Minimum Viable Parenting

Getting kids to listen and follow our directions is the most common challenge parents face. Ideally, we think about setting limits with children before we run into conflicts. It is so much easier to be proactive. But even if we are finding ourselves stuck, there is a way out. The secret is in the relationship and the approach we take to setting limits.   Before we go ahead and set limits for the child, we need to ask ourselves how well is the child following the limits that are already in place. The answer to this question will depend on three important things:   How reasonable these limits are The quality of our emotional connection with the child How consistent are the limits   Instead of trying to force our children into compliance with our expectations, let's try a more effective way of communicating our limits to them. In this episode we explore the diplomatic approach that is based on the following five principles: 1. Limits are a natural part of life 2. Need for information 3. Quality