Union Chapel Ministries

Hebrews 12:14-17Lies we believe that keep us from forgiving:Lie #1: If I get even, I’ll get better.Deuteronomy 32:35 – “Vengeance is mine, I will repay”Romans 12:19 – “Vengeance is mine, I will repay”Hebrews 10:30 – “Vengeance is mine, I will repay”Lie #2: I can forgive quickly.What does the process of forgiveness look like:1. Face your painQuestions you need to answer:What happened?How do I feel?How has it impacted me?How can I move on?  2. Release the offenseForgiveness is infinitely more important for you than the person who hurt you.Esau despised his birthright by trading it for a bowl of lentils. Don’t despise the freedom, forgiveness and love Jesus paid for by holding on to your pain.3. Pray for the person who hurt youWhat will happen if I refuse to forgive?Matthew 6:14-15Bitterness and pain will deteriorate all of your relationships.greiner@unionchapel.com