Shark Theory With Baylor Barbee

When life punches you in the gut—a lost wallet, bad news, a broken relationship—it's not the event that defines you, it's what you do in the next 90 seconds. Show Notes – You are now listening to Shark Theory… In this episode, Baylor shares a recent "gut punch" moment: realizing his wallet was gone and feeling that instant wave of panic and what-if scenarios. Instead of spiraling, he walks through how he used praxis—moving from theory to action—to keep his mind from running wild and to take back control of the situation. Drawing on a Marcus Aurelius quote, "This doesn't have to be something. This doesn't have to hurt you," Baylor breaks down how to intercept that first emotional hit, why the first 90 seconds after bad news are crucial, and how action can stop your brain from marinating in worst-case scenarios. He also reframes loss by separating what can be replaced (money, cards, IDs) from what can't (people, time, health), and challenges you to stop giving "thing-level" problems life-level power. In This