Connective Conversations Podcast

Be thankful for what you have, you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have you will never ever have enough. Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance. Remember there's always something to be thankful for. Be sure to take the time to be grateful daily. 

Sometimes you just have to make peace with the situation or circumstances in order go move on. Focus on the lesson that's to be learn, and removing the stress and frustration. It's time to take back our control by deciding to choose peace and thankgiving. Let's discuss further in today's episode. 

It's time to take note of the tension, the uneasiness and the feelings of the routines and patterns in our lives. It's your time to go to the next level on your journey and you're sensing it.  Bu, you have to make a decision to disrupt your own pattern in order to see the change you want to see. Let's go a little deeper in today's episode. 

Disruption is the act or process of disrupting something : a break or interruption in the normal course or continuation of some activity, process, etc. In today's episode we're encouraging everyone to pay attention to the tension to get ahead of the life's disruptions. Join us as we discuss life's disruptions and how to pay attention when you're feel the tension, the unrest and the uneasiness. 

Have you ever found yourself having to go around the same Mountain, Having to deal with the same, Or similar situation time and time again? I know that I have at some point in my life. Going around the same mountain, May mean us having to try doing something different, Such as taking a look at other options available to us, Options that can help us to move on. And asking God to help us choose a different option that would produce a different result. A good result that can get us to move on. Going over the same circle can actually be very exhausting, frustrating and can also produce in us a sense of hopelessness. In the book of Deuteronomy, we are told about the Israelites who kept going around the same mountain for forty years.  A journey that would have only taken eleven days. Which according to scripture was due to unbelief and disobedience. Realization and acknowledgement of the lack of movement is the first step to acknowledging were we are. Find out the more on today's podcast episode. 

Big dreams have small beginnings. Don't be discouraged if your beginnings are small. Keep trusting God and sowing seeds and watch how things begin to grow.

Your head holds an amazing number of new, original, good ideas. Learn to turn off your mental filters and tap into your own creative depths …go write…and you might just change your world! Putting an idea out into the world allows it to exist in a way that makes it evident how it might evolve. So, how do you purposefully and intentionally unlock and release all the creative ideas living inside your head? Let's talk about it on today’s episode. Hope you will make time to tune in.

One of the major keys to having a September To Remember is to learn to persevere. Perseverance refers to our ability to pursue a goal or passion over time, and stick with it even when we encounter obstacles or setbacks. Distractions, and disappointments happens to us all. The key is to persevere despite what's coming your way. You will obtain your dream if you don't give up!!

Let's make it a September To Remember. Let September be a doorway to the season that awakens your heart and your soul to something different. Forget the mistakes of the past, remember the lesson and dream of the future. Believe for the impossible, the greater and the bigger. 

Are people in your life experiencing the emotional land mines in your mind? Are you often emotionally triggered? Emotional triggers are things (e.g. memories, objects, people) that spark intense negative emotions that can be abrupt, and in most cases it will feel more severe than what the trigger would logically call for. Be sure to tune in to this week's episode, we talking all about the emotional mines in our minds. Below are a few ways to defuse the emotional land mines in our minds. Own your feelings. First, remind yourself that it's totally OK to feel whatever you're feeling in that moment. ... Create a safe non-judgemental space to process thoughts.. Keep an open mind. ... Communicate.

Your mind is a garden. Your thoughts are seeds and you can grow flowers or you can grow weeds. Be discipline to cultivated flowers and root up the weeds. When you are undisciplined in your mind, you're uncapable of managing emotions from moment to moment. Instead, the undisciplined mind is entirely vulnerable to circumstance. Let's take control of our minds and our thoughts.

Validation is the desire to have someone else’s approval or agreement with what you say, believe, or do. Humans are naturally social creatures. We thrive in community and, therefore, have a strong desire to belong in that community and seek validation from it. You may think that this is perfectly normal, and it is. However, where things gets a bit blurry is when we start to base all of our decisions, as well as the course of our life, on a collective agreement from others. Depending on validation from others disempowers us in living our own life. Other people opinions shouldn’t override what we think, the decision that we have made, or the action that we are taking. Are you depending on the validation of others?

You can't Live A Positive Life With A Negative Mind. You must train your mind to see the good in everything. Being positive is a choice. What's consuming your mind is controlling your life. 

Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. A negative mind will never give you a positive life. So let's talk about a mind check.

It’s not always easy to open up about sex whether your single or married. But letting a partner in on your wants, desires and fantasies can strengthen your bond. We are inundated with ideas about what ‘great sex’ looks like. We see countless romantic movies featuring couples who are completely in rhythm with one another, who never need to discuss what they want, never misread each other’s sexual cues, never bump heads or act awkwardly but that's just not reality. Let's talk about on today's episode. Join on Apple Podcast...

Are you maximizing your single season? Do you have systems in place to ensure that you're accomplishing every goal that you establish during your single season. Don't allow your single season to be unfruitful. Produce as much as you can by establishing goals around what you want to see. Put some systems in place to help you take advantage of your single season. A systems is a single  collection of elements or components that are organized for a common purpose. Organize your single season to get the most out of your life.

Are you in a situationship and want a more serious relationship? You have the right to have what you want and deserve. A sistuationship is a causal undefined, commitment -free relationship. Many don't want this type of relationship but so many settle. So if you want a more serious relationship, first you must ask for what you want and be honest about your feels. Next you must not be afraid to course correct if you in a relationship you don't want by communicating your new position. Let's talk more on today's episode!!

My Single Sisters, STOP COMPROMISING  your values... Your worth is Priceless..When you compromise, you build a room in your relationships that the enemy of your soul lives in RENT FREE..."David Burrus"  No matter how long you have to wait in your singleness, hold fast to your values.. It will be worth the wait.

The time you spend single – which may be a temporary life stage, or could be your whole life – is actually a gift, if you treat it as such. It gives you the opportunity to do some things that would become more difficult after marriage, and properly prepare for marriage – if that is your goal. The greatest temptation in singleness is to assume marriage will meet our unmet needs, solve our weaknesses, organize our lives, and unleash our gifts. While marriage may bring joy, help, and relief in certain areas, it immediately multiplies our distractions, because we’re responsible for this other person. It’s a high calling and a good calling but a demanding one. So decide that you’re going to grow in your single season so that you become the person that you really what to be in your marriage relationship.

I know you’ve always imagined you’d be building the empire with a companion, but that isn’t your current reality, and that’s okay. Build while you wait. Build anyway. The lie most of us ladies are told is if we are too established, he will be too intimidated. Not true. In fact, there are some KINGS that are only interested in a QUEEN who isn’t afraid to establish a rich legacy by taking risks. Make sure you are always showing up as your authentic self, so that you’re attracting the person who is into you, not into who you “post” to be or the things you have. The person who doesn’t know themselves won’t ever be able to identify the parts in your life that make you suitable for them. So be a woman of value.. Continue to be  Ambition, Have Fun & Be  Confident because is sooo sexy to the right person.