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Love Notes LIVE • Episode 31Mutual ChoosingTonight on Love Notes LIVE, we got honest about what happens when you realize you’ve been the only one holding something together.This episode explored the shift from chasing to requiring, from hoping to seeing clearly, and from one-sided effort to mutual choosing.We talked about the difference between attention and intention, and how real connection feels when it is returned instead of negotiated.Tonight’s dedications featured:Baby, Come Back by PlayerIs This Love by WhitesnakeAlways and Forever by HeatwaveUp Where We Belong by Joe Cocker and Jennifer WarnesTonight’s romance recommendations:The Bridges of Madison County by Robert James WallerSay AnythingIn our Soulful Connections segment, we explored the truth that real connection does not leave you questioning your place, and that mutual choosing is felt through consistency, clarity, and shared presence.Calling All Romance AuthorsI’m opening up a new segment on Love Notes LIVE and I’m looking for romance authors wh