Swoon: Love Lessons With Julie And Gina

How much time, energy, and money do you spend on couples work before giving up? How to know when fighting to fix a marriage/relationship turns desperate & destructive? Is divorce inevitable for some marriages or are all relationships salvageable? How do you handle pursuer/avoider (or distance/pursuer) dynamic in relationships? What's the difference between asking for reassurance from a partner vs. asking for consent?