Pursue Your Spark

Midlife consistency can fall apart even when you know exactly what to do. You start again. You plan carefully. And somehow, staying consistent still feels harder than it used to—leaving you wondering what's wrong with you. In Episode 253, Why Consistency Feels Harder in Midlife (And What Actually Helps), we break down why staying consistent in midlife isn't about losing discipline or motivation. It's about how your life, your energy, and your responsibilities have changed—and why the strategies that once worked no longer fit. In this episode, we unpack why midlife consistency feels so fragile, how self-doubt creeps in after missed workouts or routines, and why pushing harder often backfires. You'll hear personal stories, practical reframes, and a midlife-friendly way to build habits that don't rely on perfection or burnout. We also explore why this isn't a failure of willpower—it's a midlife context problem—and how rebuilding consistency in midlife starts with understanding what's actually changed.