Power Of Purity | Christian Views On Sex, Porn, Fornication, Adultery, Masturbation, Homosexuality, Transgender & Sex Addicti

Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity. Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love. In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis. Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse.  As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest. What if one person in the marriage in inte

In this episode Tony interrupts our current Podcast series - When Your Or Your Spouse Doesn't Like Sex - to present a special Christmas episode on the topic of the Incarnation. The Incarnation is not just a 2,000 year old historical event that we remember during the holiday season - far removed from the reality of our present day lives - but is in fact the very basis of the possibility that we can experience sexual healing and wholeness in our lives today. Would you like to experience healing in the sexual area of your life? Would you like to be a healthier person when it comes to sex? Would you like to control sex instead of being controlled by sex? Would you like to break the power that pornography has been holding in your life? This episode will help you understand what the Incarnation is - and how the Incarnation provides the power and the possibility that all these things can come true for you!  Or said another way... It's because of the Incarnation that you can experience sexual healing in your life! It

Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity. Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love. In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis. Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse.  As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest. What if one person in the marriage in inte

Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity. Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love. In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis. Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse.  As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest. What if one person in the marriage is inte

Tony's guest on this episode is Keelie Reason... who is known as "The Sex Talk Lady"... and authors the website lovehopeadventure.com Keelie noticed that so many women around her were struggling with sex within the context of their marriages, and were often reduced to "duty sex" as a kind of responsibility to their husbands. Keelie's passion is to encourage women to enjoy sex with their husbands instead of just enduring sex, and through her ministry she provides the practical information, resources, and tools that equip women for the journey toward greater sexual wholeness and health. In these episodes (41 & 42) Tony and Keelie discuss important topics such as... * What to do about the challenge when one spouse is low desire and one spouse is high desire * How to "get in the mood" when you're not in the mood * Dealing with the sexual baggage of your past * How to initiate sex with your spouse * The importance of communicating about sex * Becoming adventurous in the bedroom * Keeping sex from becoming rout

Tony's guest on this episode is Keelie Reason... who is known as "The Sex Talk Lady"... and authors the website lovehopeadventure.com Keelie noticed that so many women around her were struggling with sex within the context of their marriages, and were often reduced to "duty sex" as a kind of responsibility to their husbands. Keelie's passion is to encourage women to enjoy sex with their husbands instead of just enduring sex, and through her ministry she provides the practical information, resources, and tools that equip women for the journey toward greater sexual wholeness and health. In these episodes (41 & 42) Tony and Keelie discuss important topics such as... * What to do about the challenge when one spouse is low desire and one spouse is high desire * How to "get in the mood" when you're not in the mood * Dealing with the sexual baggage of your past * How to initiate sex with your spouse * The importance of communicating about sex * Becoming adventurous in the bedroom * Keeping sex from becoming rout

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another. There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE... 1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another. 2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another. 3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!  Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.  In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another. There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE... 1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another. 2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another. 3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!  Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.  In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another. There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE... 1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another. 2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another. 3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!  Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.  In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another.   This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!  Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.  In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 10 through 12. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another.   This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!  Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.  In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 6 through 9. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another.   This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!  Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.  In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 1 through 5. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!

There’s at least 3 very sobering realities about pornography that you should be aware of… You know how much you’ve struggled with pornography in your own heart and life. You know how the sexualized culture in which you live presents a never-ending parade of sexual temptation that will always be just 1 or 2 clicks away on your devices. You know that your kids are growing up in the same sexualized culture, and they will also face the same challenges and struggles with sex that you yourself are facing. It’s a pretty scary thought to realize that your kids are probably going to have the same struggles and issues with sex as we have struggled with so deeply. Did you know it’s inevitable that your kids will see porn… it’s only a matter of time? Did you know that the same porn that’s a never-ending temptation to you will also be a never-ending temptation to your kids? Did you ever wonder what you can do to prepare your kids for the inevitable reality of the porn saturated culture in which they live? In this episod

There’s at least 3 very sobering realities about pornography that you should be aware of… You know how much you’ve struggled with pornography in your own heart and life. You know how the sexualized culture in which you live presents a never-ending parade of sexual temptation that will always be just 1 or 2 clicks away on your devices. You know that your kids are growing up in the same sexualized culture, and they will also face the same challenges and struggles with sex that you yourself are facing. It’s a pretty scary thought to realize that your kids are probably going to have the same struggles and issues with sex as we have struggled with so deeply. Did you know it’s inevitable that your kids will see porn… it’s only a matter of time? Did you know that the same porn that’s a never-ending temptation to you will also be a never-ending temptation to your kids? Did you ever wonder what you can do to prepare your kids for the inevitable reality of the porn saturated culture in which they live? In this episod

Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?   In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?   In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you... * to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way. * to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. * to honor God with you sexual gift. What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift. 

Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?   In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?   In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you... * to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way. * to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. * to honor God with you sexual gift. What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift. 

Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?   In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?   In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you... * to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way. * to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. * to honor God with you sexual gift. What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift. 

Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?   In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?   In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you... * to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way. * to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. * to honor God with you sexual gift. What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift. 

Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?   In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?   In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you... * to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way. * to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. * to honor God with you sexual gift. What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift. 

Looking at porn isn't really that big of a deal.  Right?  I mean... everybody does it... and if nobody knows I'm doing it, who is it really hurting? These are the kind of thoughts many men have as the justify, rationalize, and minimize their use of porn.  And that's part of the reason that so many men look at porn... because if it's not that big of a deal... and it isn't hurting anything or anybody... then what's the difference?   In this session Tony helps men understand that in reality... they're paying a much bigger price for looking at porn than they think they're paying.  When you throw a rock in a pond there are consequences, because the rock makes a splash and creates ripples.  In much the same way, when a man looks at porn, whether he knows it or not, there are consequences in his life, and you can no look at porn and have no consequences than you can throw a rock in a pond and not make a splash or ripples. In this series - The High Price of Pornography - Tony shares a total of 10 "prices" men are pay