You'll Do Anything For Him/her

I realized at the age of 38 that I needed help to understand what was happening in my relationships. I wanted to know what was wrong with me that I kept looking to the outside for someone new while I was in a relationship. Almost immediately I was shocked to learn that I had not been growing emotionally. I had been stuck doing the same thing over and over again.   That realization felt so right to me. As I grew, and my self awareness took hold, I was again shocked to realize that I was looking outside my relationship to find someone new in order to get something that I was missing inside of me. I didnt know that Id been looking for a person, who would make me feel good about myself.  My self-esteem and self-confidence were shot.  That was when I also decided to change my career path and go back to school to obtain a Masters Degree in Psychology and then a PhD in Psychology.