Mantalks Podcast: Purpose | Legacy | Relationships | Self Mastery | Business

I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols to dismantle the biggest myths men believe about sex, attraction, and confidence. We talk about why performance anxiety kills connection, how curiosity builds real sexual confidence, and what actually drives desire in long-term relationships. This conversation goes deep into emotional attunement, power dynamics, attachment styles, and why better sex starts long before the bedroom.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - What Men Misunderstand About Attraction01:07 - The Real Role of Confidence01:25 - Porn, Netflix, and Sexual Myths03:46 - The Reality of Sex Statistics06:12 - Performance Anxiety and Spectatoring07:31 - Sexual Curiosity Explained08:02 - How to Improve Your Sex Life Tonight10:18 - Talking During Sex Without Killing Desire11:27 - Why Uncertainty Is a Myth13:52 - Self-Growth vs Distance in Desire16:09 - Planned Sex vs Spontaneity17:49 - How Confidence Is Built Sexually19:32 - The Sexual Unicorn Myth22:50 - Getting Out of Your Head in Bed24:32 - When Your Partner Says “I Don’t Kn