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Love Notes – Episode 18: Love Without PerformanceIn this episode of Love Notes, Allie Theiss explores a powerful and often overlooked shift in relationships: what happens when love no longer requires performance.This episode is for anyone who has ever felt the need to be agreeable, impressive, low-maintenance, or emotionally contained in order to be loved. Through poetry, listener dedications, music that honors authenticity, a Desire Drop™ centered on attraction without effort, and a Soulful Connections teaching on energetic coherence, this episode invites listeners to release roles and reconnect with love as a place of safety rather than self-management.If you’re tired of auditioning for affection and ready for a connection that feels real, this episode offers both reflection and relief.Inside This Episode