New Life Live With Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions: My husband went to Every Man’s Battle four times and just failed a polygraph test because he said he was nervous. Where do I go from here?  How can we help my son who says he’s in an emotionally and verbally abusive marriage? How do we keep our five grandkids safe?  My 55yo […]

Caller Questions: My son came out as gay 10yrs ago and stopped having anything to do with us last year. If this was your son, what would you do?  How can I trust my narcissist husband to be truthful if we don’t divorce?  My older son blames me for the marriage not being perfect; should […]

Caller Questions: I’ve been a widow for 3yrs and would love to see you do a workshop for Christian singles.  I got a lot out of the Every Man’s Battle book, but I felt it was more geared toward married men; do I do anything different as a single?  I met my boyfriend in a […]

Caller Questions: What is the best way to develop empathy in my 14yo son? He is pressuring a 12yo girl to have sex.  I lost my job after a heart attack caused a brain injury 3yrs ago; what can I do to connect with my 17yo daughter before she leaves home?  The guy I used […]

Caller Questions: I attended Restore Workshop and Stacey and Laura have been such an encouragement to me! My issues were not the same as everyone else, but the pain of betrayal is the same.  I found out I had been betrayed most of my married life. He went to Every Man’s Battle, but I didn’t […]

Caller Questions: My adult daughter got involved with tarot reading and has been diagnosed with anxiety and bipolar disorder; how do I help her? We went to Intimacy in Marriage last weekend; learning we are not alone and how to use our words was powerful!  Why is it so hard for me to let go […]

Caller Questions: How can I get judges to listen to me? The mother of my 11yo son is not a good mom and wants to limit my time with him.  Do I avoid the instructor where I board my horse? I don’t know what to do because she lies.  How do I parent my six […]

Caller Questions: Your Fearless Parenting Workshop for Adult Children was so good! I realize last week I overreacted to my adult daughter; what can I do? Before going to Intimacy in Marriage last weekend, there was no hope; I now believe there’s 100 percent hope for my marriage!  How do I deal with being sexually […]

Caller Questions: How can we advise our son after his wife asked for separation due to his hand disability?  My wife would like her ex-husband to come live with us because he’s in bad health; is that a good idea?  Traumas in the Bible were healed through sanctification. Is psychology and EMDR compatible with the […]

Caller Questions: How do I get unstuck? My husband has been having affairs with different women for 10yrs.  My third husband divorced me because of his porn addiction and married another woman immediately. How do I move on?  I’m going through a divorce from my narcissistic husband who betrayed me by putting spyware on my […]

Caller Questions: How can I find hope if I just went to Every Man’s Battle, and my wife filed for divorce anyways?  What boundaries does a woman in my recovery group set for her teen son who just tested positive for marijuana?  Do I trust my husband if he left and didn’t speak to me […]

Caller Questions: My husband is a Vietnam vet and destroys things at our house; I need guidance as to whether he has dementia or bipolar disorder.  Is my memory loss concerning the past due to childhood trauma I suffered?  How do I forgive my brother for molesting my nieces? He’s in prison now, and I […]

Caller Questions: How do I deal with my anger from childhood abuse before I get married?  What can I do for my 14yo daughter who can’t stop watching pornography?  I am new to my faith and being harassed by a neighbor; how do I navigate this in a godly way? 

Caller Questions: How do I continue with my husband after I discovered that he uses homosexual porn and has had relationships with men?  A woman called your program about loud music in her church; I’ve been in music ministry my whole life and agree that a conversation needs to happen.  How can I help my […]

Caller Questions: How do I approach my 37yo daughter who says I’m gaslighting? Her twin sister died last April.  Throughout our 25yr marriage, I have felt inadequate; how do I stop feeling this way?  I just got married last summer and confessed my porn addiction to my pregnant wife; what can I do to save […]

Caller Questions: My wife got me to Every Man’s Battle 5yrs ago and it was life changing!  What do you mean when you say some people have a religious addiction?  Thank you for Fearless Parenting! What does a contract with your adult child living at home look like?  How do I connect with my husband […]

Caller Questions: My husband’s a vacillator, and I’m a pleaser and an avoider; is everyone who is a vacillator also on the spectrum of borderline?  Do I continue to pay for a car and phone for my 21yo daughter who lives with us but is involved with a drug-addicted guy?  Is it wrong that churches […]

Caller Questions: I feel stuck in porn recovery because I stopped putting God first and started feeding my flesh.  My pleaser husband called the show last week and said I was a vacillator with outlandish requests. How do we get past this roadblock? As a single mom, who should talk to my boys about the […]

Caller Questions: If I’m a pleaser and just started saying no to my vacillator wife, what are some suggestions to make it work?  How do I improve my relationship with my high-functioning autistic son while raising his 6yo son?  I separated 5mos ago; how do I recover after my husband physically and emotionally abused me […]

Caller Questions: Should I go back to my ex-wife now that she is a Christian and wants me back? Or stay with my Christian girlfriend?  How do I save my marriage after my wife said she can’t count on me?  My husband’s ex is cruel and keeps his 12yo son from him; why won’t God […]