Modern Southern Gentleman

I've been writing and speaking about being a southern gentleman for a while now and yet I've still not been able to come up with a simple, concise, definition of what a southern gentleman is. Looks like Coordinator of Officials Steve Shaw, may have done it. I asked him that question and he said "don't be a jerk". Boom! Mic drop. Steve had more to say than just this major hit of wisdom: -He describes the replay process and talks about who can stop the game for an "official review" -What he tells a coach when an "incorrect outcome" happens as the result of an official's job performance -How every SEC official held accountable for his performance It would be easy for a guy in Steve's job to be critical and overbearing but he's a better leader than that. He chooses words to get his point across and build his team up. Exactly how you would expect a southern gentleman to lead. Be sure you listen to the last 5 minutes of the interview because Steve is going to give you a secret to success that works 100% of the time