Empowered Couples

Sometimes it's not the big issues that unravel a marriage, it's the small, everyday moments that quietly stack up. A comment said with the wrong tone. A boundary expressed when stress is already high. A familiar frustration bubbling up again. In this episode, we walk you through a real moment from our own marriage that easily could have turned into a fight, especially in a season where we're trying to leave old patterns behind and start the year differently. If you've ever thought, "Why does this keep happening?" or felt discouraged that the same tension keeps resurfacing, this conversation will feel very familiar. Rather than glossing over it, we debrief the moment in real time, what was happening underneath the words, what didn't work in the past, and the subtle shifts that kept this from escalating. We talk about why trying to "fix" things too fast often backfires, how small pauses can change the entire trajectory of a conversation, and why understanding the need underneath the frustration matters more tha