Other People's Shoes

Mirror on the wall, I turn away from your harsh truths I won't betray. I fear the judgment in your glassy gaze, the flaws you magnify, the doubts you raise. I know within, imperfections dwell, but in your reflection, they loudly swell. I long for moments without your call, to escape the judgment of the mirror on the wall. In the quiet shadows, I find my peace, where self-worth isn't bound by your ceaseless tease. Mirror on the wall, I'll choose to be free, from your relentless scrutiny, let my spirit flee. My guest today is Bekah George. Bekah is here today to say you can be so much more. Mark Wills a Country singer years ago sang:Don't laugh at me, don't call me namesDon't get your pleasure from my pain'Cause in God's eyes we're all the sameSomeday we'll all have perfect wingsDon't laugh at me...

The power of saying "Yes" lies in its ability to open doors to uncharted territories and unleash the boundless potential within us. It is a catalyst for personal growth, a key that unlocks new experiences, and a bridge to meaningful connections. When we say "Yes," we embrace change, challenge our comfort zones, and welcome the unknown with open arms. Saying "Yes" is an affirmation of life, a declaration that we are ready to explore, learn, and evolve. It is through this simple yet profound word that we discover the richness of existence, for in those moments of affirmative choice, we manifest our aspirations and give ourselves permission to thrive. My guest today is Paul Hollis. Paul shares incredible journeys through life. Taking us on a winding road through history. Join me as I walk in Paul's shoes. 

"What style of shoe do you like to wear?" This is a common question we start every show with. Well, today my guest is Wendy Wallace. Wendy gives a very unique answer. Back in 2011, Wendy contracted a flesh-eating bacteria. What started as flu symptoms, progressed into a life-threatening illness within three days. The doctors told her husband and kids that I had less than a 1% chance of survival and to plan for her passing. Wendy's husband's reply was, “You don’t know my God and what He can do!” Her family never lost faith. Word spread and hundreds of people prayed.  God saved her life. After three weeks in a medically-induced coma and three months in the hospital, she came home to a new way of living. Her family loved, supported, and cared for me. Stop letting your challenges derail your faith! Join me as we try our best to keep up with Wendy.

There is a scene in "Forrest Gump" Where Forrest gets on the bus and tries to sit down and is told "You can't sit here" "Seats taken" What I hear in that sense is "NOT here"! What about you? What do you hear? I believe strongly that some churches today don't want to still talk about porn in the church. "NOT here"! My guest today is Sam Black. Sam is the author of The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It and The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits. As the director of recovery education, Sam joined the Covenant Eyes team in 2007 after 18 years as a journalist. He has edited 16 books on the impact of pornography and speaks at parent, men’s, and leaders' events. Sam is passionate about helping Christians live free from pornography because he knows you keep what you give away. He walks his own grace-filled journey with the support of valued allies. Join me as I walk in Sam's shoes. 

SEASON FINALE:It's been said every story has a new chapter. Today we walk with Amy Getzlow. Amy is the wife of Neil Getzlow. Neil was a past guest earlier this season. Amy today shares her side of what went on as she discovered Neil had been having multiple extra marriage affairs. She shares her heart and how she was able to move past the pain. Join me as I walk in Amy's shoes.  

Imagine for a moment your father putting you in a trash can and saying to you "This is where you belong." What would that do to you? How long would that one event stick with you? My guest today is Dr. Mark McNear. Mark grew up hearing harsh words that undermined his desire to take initiative in life. After struggling with abuse, addictions, and rehab, Mark wondered fearfully what would happen next. Now, Mark McNear wakes up each morning with joy in his heart. He is filled with hope and longs for you to experience the same hope. He found hope through Jesus. And now Dr. McNear wants to share that God loves you and accepts you just as you are, right there in the messiness of your life. He’s pursuing you, and you won’t regret opening the door of your life to Him—or to other people who are available and able to help you in your recovery from trauma. If you want to take steps toward healing from your past, you don’t have to go it alone: get help and begin your story of hope! Whatever you are walking through, you ca

I'll do that later...Weight loss, it feels like that is one of those things we, or I keep putting off. I'll start next Monday. Well, today is the day to start. My guest today is Alana Van Der Sluys she is a Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, TEDx speaker, eating disorder survivor, and the founder of Freedom with Food and Fitness. She is dedicated to empowering women to heal their relationship with food and their bodies to step into their potential, take up space, and pursue true health. She currently hosts the Finally Free Podcast, and her debut book– Freedom with Food and Fitness: How Intuitive Eating is the Key to Becoming Your Happiest, Healthiest Self–will be released with Urano World USA on November 14, 2023. She is a contributing writer for several national publications, including the National Eating Disorder Information Centre (NEDIC) and Best Holistic Life Magazine. She was also, most recently, a panelist and speaker for the Speak Up Women’s Conference in April 2023.  Join me as I try on her well,

The phrase "the other side of the coin" is an idiomatic expression that refers to a different perspective or aspect of a situation, issue, or concept. Just like a coin has two sides, this expression suggests that there are two contrasting viewpoints or facets to consider. It implies that one should examine both sides in order to gain a more complete understanding of the matter at hand. This phrase is often used to emphasize the complexity and multifaceted nature of various topics, encouraging individuals to look beyond a single viewpoint and consider the broader context. Join me as I try on Paul's shoes. 

One of my favorite cartoon characters is Marvin the Martian. He has a quote "That makes me very angry, very angry indeed". Anger is a normal and natural emotion experienced by all humans at some point in their lives. It is often triggered by feeling frustrated, threatened, or hurt in some way. Anger can serve as a protective mechanism and can even be a motivating force for change. However, it's essential to understand and manage anger constructively to prevent it from causing harm to yourself or others. Today Natalie Hixson stops by to share with us how she as a mom handles anger. This is a very challenging episode if you or a friend has ever struggled with anger. Join me as we walk in Natalie's "Kizik" shoes

How are you fighting this battle? My guest today is Fred Stoeker. . Fred stops by to share why he wrote this new book "Battle On, Battle Over".  Fred believes you can achieve victory in your battle for sexual purity--Starting Today! Fred shares we live in a culture that's awash in pornography and sexual sin. For the first time in history, a growing percentage of women have been swept up by the same savage undertow as men, and they are drowning together in this heaving, destructive sea. Perhaps you've been gripped by the same relentless riptide, and it's yanking you into a dark, addictive abyss, causing you to wonder if there's a way out. Is sexual freedom even possible these days? The answer is an affirmative yes, according to Brenda and Fred Stoeker. (Husband and wife) In their remarkably frank and brutally honest book, they zero in on the root causes of sexual sin and highlight a major vulnerability in both male and female sexuality that sets you up for a fall. The modern-day scourge of sexual temptation is

When is the last time you heard "I forgive you"? I forgive you. Three simple words. Life changing? More like life-saving. My guest today is Neil Getzlow, Author of "Unmasked" Neil talks about the power of forgiveness and unconditional love is life-changing. For Neil, it goes back to that life-changing moment at the start of his journey in April 2020 when God helped him unmask all of his sins to Amy Neil's wife. He shares how nobody ever signs up to tell a story like this. Quite the opposite actually. He thinks a lot of people are addicted to porn, sex, drugs, booze, or whatever their vice of choice is, do exactly what he did: Spend years and years of energy trying to stuff their sins deep inside so they would never get out. Neil's mask was on so tight that he didn’t take it off for anyone. There was nobody in the world he was living in that knew what was behind his mask. Nobody. He was alone and trapped in his own sin. Fortunately, God had other plans for him. Those plans included repenting his sins and confe

"On this episode of Other People’s Shoes, join host Neil Matthews as he encourages listeners to put themselves in Other People's Shoes and change their perspective. Neil starts off by sharing a personal anecdote about binge-watching a TV show, setting the stage for a lively and relatable discussion. Later, Neil welcomes guest Sarah, who corrects the pronunciation of Missouri and shares her experience growing up in the state. As the conversation continues, Neil admits to his own fifth-grade mispronunciation of Missouri, creating a light-hearted moment between the two. Neil also mentions his goal of featuring guests from all 50 states on the podcast, highlighting the podcast's commitment to diversity and inclusivity. The discussion takes an unexpected turn as Neil and Sarah delve into the types of shoes they prefer to wear, showcasing their unique style choices and sparking a fun conversation. Moving on, Neil proudly mentions his teenage daughter's recent milestone of getting her driver's license, connecting wi

**** DISCLAIMER  PLEASE DO NOT TAKE UNLESS YOU SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP FIRST. ****A few months back a very good friend, who I believe is one of the smartest people I have interacted with Sean McCoy. Shared with me that he had taken Magic Mushrooms. My first reaction was "That has to be the dumbest thing you have ever done." "Why?"  After all Magic Mushrooms also known as psilocybin mushrooms, contain a naturally occurring psychoactive compound called psilocybin. When ingested, psilocybin is converted into psilocin in the body, which interacts with serotonin receptors in the brain, resulting in various psychological effects. Here are some general effects and experiences associated with taking magic mushrooms. Altered Perception, Visual and Sensory Distortions, Emotional Effects, Altered Thinking and Perception of Time, Spiritual and Mystical Experiences, Introspection and Personal Insights, and Physiological Effects. It's worth noting that the effects of magic mushrooms can vary widely depending on factors such

How would you define the word transcend? One definition is to go further, rise above, or be more important or better than something, especially a limit: My guest today is Catherine Llewellyn. To transcend beyond the mask means to go beyond the superficial or false identity that one may wear to conform to societal expectations or to hide their true self. It involves breaking free from the limitations imposed by external perceptions and embracing one's authentic self at a deeper level. It is a journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and inner transformation, where one strives to live in alignment with their true values, passions, and purpose. Transcending beyond the mask involves embracing vulnerability, accepting imperfections, and stepping into a state of authenticity and self-acceptance, allowing one to live a more fulfilling and genuine life. Join me as I try on Cathrine's very green flat shoes. 

We are unveiling the Mystery of Bigfoot: A Legendary Encounter. In this episode, we explore the enigmatic legend of Bigfoot, a creature that has fascinated people worldwide for centuries. My guest is Greg Roberts. Greg shares with us all things Bigfoot from his point of view.  We delve into the origins of the Bigfoot myth, tracing its roots back to indigenous cultures and Native American folklore, where stories of encounters with a giant, hairy creature have been passed down through generations. Join me as I slide on Greg's size 13 Skechers shoes.  

A narcissist is typically defined as an individual who has an excessive preoccupation with themselves, an inflated sense of self-importance, and a lack of empathy for others. They often have an intense desire for admiration and attention and may display arrogant or entitled behaviors. Narcissists tend to have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and achievements while belittling or disregarding the feelings and needs of others. How would you feel or react to a person that is like this? My guest today is Gloryah Rodgers. Gloryah is here to share why it's time to reveal that she can live no longer in the mask of hiding the pain and hurt from her father. Listen in to hear a young mother's heart. Join me as I try on Gloryah's amazing Crocs. 

There is something powerful about a double-edged sword. Would you agree? My guest today is Wes. Wes is a really amazing friend in my life. Wes shares what happened when was dragged away by his need to just fit in. Wes, also shares that you to can find freedom if you chose to remove the mask. I come before you today with a humble heart and a sincere desire to seek your guidance and strength. I acknowledge the negative impact that marijuana and alcohol have had on my life, and I yearn for the courage and determination to overcome these habits. I seek your assistance in this journey of healing and transformation. Grant me the strength to resist the temptation of marijuana and alcohol. Help me find solace in healthier and more fulfilling pursuits. Fill my heart with a renewed sense of purpose, so that I may direct my energy towards positive endeavors that bring joy, growth, and fulfillment. Please remove any cravings or dependencies that bind me to these substances. Grant me clarity of mind, so that I may make wi

How amazing would life be if you had a secret decoder ring? Secret decoder rings have been popularized in various forms of media, such as books, comics, or movies, often used by fictional spies or secret agents. They add an element of mystery and intrigue, allowing individuals to engage in code-breaking activities and solve puzzles. Sadly it is just make-believe. However, my guest today Dr. Sarah Hensley is here to help us with decoding the mask we may be wearing. In order to do that one must attempt to look beyond the surface-level presentation and delve into the deeper emotions or thoughts that someone might be concealing. It can involve empathy, intuition, and careful observation to uncover the genuine meaning behind someone's behavior, allowing for a better understanding of their true intentions or emotional state. Join me as I try on Dr. Sarah's flip-flops.

The term "swept up" typically refers to a state of being carried away or caught up in a strong, powerful, or overwhelming emotion, experience, or situation. It implies a feeling of being engulfed or overwhelmed by something, often in a figurative sense. It can describe being captivated, enchanted, or deeply affected by a particular event, feeling, or circumstance that leaves a significant impact. It can also refer to being caught up in a wave of enthusiasm, excitement, or fervor that carries one along. Overall, being "swept up" suggests a sense of being emotionally or mentally transported beyond one's usual state.  My guest today is Matt Garnier. Matt wrote a book called "Swept Up". Today we discuss elements of the books and have a very exciting back-and-forth conversation.  Join me as I try on Matt Garnier's Goodfellow shoesTo learn more about Matt click below. https://www.youtube.com/@MattGarnier

To "agree to disagree" is a phrase used when two or more individuals hold different opinions or viewpoints on a particular topic, and they decide to end the discussion or argument without trying to convince each other to change their stance. It acknowledges the existence of a fundamental disagreement while emphasizing mutual respect and the willingness to move past the disagreement without harboring ill feelings or prolonging an unproductive debate. My guest today is Brain Nietzel. Brian today shares about  one of today’s most divisive, hot-button topics—Christianity and the LGBTQ+ community—extreme voices seem to lead the conversation. Yet as you look to the quieter middle, where most of us live, you will find a more constructive and hopeful narrative playing out in the church. Since “coming out” 15 years ago as a gay man committed to his faith in Jesus, Brian has consulted with evangelical churches big and small to help advance the more productive conversation. He knows the tension of reconciling long-held