Permission To Be You

There's a sound that only you can make and there's a light within you, but it can be buried under a bushel because of clutter and the expectations. It's within us but it's somehow hidden. On this episode we continue to share some of our personal stories where the truth about expectations and their framework comes clear. Charlie was pawned off from relative to relative at a very young age, starting with his mother. The story takes place from four to seven years old. He found himself being moved around from home to home, with no explanation. As you can probably imagine, he had a couple of takeaways from that. First, he learned that he gave great first impressions.  Later, what he concluded was that he may give a good first impression, but that after that he's a piece of crap who's really not worth living in other people's homes. He had this real acceptance problem; he didn't feel accepted in love. It's an extraordinary thing that even at the age of four, we feel like we're responsible for these things and