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3961: Guilt and Shame: Good and Bad Ways to Feel Bad by Keith Wilson on Understanding Shame

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3961: Keith Wilson draws a sharp, practical distinction between guilt and shame, showing how one leads to growth while the other traps you in avoidance and self-attack. Guilt focuses on actions and invites repair, honesty, and empathy, while shame targets identity and fuels denial, hiding, and conflict. Understanding the difference can help you respond to mistakes in a way that strengthens relationships and personal responsibility. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2017/01/06/guilt-and-shame-good-and-bad-ways-to-feel-bad/ Quotes to ponder: "Guilt moves you to repair. Guilt is a truth you tell. Shame is a lie you swallow." "Guilt identifies a problem and gives you a reason to change, so you’ll do better next time. Shame prevents change." "If you’re tempted to hide, to lie, to argue, or to judge, then sha