Legacy-dads Podcast

In this episode we interviewed JK Emezi from "Elevated Recovery." J.K. Emezi is a certified addiction coach, a sex and pornography addiction coach, and a recovered porn addict for just over 10 years. He believes it is WITHOUT A DOUBT possible to overcome your addiction to porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders while building a healthy and fulfilling life. J.K. has experienced this journey firsthand and the men he works with have done so as well. For the past 9 years, J.K. has helped men regain control of their sexual lives, recover fully from porn addiction, overcome sexual and social anxiety, improve their relationships, and lead fulfilling lives. We hope this episode is impactful and informative, if not for you, then likely for a man who you know. Please share the information and help others bring light into the darkness! For more information, please go to the following resources: https://www.elevatedrecovery.org Instagram: @jaykayemezi YouTube: @PornReboot Legacy Dads is proud to be p

This episode is the second half of the conversation between Dave, Dante, Jeff, and Lance as they talk through suicide, mental health issues, and the importance of seeking a relationship with God through it all. The guys give some personal accounts of things they've had to deal with in their relationships with others, as well as sprinkle in a little bit of eschatological humor. Listen in to the conversation and take away some keys for either yourself (if you're struggling) or for others (as we live in biblical community and vulnerability with each other).  For those who are in crisis and need immediate assistance, you can call or text 988 to get connected to the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States. Legacy Dads is proud to be partnered with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. For more practical and spiri

In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with New York Times best-selling author Mark Batterson to discuss his new book "Please, Sorry, Thanks: The Three Words That Change Everything" (available April 2023). Mark describes the importance of these words and bridges the conversation into playing the man and ensuring we leave a lasting legacy through not only our words, but our actions as well. Whether you're launching out into a new phase of life or navigating long-established complexities, it's time to harness the power of those three transformative words and let them propel you wherever God leads you to go! Listen in to the conversation and go get your copy today! For more information go to https://www.markbatterson.com. Legacy Dads is proud to be partnered with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. For more practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you wish to be, visit https://www.christianparenting.org.  

We welcome Lance and Jeff into the podcast to talk about mental health. In the military, in the private sector, there's no doubt that mental health is an issue that Legacy Dads must be prepared to address. Listen in to part 1 of the conversation and hear the guys talk through some of the foundational principles that help us to thrive, no matter the circumstances. Tune into the next episode to hear the conclusion of the conversation next week! Legacy Dads is proud to be partnered with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. For more practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you wish to be, visit https://www.christianparenting.org/.  

Chris Bruno joined the Legacy Dads for an engaging conversation on all things fatherhood and being a man. Chris is the Co-Founder and CEO of Restoration Project and Founder and CEO of ReStory® Counseling, devoting his life to helping people come alive. He is the author of "Sage: A Man's Guide Into His Second Passage," "Man Maker Project: A Father's Guide to Initiating His Son to Manhood" and "Brotherhood Primer: A Journey Into Genuine Masculine Friendships," and a licensed professional counselor. He has decades of experience helping men recover their hearts. Listen into this episode to hear about the comparison of men and fathers being nuclear power plants; the link between trauma and tragedy; and the importance of men seeking counseling in order to be effective ambassadors building the Kingdom! For more information about Chris' resources click on the following links: "Sage: A Man's Guide Into His Second Passage" book: https://www.amazon.com/Sage-Mans-Guide-Second-Passage/dp/B0B8RJ3CPS ReStory Counseling: ht

In this episode we interview Michael Schnabel, author of "Daddy's Girl: A Father, His Daughter, and the Deadly Battle She Won."  This is a story of one family facing the most daunting of circumstances, at once celebration and devastation. Michael Schnabel, Stephanie's father tells the story of survival and how three generations of a family respond to crisis. Stephanie's courage is fueled by her son's deep brown eyes and unconditional love. Her faith comes from the belief that something greater than us provides what we need, when we need it. Daddy's Girl illuminates a range of emotions, and delivers them with humor, love--and some miracles. Buy the book here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/daddys-girl-michael-a-schnabel/1142550888 More about Michael Schnabel here: https://authormichaelschnabel.com/ Legacy Dads is proud to be partnered with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. For more information and resources to become the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be, visit https://www.christianparent

In this episode, the guys start the conversation on what it looks like for a Legacy Dad to have financial freedom. "Leaving a legacy" means a lot, and it is important for men and fathers in all stages of life to ensure they are setting not only themselves, but also their families - and future generations - with financial blessings rather than burdens. The guys talk through assessing your current situation, taking responsibility for where you're at currently, being a good steward, giving to God what belongs to God, and determining what the financial future should look like as God's financially responsible man.  Future episodes on this topic are up to the audience, so listen in and let Dave and Dante know where they can take this wide-ranging topic! Free book offer (rules): For the first two listeners who send us feedback on this episode (i.e. future topics to cover under the financial umbrella), we've got two books to send you: Oh God Why Can't I Stop by Jason Ritchie, and Stumbling Toward Eternity by Josh Whi

In this episode, we had the pleasure to sit down with Jason Ritchie, author of Oh God, Why Can't I Stop? Are you sick and tired of failing? It’s frustrating to fail against the sin of this world. It’s even worse failing against temptation, fear, and faithlessness as a believer in Christ. You are not alone. Jason Ritchie never felt so “not right” with God as during his biggest failure. He cried out in distress, “Oh God, why can’t I stop failing? I can’t seem to stop. Though I pray, though I study, though I return to You, I still sin, and I don’t want to.” In the aftermath, he wondered: “Will You still keep me? Will You still love me? Will You still use me?” What does God say to these questions? Oh God, Why Can’t I Stop? examines God’s fundamental response to failure through the story of Peter’s denial of Christ. It explores the Apostle Paul’s lament in Romans 7:19: “For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.” You can find Jason's book and more information here

What do you do when it seems like the world around you is spiraling out of control, losing any sense of morality, and drifting away from the way which God prescribed us to live? Well, you learn ways to thrive! In this episode, the guys discuss the principle of thriving in Babylon. Whether it is societal influences or individual choices that we are trying to work through, the answer is simple: have hope, use wisdom, and above all, trust God! A good resource for this (which we didn't mention in the podcast) is a book called "Thriving In Babylon" by Larry Osborne. If you have the bible app, you can also download and complete a 7-day from Larry Osborne as well.  As always, Legacy Dads is proud to be partnered with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be, visit https://www.christianparenting.org.

We had the pleasure to sit down with Josh White to discuss his new book "Stumbling Toward Eternity: Losing and Finding Ourselves in the Cross of Jesus" which is out now (as of Feb 28, 2023). Josh's story is one of redemption and restoration which he weaves into the pages of the book. Josh White is a speaker, recording artist, writer, and founding pastor of Door of Hope, a thriving church community in the heart of Portland. He has recorded multiple worship albums, including as the frontman of Telecast. Josh has also produced numerous records, including Liz Vice’s first album, There’s a Light. Josh and his wife, Darcy, reside in Portland, Oregon, with their son and daughter. Find the book anywhere books are sold! Legacy Dads is proud to be partnered with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be, visit https://www.christianparenting.org.

One of our listeners sent us a message about some challenges he is facing with his relationship with his in-laws. The guys dive into the topic under the premise of first going to God, and second, realizing the importance of setting up healthy boundaries. When it has to do with protecting the marriage relationship, sometimes we need to take more direct action. Other times, we need to have some open and honest conversations and pray for the Holy Spirit to move in the hearts of those in our lives. Listen in as Dave and Dante discuss this topic...and let us know if there's more that we could cover! Book referenced: https://www.drcloud.com/books/boundaries Legacy Dads is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit https://www.christianparenting.org  

"Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one's youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them." (Psalm 127:3-5a). This verse explains our topic this week: all about being a new dad. Listen in as the guys discuss a few items that are important reminders for guys who are about to be new dads. Love your wife, plan ahead, and most of all...get ready for the new adventure that you will find yourself thrust into in a matter of months! Legacy Dads is proud to be associated with the Christian Parenting Network of Podcasts. To find out more about CPN, visit https://www.christianparenting.org.

What does it look like for men to follow King Jesus? Listen in to this interview with the CEO of BetterMan, Chris Harper. BetterMan is the definitive voice surrounding biblical manhood. Biblically rich, theologically sound, and incredibly practical content - Betterman exists knowing that having a clear vision of manhood changes everything. BetterMan is a series of studies on the essentials of biblical manhood. Each week, you’ll learn how to be a better man through live or video teaching and build relationships with other men through group discussions.  Chris Harper loves his wife, four children, books, basketball, movies, and 90’s hip-hop. King Jesus is his Savior, and Andrew (Peter’s brother) is his hero. Chris believes that Jordan is better than Lebron, and nothing beats Nashville hot chicken. Chris holds a Master’s Degree from Dallas Theological Seminary and is currently finishing his Doctorate at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary SWBTS. Chris’ academic pursuits center on the “father as chief pries

Porn is bad for you. Again...porn is bad for you! That's what this episode is about. Even though we all know the toxicity of the issue, it continues to be a problem. There's plenty of statistical evidence that shows what happens physiologically when you consume and get addicted to porn. There are plenty of stories of people who have tried to hide their habit and let it destroy them from the inside out. Yet it remains present, and something we must address. Listen in as the guys get real in a no-holds barred conversation about porn. If you take anything from this episode, it should be this: porn is bad for you. Stop rationalizing the behavior. Stop trying to say it's something else. You know what you're doing, and God knows. The best thing you can do is turn to Him and let Him overwhelm you with His grace and His mercy. That's the way out. And there are other resources you can turn to as well: https://www.fightthenewdrug.com https://www.theasservoproject.org/ https://www.covenanteyes.com https://exoduscry.com

In this interview we had the pleasure to talk with Aaron Tredway about his book "Don't Miss Your Life: The Secret to Significance." Live life to the fullest. Nobody wants to look back on a disappointing, unfulfilled life. Why then are so many of us dissatisfied despite our goals and continual striving? In Don’t Miss Your Life, Aaron Tredway reveals we’re aimed at the wrong target: success. Despite our pursuit of something more, we are stuck chasing our idea of success instead of true significance. But we don’t have to be rich or famous to lead a life of meaning in God’s kingdom. In this practical guide, Aaron shares his personal discovery of the secret to significance and invites you to live the life God created you for. Learn to recognize the exhausting emptiness of pursuing success, find liberation from a life without purpose, pursue God’s glory instead of unrewarding self-focus, and choose significance over success one step at a time. You were made for a meaningful, deeply fulfilling life, and you can achi

A few episodes ago (season 7, episodes 13 and 14) we discussed humility and vulnerability. In this podcast we discuss authenticity and how it correlates with those other two characteristics. In order to be effective in Christian community, we need to be authentic. Being authentic means being true to one's own personality, spirit, or character. Our sinful nature tells us to hide our truth, to not be authentic. But, as we discussed with both of the other qualities, when we are authentic with who we are and with those around us, the only thing that happens is spiritual growth in the image of God. Listen in as the guys discuss this character trait, and see if there are any areas where you could open this up in your life!

In this episode, we had the pleasure to interview Richard Capriola about his new book "The Addicted Child." This book is a parent's guide to adolescent substance abuse. In non-technical language parents learn how to identify and find treatment programs for their child. Brief chapters explain substances being used by today's adolescents and the process addictions which accompany substance abuse, like self-harm and eating disorders. Richard Capriola spent 11 years working as an addictions counselor for Menninger Clinic in Houston Texas before retiring in 2019. Menninger Clinic is one of the top ten psychiatric hospitals in the United States and specializes in the assessment, stabilization and treatment of adults and adolescents with substance abuse and psychiatric disorders. During his tenure there he worked in the Adolescent Treatment program and the adult Comprehensive Psychiatric Assessment and Stabilization program. Working closely with psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers and nurses he was responsi

"Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus" (1 Thess 5:16-18). On January 2, 2023, football fans witnessed Damar Hamlin suffer a severe medical emergency, being resuscitated on the field and taken to the hospital where he went through a miraculous recovery. In situations like this, it's important for legacy dads (and moms) to use it as a teachable moment. When we see something like that happen, how do we rejoice? How do we pray? And how do we give thanks? Even in the circumstances where it is difficult to do any of those three things, we are still called to do so because it is God's will for us who are in Christ Jesus. Listen in as the guys discuss the incident and talk about how to apply this particular verse into our daily activities!

We had the pleasure to interview Fox and Rob Richardson about their upcoming book "Time: The Untold Story of the Love That Held Us Together When Incarceration Kept Us Apart." This is yet another example that there is nothing that God cannot shine through. The twenty-one years that kept Rob separated from his wife, Fox, and their six sons was long enough. As Rob survived two decades at America's bloodiest penitentiary and Fox raised their sons solo, they never stopped fighting for Rob's freedom and for their futures against the statistical odds. All the while, it was love that carried them through. The Academy Award-nominated documentary Time introduced audiences to Fox and Rob, who riveted audiences with their relentless fight for each other and justice, despite America's broken prison system. This book tells the rest of their story. In alternating voices and intimate detail, Fox and Rob reveal what the film does not--how a person can cultivate the radical love needed to see them through any hardship and how

The Legacy Dads continue the conversation with Jeff, Joe, and Phil to discuss the ways in which Christians, who are living in their true kingdom identity, are called to mission. Whatever sector of life you are in (there are 7), God calls Christians to "therefore go and make disciples." That involves sacrifice, effort, and most importantly, full faith in where God leads you. Listen in to this episode to hear some truth-bombs being dropped by all the guests. If you aren't inspired to go and do something for the kingdom of God after this conversation, we aren't sure what else we can do! Step 1: shed the false identity and assume your God-given kingdom identity. Step 2: get into true community with other Christians (not fellowship...but actual community...where you're vulnerable with others). Step 3: listen for God...He is always talking. He'll point you where you need to go. Step 4: Go! Here is where you can find more information: Identity Exchange: https://www.identityexchange.com/ Reproducible Discipleship: h