either! Our kids already know what it feels like to fail. They need to learn resilience. Learn how to reduce the emotions and break down hard things into achievable tasks. With your help, your kid can do hard things. For more details visit www.familiesmattermost.com 

Develop three habits to help kids fail forward.   Do your kids struggle with failure? Tantrums, slamming doors and screaming out insults are common behaviors for kids that struggle with frustration.   How can we help our kids deal with mistakes and failure?   Cultivate a culture in your home that accepts failure, help kids become successful even in the midst of failure and help kids to learn from their mistakes.  www.familiesmattermost.com

Are you feeling like life is moving too fast? Is Everything happening all at once?  The word for this week is overwhelmed.  When we feel stressed and chaos all the time we move into constant overwhelm and will reach burn out- UNLESS we do something to change.  I have made these changes. I have recently put this into practice in my own life, and you can too. Head on over to my website wwwfamiliesmattermost.com for more parenting tools.

Some children are skilled at using words.  Early talkers? Great communicator? Argumentative? Liar? Words are their super power, and though some kids can articulate themselves quite well, they quickly learn that words are a tool to manipulate and hurt others. Learn how to create positive habits in your kids, and to encourage them to use their words for good. You have everything you need to be the parent your child needs- you just need a guide! Let me help you reach the hearts of your kids!   For more details visit www.familiesmattermost.com

What are you trying to prove? That you belong? That you are successful? That you deserve to be where you are? That you're worth it? Overcome feelings of inadequacy! Reach your goals without feeling like a fraud. Identify the warning signs, learn some tools to climb out of perfectionism and take a healthy step towards self-acceptance.  For more details visit www.familiesmattermost.com 

You are a limited resource. I'm getting real on the podcast and I hope this is the wake up you need to actually change your mind and be kind to yourself. I want you to live authentically, connect with your kids, and reach your goals.  Click here for your complimentary mini-session to see how coaching can help you overcome your biggest challenge- yourself.

How many times have you said, "This is it, I'm doing it, I'm going to lose weight!" The first couple of days, you were gung ho and ready to work, but it was tough. The next few days were a grind, but you were determined- and it got tougher. By the end of the week the world was falling apart, nothing was working, everything was a huge struggle and then the brownie buffet came calling. Ever been there?   You're not alone. It is possible to lose weight and live healthier, you just need the right support and better mindset. My special guest, Jacqueline, will explain how she is overcoming the struggles of changing her eating and lifestyle habits. Hear real life examples that will encourage you to live the life you really want!   I help clients overcome what's holding them back to reach their goals.  If you're ready to do the work like Jacquelyn, let's get you on the waitlist.  www.familiesmattermost.com      email me at familiesmattermost@gmail.com   -your coach, Jenn    Do you love these podcasts?   I would be so

Whether you're running a side hustle or a full time business, you might be treating it too much like a hobby to get the results you want. Not having a boss leaning over your shoulder means you can talk yourself into naps, social media spirals, and "working" lunches that are really just an excuse to visit friends. You know I'm right! I'm sharing what I learned the hard way, so you can maximize your time and be the boss of you! Check out www.familiesmattermost.com  for Private Coaching, or to join our Parent Mastery Program! This podcast is sponsored By Christine Jensen of Knowledge First Financial.  Knowledge First Financial is Canada's largest RESP company, and we have been helping families save for their children's education for over 50 years. Christine Jensen is local in Regina, but also services the provinces of Saskatchewan and Alberta. Not all RESPs are the same, and Christine offers free video conference consults to help you find a plan that is suitable, affordable and flexible to your family's ever-c

What are the symptoms of anxiety? How is it different from stress? In this podcast, coach Jenn Dean explains what anxiety feels like and what are the signs that it's getting worse. She talks about Three Levels of Anxiety- and the symptoms aren't what you would think! Let's grow in empathy for ourselves and the people around us. www.familiesmattermost.com for more details.

Vulnerable conversations are tough. Join mine.  I interviewed my sister-in-law about her experiences as a Black woman and mother. I'm thankful for Anthonia's honesty. I learned about some of my blind spots. I'm so grateful for her willingness to share her heart when, truthfully, words probably fall flat. I deeply regret that it took me this long to ask these questions, but Anthonia doesn't want people to feel sorry- she wants us to feel provoked to action against a system that works against her, her daughter and every person of colour. Join me as my family leans in to honest vulnerability.   Connect with Anthonia's passion: Ethos Lab   For more details visit www.familiesmattermost.com